I think what people tend to forget is "strong" and "weak" for either gender can be an attitude as well as a physical ability. And often, that attitude can deceive us.
Like a girl/guy lifting a certain amount of weights may appear to be strong when she/he asks for "15kg" more, but just because they asked for it doesn't mean they can actually lift it.
And someone who claims they can't carry something may actually be pretty strong and able to carry it but just claims they can't for whatever reason.
I mean from a personal perspective, I'm quite physically weak- no doubt about that lol, I've never won an arm wrestle in my whole entire life, pretty much everyone is stronger than me, and yeah sometimes a lot of things are heavy to carry for me, but if it's my bag I'll carry it, and if I'm asked to carry something that I find heavy unless I physically cannot lift it, or I struggle walking with it too much- then I'll carry it, who cares if it's a little heavy?
Strong girl. But I don't mean it's physically strong.
I mean... I don't care about whether a girl is strong or weak, as in how many lbs she is able to lift. That's not even something I think about. It's not on my radar.
That said, now that you mention it, given the type of butt and thighs that I'm into, for me to find a girl attractive, she'd almost have to have some lower body strength, de facto. But I don't like women with abs or muscular arms. So like... just lower body strength?
I'm just going to deflect and say that I don't care about a girl's strength as long as she's got a big butt, thick thighs, no abs, and no muscular arms. Do with that what you will.
Now i wouldn't go for either was looks more masculine than feminine (if she's like a runner or something I'd love it but all muscular and shit hell no) and i only get attracted to very feminine girls and the other looks like "i don't work I'm a princess" so both are a pain but if i must then imma go with the heavy bag girl
Most girls can't get very muscular. Only an untrained man would be weaker
I am unsure how it is unfeminine for her to have muscules within the genetic potential of a woman
The point ain't about being weaker or not.. Like a muscular girl (talking about strong structured arms and stone hard not just thicc legs) just ain't feminine like feminine girls are girly and delicate building muscle to the maximum potential doesn't project delicacy does it?(especially that how feminine you are affects such decisions in a proportionate way as in the more feminine you are the more you ain't likely to think about building arms and the more you'll act girly and stuff like that) I'm not saying it's bad it's just that I'll see her as a homie or a bro not a girl that I'm attracted to (it's subconscious and instinctive I don't choose that) like I'll probably talk to her about how hot that Brittney girl is or something.. And look when it comes to attraction most guys like the same thing (like each guy has a preference but no guy wouldn't like what I'm about to describe) pretty face Curvy not fat ass thicc but less than average thicc thighs full lips and overall a thin girl (that's actually my personal preference but my personal preference is kinda universally liked.. that sounded epic writing it).. While a muscular girl is more likely to end up being liked by certain men for the fact that it's more masculine than feminine which means that guys will like the idea of a masculine kinda dominant girl that's how it's seen from a guy perspective
Damn, the point of this whole post was that real wpmen don't have thepotential to look like your pics without steroids... what don't you understand? The girl i posted doesn't have too muscular anything in my opinion.
You don't need to panic i wrote these 5 hours ago and before seeing the second post if it was just about this post regardless i would have still thought you meant shredded everything and from the looks of it the girl here has shredded abs and arguably shredded arms (it's not a real picture everything could be shredded with this one honestly) but the girl from that second post you're right since that's what you meant by muscular there as I've been saying i thought girls can get shredded like men ain't nothing bad with the muscular you're talking about i already told you she's hot..
Girls can get ripped to a point, but they usually don't grow such big muscles without steroids, so they get muscle definition but with small muscles. However that look isn't easy to sustain for most women anyway, not even for guys.
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Strong is good. The only way a woman starts to look like a man with that is if she takes steroids. And when it comes to fitness models and athletes, both male and female, many more of them take steroids than people realise. So when men say they don't want a woman who looks like a man, they think of those women pretty much.
Both, in a way.
She should be able to survive and (even better) thrive whether the situation requires physical hard-power (like lifting things personally) or social soft-power (getting people to do her bidding). As the saying goes: Float like a butterfly, but sting like a bee.
