Why White Men treats Asians like a Slave?

Question

I had a live in boyfriend before who is a European and I am an Asian nationality.
He expects me to do house chores all the time and leaves more mess without considering my workload. He doesn't also cook and expect me to cook and do grocery for him.
Even do laundry, he can't do it by himself and wait for me to do it.

My European boyfriend just lay into bed watching movies, playing games, smoking, partying, texting and even demanding me things to do even he knows how tired I am from work. He also texts and meet other girls behind my back. He got mad if I do house chores for him, while he does really nothing.

I tried to ask other people about it. They said WHITE MEN are like that they want you to serve them and talking to other girls is normal for them. REALLY ALL THIS THINGS ARE NORMAL FOR THEM?

So I am wondering why White Men foreigners treats Asians like a Slave, instead of a girlfriend?
Do you see Asian SMALL, so you have to treat us that way?

_SOARER · Accepted Answer

Its unfortunate but a lot of white-men see Asian women as submissive and as a cheap and easy way of getting pleasure.

I think white-men need to stop chasing after Asian women, and go after white women. As a white-man who had 2 Chinese girlfriends in the past. The culture, the values, the way of being is so different, its very hard for an inter-racial relationship to work.

I suggest you leave this man and find someone who understands you

Celtero · Accepted Answer

Pretty sure women just don't know how to say "no." See this shit all the time, and you know, maybe you bitches should look for guys who take care of themselves and not expect you to be their mommy? So fuck off whining about all guys when the real problem is YOUR POOR TASTE in men.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Generalizations are a fallacy. You may have noticed some white men do such and such, that doesn’t mean they all do. Do you appreciate when people make generalizations about Asians? I bet not but since you’re doing the same thing kind of makes you no different. 🤷🏽‍♀️

MzAsh · Accepted Answer

While it’s unfortunate that some men want a submissive woman to do everything for him, there are also good guys who wouldn’t dream of it. You gotta get rid of this loser. I’d consider gathering evidence and suing him if you can.

Anonymous · Answer

I am of European decent, but what you are describing is abuse. There are two types of men attracted to hard working women: Hard working men and lazy fat asses. I try to work hard and respect Asian culture because it values work. A women who works hard makes me want to work harder, because a man can and should work harder. Men see Asian culture and how hard the women work, but they don't realize the men work just as hard or harder. I personally want a hard working woman regardless of skin color, but decide based on Christianity. You should divide the house chores, if he declines you might have to leave.

WadeDanielSmith · Answer

How about dump this idiot and date me instead?

I know how to treat a woman like a Queen, and I do my own dishes and cooking and clothes and stuff.

I love Asian women. You're all so gorgeous and incredibly intelligent. Wo ai ni. :)

0112358 · Answer

This isn't remotely normal, I suspect your boyfriend specifically went and found a more traditional girl he could treat that way. Dump the loser, you can do better.

theChineseWASP · Answer

He probably not successful in his home culture and so just turn to you because he think you may be easier since you are not white. I would just try to find a new boyfriend.

ShortCircuit · Answer

I'm sorry you had a negative experience, but obviously not all white men are like that, and your friends are racist for suggesting it.

MiamiMadness · Answer

No it's not a white thing, it's a douchebag thing. Find another boyfriend

Anonymous · Answer

He is treating you kind of like a damn Asian man would treat you. You are probably a Fillipino gold digger and your boy friend got you in his country on a visa. Well suck it up butter cup, welcome to the land of milk and honey.

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

Sound like he was an asshole that's not a race thing you have men like that in every race. Word of advice if you meet another guy like that dont stand for it.

American_Centurion · Answer

Some men are like that but then you let him treat you like this so it's all your fault.

COMMODOREII · Answer

That is not true what he said. He is just an asshole. 😤

coffeewithcream · Answer

Your boyfriend is an asshole. Drop him like a hot brick. Not all white men are like that.

worldscolide · Answer

No, not all white men are like that, in fact most aren't, he just sounds like a lazy asshole.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know what going on Europe but if I were you I would try talking to him and if that doesn't work I suggest you leave

OddBeMe · Answer

Weird. I think you’re hanging around too many assholes. All the white people in my life wouldn’t treat you like that.

SuccessfulHornDog · Answer

Well, why dont you leave him and date anyone who is not white?

iFarted · Answer

The real question is... why is he still your boyfriend?

Cryptic-Game · Answer

You can't stereotype all white men. Yes, there are bad men in every race but it isn't because of their race.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

I mean that's a girls role so I see no problem there

CorruptFile · Answer

Dump his lazy fat ass, you don’t that kind of negativity in ur life sis.

Avicenna · Answer

Nah, that's just your boyfriend

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