I hate being single but dread the thought of dating, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been single for about 6 months, since my ex cheated on me and we broke up. That was the only serious relationship I’ve been in, and it left me feeling pretty cynical about the concept of love in general. It’s taken me until now to reach a point where I feel I’ve properly moved on and could bear the thought of intimacy again. As much as I like the freedom of being single and independent, I’d love to have someone who was there for me, and feel the security of being in a loving relationship.

The whole concept of dating terrifies me. The process of getting to know someone, opening up only to risk them losing interest. Dating apps aren’t my thing, and I find it hard to meet people in real life, which is literally impossible now we’re in lockdown. I just want to have that feeling of falling in love again and a release from the fear that I’ll be alone forever.

[sheildagent]

Same! I was lucky that my ex-boyfriend was my friend before we started dating which was sooo nice and I'm now in the same boat as you the thought of dating is pretty dreadful. Maybe try meeting people at school or work and develop a friendship and maybe something might start there. The feeling of loneliness sucks but you'll find someone don't lose hope! <3

[JosyJosy]

You're gonna have to meet people again or you're screwed. And apps now should be handy to try again. With the quarantine I'd say you give it another shot

[Meatunnel69]

So many sangle girlies on here so sad. I am
single as well and dying to cuddle

[JosyJosy]

@Meatunnel69 Yes, internet wil have to do for now

[TheFlak38]

think of the thousands of nice guys you friend-zoned in favor of the asshole who didn't respect you.

[ChefPapiChulo]

sounds like you have to find your inner self pink anon.

[Anonymous]

You probably need more time before trying to go date again

[FrenchyRomain]

ever try having a fuck buddy?