I voted both, I find muscular women to some extent attractive. It portrays physical beauty as well as mental characteristics that are personally attractive. I hardly train legs and most women can squat more than me. Kinda bothers me lol but makes me train legs more. My upper body however is much stronger than any average female however.
What exactly do you mean by "strong"?
I have always found the petite body type appealing, but that's just a physical preference.
If that's not what you're refering to, then as long as I can still get the opportunity to help her out when she's not "strong enough" to do something, then that's fine.
I like very weak wimpy girls the most that are skinny and petite, but my second favorite is athletic girls that exercise and are much more capable than the average girls. If she could somehow be small, skinny, and petite and look very weak and wimpy, but magically be strong and athletic in her capabilities, that would be perfect.
I don't care how strong she is, but strength is generally a side effect of muscularity. And muscles on a woman are sexy as hell. So i'll choose strong every time.
And dude, don't worry. Even a strong woman is still weaker than you if you work out. Your body produces 17x more testosterone (natures steroid) than hers does.
Strong in mind is a must. Strong in body only to the point where they can handle any challenges they decide to take on. Beyond that it begins to feel like an obsession I personally wouldn't enjoy living around.
I actually prefer stronger women over weaker women (within natural limits). I've actually met some women who were stronger than me yet by appearance they did not look like they had anymore muscle than the average girl.
I'd want strong. Both physically and emotionally.
I find it kind of funny that guys would want a weak girl, as if they need their girl to be weaker to somehow maintain their ego as a man. That's actual weakness.
Strong is a umbrella term. Someone can be mentally strong whilst also being physically weak
But to answer your question middle is fine but nothing against super strong or super weak
If she can't carry her bag she made a bad choice and should live with it. The upper is just pushing her limit and that is only bad if you keep harming yourself.
I really don't care about her strength, she could be either weaker or stronger and I wouldn't mind either way. I tend to focus on personality and attitude way more than appearance.
I don't like neither to strong cuz she thinks then she can control you and if she is to weak like carry my bad all the time and she carry bricks; :D Thats annoying i had such experience makes me sick. Best if she is in the middle.
I prefer a weaker girl. They look and act more feminine.
Only insecure ones want weak girls
no we love feminine shy fragile girls not weak ones.
Fragile is relative. If a girl working out naturally is too weak for you then you probably don't work out either. And a girl who works out wouldn't look at a sedentary guy anyway
@Mamamialetmego lol
First speak for yourself, I know a lot if guys that disagree with you.
2nd, you just proved my point by being a misogynist dated male.
Weak isn't feminine it's just pathetic
And being shy also is just your personal preference because you simply prefer the female to be dependent to you instead of asking for a solid person, his equal.
I think you are brainwashed. When a girl acts girly, soft it's attractive for us specially masculine guys like me. I love confident girls i don't like insecure girls. But i like fragile girly girls. I don't want manly girls act like man.
@Mamamialetmego nahh
You just have a very simplistic approach😂😂
delicate
@Mamamialetmego you're not giving much to go with 😅
@archiz define weak
@Aakash_Hangargi someone who can't stand up for himself.
Someone who relies on other.
Someone who can't voice his opinion or express himself out loud.
Someone who isn't driven and gets what he wants.
Someone physically weak who likes to play the princess role and have someone help them out.
Basically someone who is not independent and self sufficient.
He is basically describing a very traditional gender role.
Nurturing, feminine, joyful. I don't like cold, aggressive, masculine girls. Girls can be confident but in a girly way not like manly masculine manner. I like girls that gives guys space to be a man. I want to be man and i want my girl to be woman. I want to be the one repares car and chop woods i don't want girls to do it. I don't know how can i explain this.
I am not worried about him, just wanted to know your view, I wouldn't call it weak of someone hands over there bag actually they might be stronger in different ways we cannot gauze a person like that on basis of physical strength, if a man is already having the strength and his partner having the same or more physical strength would not matter at all wrt to the question I mean
@Aakash_Hangargi that's just an example.
But she should be able to manage her business on her own, she should be able to carry her stuff on her own and not expect it from other males.
