Have all of the good ones been snapped up by age 30?

[TommyLeesGal]

Seems like all the single people are damaged goods now and the good ones have been snapped up 🤣😅

what does everyone think?

this isn’t to be taken too seriously by the way it’s just for a bit of fun!

Yes they’re taken

No they’re out there!

[Cynicaldreamer]

Wow some of the responses to this question are pathetic. Apparently being 30+ years old and single means you're "damaged goods" or undateable? NO. Some of us have bad experiences with dating, finding someone that wants us, or prefer being single because the dating scene is terrible! Especially as you get older.

No, not all the good men and women are gone after 30. As I said, most of us just get passed over due to our age (which is their loss!) or we're so used to being single, we focus on other things in life, such as our careers, family, friends, and other matters. Dating just does not seem as important as it did in our 20s.

[SueShe]

As a matter of fact, as soon as those hormones start kicking in, people, regardless of gender are damaged goods because they tend to think with their genitals and not so much with their brain anymore.

I experience it every day here on GAG when I see those questions asked about a number of topics. It makes me wonder what has become of decency, civility, morals and a number of other qualities the elders had.

The damages are slowly reverting once they reach their sixties because they realize that they don't have that many years to live and they calm down and behave the way normal people do.

[blank_expression]

Yes, couples that formed young are established mostly and all the leftovers are all that are remaining. After 30, if you are single most likely that is how you will stay. Everyone becomes accustomed to their way of life by then and is too inflexible to bond with someone. By the time one is 30, the mental baggage is too heavy, damaged grey matter.

[ecfresh]

Ha ha I picture giant birds tracking good people and sweeping in to take them all away, leaving what we see around us today. Yes, most people end up with skeletons in their closet

[TommyLeesGal]

🦅 here they come!!! Hahaha

[Anonymous]

Nah, we're all a little bit damaged and it's hard to find someone who complements us, someone who accepts us, flaws and all. People kept saying I'd find the "right one" but I was skeptical. I think I found him two years ago, I still am a bit skeptical about it, like I'm waiting for the truth to reveal itself so I can say "I knew it!" and cry myself to sleep lol
So far so good, everything's perfect, a little too perfect it's scary
My point is that you will find your half lemon too and it will be someone who respects and values you, someone who's not scared of saying 'I'm sorry' or of putting you first because he'll know he comes first for you too, someone you can picture a future with. And it's ok to be weary, you'll meet many men before a good one comes your way, the one that's good for you...

[TommyLeesGal]

Thanks for that :)

[Twenty2]

Are you single? If yes, do you consider yourself damaged good?

[TommyLeesGal]

Oh I’m definitely damaged 😂 I think anyone who has had just one relationship even usually is

[Twenty2]

I think so too unless the relationship was honest and the breakup was honest which usually isn't the case. I have never been in a relationship tho. Wanna talk?

[TommyLeesGal]

Ah that’s sweet but I’m not looking for anything right now :)

[Twenty2]

I am looking tho!

[Avicenna]

There is some truth to that because we all have baggage as time goes on.

[Anonymous]

It only makes sense.

You throw away trash and keep things that aren’t broken.
You buy good things and don’t buy broken things.

So a shit person will be tossed, and a shit person will stay a shit person.
The good ones get into relationships and stay there.

[Iron_Man]

Nope I'm the last man standing, never been married no kids

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

There are tons of good men over 30 that want families and life long relationships; there are next to no women worthy of those things over 30. Too many partners, already have kids, years of baggage and bitterness that will only get worse.

[Thatsamazing]

Most of the good guys? No.
Basically all of the good girls? Yes.

[loveslongnails]

Who ISN'T damaged goods? I'd like to meet that person.

[scott04sa22]

I'm single but for some reason they don't like me for some reason.

[zagor]

Not true at all. Almost no one I know who is married did so before 25.

[Bman4907]

I don't think they're damaged goods, just have experience that others might not have.

[Anonymous]

That's how I feeel!!!
A women would not leave a wonderful guy.
Almost all good ones are taken
:(

[KrakenAttackin]

Unmarried women 30+ are usually psychological dumpster fires.

[Anonymous]

I like to think I am a good one and I am still available at 36.

[Anonymous]

Yes
The remaining ones are those with insecure attachment types... So, good luck.

[Anonymous]

Just date younger men

[TommyLeesGal]

I definitely could I always pass for 5 years younger than I am

[Twalli]

Most aren't because girls aren't stupid.

[midnightmoon05]

Most have been.