Meet an interesting girl on the weekend but she lives far away?

[Anonymous]

was in another city on the weekend , its about 5 hours away from where i live , don't go there very often , last time i was there was 2 years ago.

anyways is this pub downtown that i like and been to a few times over the years , she was a server there and worked the main bar. not even sure if she liked me , wasn't really able to figure that one out but she was definitely interesting.

anyways i looked her up online when i got home , which was surprisingly easy as there was a photo tagged of her on pubs instagram page. but she's actually more interesting and a better catch than i realised , she actually has a second full time job as a dental hygenist , has a cute dog and into exercise / running marathons. and it didn't appear that she had a boyfriend

i know what i'd do if i lived there , i'd go back to the pub and sit at her bar. try and talk to her , get a better feel and try and get to know her better

but i'm here and she's far away , it feels rather pointless to try and do anything about her at this point

[Avicenna]

I'd pass in this before you get too excited

[Asker]

i know , seem to have an easy time coming up with girls i'd be interested in dating but a much harder time actually getting with any of them or finding a realistic option

[Avicenna]

It's a problem most guys have, so you're not alone

[Asker]

i find a lot of the single ( or at least unmarried ) 20 somethings i'd like to date seem to gravitate to the bigger cities , one is 5 hours east of where i live , that was the city i visited last weekend and the other main one is 2 hours south , its much larger and be a lot of women there too. single women aged 20 -30 are in short supply here as they all seem to be someplace else