Now what she and her partner decide and want to do is none of my business.
Exactly 😅👍
@archiz what I felt is everybody has there own limits and that can change its we need to coordinate and fill the gaps without considering them as weak or strong💪😊
@Mamamialetmego you can be nurturing feminine joyful and be strong at the same time.
One doesn't exclude the other.
You do have traditional views though, I don't personally abide to those but you do you really. You are entitled to have a preference.
But I don't like it when someone misinterpret the use of some words.
Going by the 2 examples the asker proposed: weak and strong I don't get why someone would go for a weak person unless he is weak himself.
And I don't get why being strong is seen as unfeminine.
@Aakash_Hangargi ow also, it's not weak to ask for help.
I am mainly criticising when someone expects special treatment when they can actually do the stuff on their own.
There's no shame in not being able to carry certain weights tho, it's not what I am implying.
@archiz I get that, but the way how you expressed in comments to the guy why would you go for a weak women unless you are weak by themselves doesn't it sound I don't know how to put it but i think you understand?
@Aakash_Hangargi yea but that wasn't my main point tho.
I never said it's weak to not be able to carry certain ways.
I criticised "expecting" someone to do it for you when you can perfectly do it yourself.
But anw that was a small example I gave in my whole response I don't why we are talking about that in detail.
I gave several points as an example.
@Aakash_Hangargi weak doesn't strictly imply physically.
For me it's more the attitude of wanting to be able to manage by yourself.
Sports and weightlifting is a lot of mental and physical discipline. A discipline that you can apply in your every day life.
@archiz I thought that was your conclusion as why a person would go for another person unless his weak himself so I asked, because as in a vehicle a motor is attached to back wheel to rotate and front wheel doesnot require any I won't call that its weak or useless it has its different purpose and without that it won't be possible to balance the bike so both are required and I am saying this in general point wrt to question and not as an debating point..
@Aakash_Hangargi unless we are talking about a 4 wheel which offers better grip and can go offroad😂
@archiz still the power would be with back tires and bikes are better on off roads 😂😂
@archiz it's just a preference. Not saying that insecure guys aren't intimidated by strong girls, but I don't think every singe guy that likes a physically weak girl, I assume this is what's on the table, is an insecure guy.
If we are talking about having a thing for mentaly and emotionally weak girls then I really can't disagree with you. Any guy that persues that has some form of issues.
And for the recond I don't think being shy, caring or act feminine is related to be mentally or physically weak.
@ThisIsMyOpinion i didn't limit it to the physique.
I meant it as a general aspect.
And he said he likes fragile women which really gives off a bad definition really in general not just physically.
I never criticised him for liking shy girls by the way
Nor did I say being caring is bad.
Though being shy is relative
If she is shy because she likes you that's one thing.
But if the person is usually shy overall with everyone tend yea that person should work to better himself or else people are going to eat him up in the workplace and in real life
What do you mean by acting feminine?😅
@archiz
We should all be strong as a general aspect. I agree with that.
If he likes fragil women depends a lot on what he means. I believe that he meant it as not physically rough.
I know you didn't I was just giving my postion.
As long as he or she can step up in the crutial times I see no problem.
By acting feminine I am actually talking about body language more than anything. Women and men have diffrent quirks on the way they move. It was on my list of thing that are not equivalent with weakness.
I think, for a lot of people, their "independences" goes too far, to an extent where it hurts their relationship. Everyone, both men and women, like to feel needed, so if the one they're with can do everything on their own and never needs to rely on you, then it's easy to start thinking, "Why am I even in this relationship, he/she clearly doesn't need me" and they end up unhappy and break up. Which, in turn, will lead that person to seek out a less independent person next time, because way too many people can't seem to find a proper middle-ground.
@AD240pCharlie it's more a matter of "want" then "need".
You want to be with this person
You don't need to out if dependency.
I think being with someone if need is kinda selfish even because you expect him to fill a certain void.
Maybe I should've expressed myself a little bit better.
