Everything was normal, we texted a lot, have jokes etc. and suddenly he disappeared for two days. When he came back, i asked him, where did he go and he said he was sick and doesn't has internet connection. I knew that he wasn't tell me the truth but i didn't ask more. I just said that i'm sorry that i didn't know he was sick and i'm sorry i cannot be there with him when he wasn't feeling well. We texted a lot that day and i asked him what would he do if he lost my number since WhatsApp is the only way for us to keep connected with each other just to see his effort. But there was not much effort from him, he just said that he will try his best to find me but didn't even say how, i hoped he would ask for my IG or email address but he just didn't. On the next day... he just ghosted me again and didn't even turn on his wifi for days now.
Why do you guys give us hope and then just leaves us?
I really miss to be in a relationship, I really miss to ask about his days, to support him when he sad, to listen to his problems, to be there for him.. to have someone to care about, to feel appreciated, to feel loved. i really miss all those beautiful feelings; to love and be loved. Please pray for me to be given the right man for me who we will never stop loving each other and always try our best for each other.
p/s I'm sorry if there are lots of grammatical error
Im sorry but i really dont like this obession people have with 'ghosting' i think the whole thing is total bullshit.
He disappeared for 2 days with no internet connection and you claim that you know that isn't true, to me what that means is that some bullshit app told you he was online and you believed the app.
Well Im sorry but apps are total garbage and routinely give false status information so if thats the basis of your 'knowledge that he was lying' then you are simply being ridiculous.
You wisely and correctly identify that its not good to only have that one method of communication because if it fails then you are screwed youve just lost each other but instead of telling him your email address so that he has it, you instead choose to just feel sad that he didn't ask, it might sound stupid but it may not have occured to him for whatever reason it actually doesn't matter, the key factor is that you knew how to solve that problem, you wanted to solve the problem and you didn't, thats your mistake not his. Now if you want to say that he is an idiot or something, fine, but you dont get to complain about communication problems when you make choices to withhold solutions to problems.
Now you are saying that he is ghosting you completely and treating this whole thing as being over and are taking advice from people telling you to just move on when its well within the realm of possibility that he doesn't have a fucking internet connection and is missing you as much as you miss him.
This whole thing is absolutely ridiculous and this is what people are like now it seems.
Assumption is the mother of all fuck ups, you dont know anything and are choosing to assume the worst, thats the whole story here.
The last time you spoke was only a few days ago and you were in contact 'a lot' and since that time the app, which can't be trusted thats true but it is telling you that he is offline.
So the most reasonable explanation is that he doesn't have an internet connection.
Now maybe he has decided he does want to continue being with you and doesn't have the bottle to tell you that, maybe he met someone else, those things are possible but they actually dont fit at all with the description of the situation.
For you to be shit canning this whole thing already based on no information at all is absurd.
This ghosting meme really makes me angry, its so fucking dumb, childish and egotistical and it is destroying relationships.
Thank you @Guffrus no, i just felt it. that's why i didn't ask him more other than apologize to him and told him that i didn't know he was sick. i just don't like to accuse him for something i'm not sure. i just felt it because he didn't say anything to me the reason of why he dissappeared for two days until i asked him. i didn't give him my email for him to contact me because there was no effort from him. it makes me realize that he doesn't has the same feeling like i do because if we love someone, we'll do anything not to lose them right. no matter how much i like him but if there's no effort from his side, i think i should know my worth there.