When I said "need", I didn't mean that the person needs them to survive or to make it, I mean specific situations. Talking as a man, there is no better feeling than knowing that my partner can rely on me, that I can make her feel safe and help her out when she needs me too. If someone is too independent, their partner never gets the chance to experience that feeling. It's not about needing that person in order to be happy, it's about letting them feel like they actually contribute something to your life rather than just hanging out and having sex.
@AD240pCharlie ow yes I definitely agree then
you guys go talk in private
@Mamamialetmego you commented on my post let me remind you lol
And if you are annoyed by the notifications just mute the question and problem solved.
You are so bitter towards me lol
@Mamamialetmego lol no peace bro😂👍🏿👍🏿
She doesn’t have to be a weak girl generally, but weaker than me for the most part, yes. I’m certainly not attracted to girls who lift weights 🏋️❌
I'd like the endurance version of the first pic. But I don't have too much admiration towards strength athletes.
Both seem a bit extreme, so neither. I'd prefer someone in the middle ground.
Hands down strong girl. 😍😍💓💓😘😘
Which ever girl greets me when I get home from a long day of work with a hug a smile and possibly a cold beer
Basically.. a strong partnership requires a strong partener.. how can weak mindset handle a powerful mindset.. you get what I meant!
Probably stronk girl. I wouldn't want to be with someone like the weak girl in this image (bitch carry ur own handbag).
Also strong girls take charge more. Saves me having to do everything.
I prefer the strong girl physically... as long as she is still feminine. 🙂
Weak girl has more sex appeal because she doesn't look like a man.
Strong. So I don't have to worry about her getting butt raped by a diseased, crazy, meth addict.
Either really, I guess A but either wouldn't bother me
Can't stand those weak games or people whining and needing help all the time instead of doing or figuring it out on their own before coming for help.
It doesn't matter to me, if she's strong then thats fine, if she's weaker that's also fine, but if she just acts weak to get out of doing her fair share of stuff then that's when i get peeved
Gal can be strong, just not stronger than me (though that's unlikely, but possible I suppose).
Am fine with slim thick, yes I ain't hold her purse until she really needs help
In that picture, i definitely prefer that girl is above. And i dont care if she uses steroids or something. Even if she uses that things she must be workout after all
Fit, definitely. And smart enough not to wear heels when we go out.
Its not about being physically weak. Its about acting feminine.
Strong enough to do her own tasks and able to lift what an average person can.
Even if she is stronger than me no problem. only if she isn't physically abusive.
Strong girl is fine. Just don’t want a muscular one. If she’s stronger than me but looks attractive, I would be confused. It wouldn’t matter as I shouldn’t fight her
Doesn't matter. Both would be is still weaker than me.
I don't girls who look like they could be bodyguards. I like girls to look like feminine women.
If you only knew, some women's handbags are capable of half of Narnia inside :o
Both. "Its too heavy for me" is just an act anyways. But one I really really like.
I like the ability to be masculine for my lady. But God bless it's also sexy when a woman is working along side you.
I prefer stronger girls, by that I mean fit and toned, not extremely muscular.
I prefer the ones that need help the with heavy things.
Strong girl. So she won't need help carrying the laundry basket.
As a man, I prefer feminine women. Does that answer your question?
if she's healthy I'm all for either
Of course strong is better.
Not totally weak or totally strong. Being fit is enough
I prefer strong all day... And well mmmm night ...
I would emotionally strong. else nothing matter
That's not how normal guys judge girls.
What's wrong with it
Not necessarily wrong
Weak girls are cuter and more appealing, to me.
Sometimes can be strong and sometime can be weak
Strong girl of course!
A submissive strong girl.
What does this even mean?
@VolleyballLover122 I meant she's not a whiny girl but a submissive one.
So you will not carry her bag?
@VolleyballLover122 Did I say I will never carry her bag? Also life isn't all about bags.
Life isn't all about bags you nailed it😂😂😂🤣🛍️
Other, neither is better, they are just different.
Both, but without the parentesis
A non self absorbed girl lol
Weak girl. I don't have time to argue with people
Strong girl that still looks feminine
Neither
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