How often should a couple see one each other?

I'm the kind of person who is BIG on quality time. But my girlfriend is like an hour away and claims that she's so busy with work that kind of travel time makes it unrealistic to see one another more than maybe twice per-month. And we NEVER go anywhere together. Am I crazy to think this is too little time spent together when she hangs with friends every day and I'm willing to make the drive?

How many times per month should a couple see each other, minimum?

  • Daily
    Vote A
  • 4-7 times per week
    Vote B
  • 1-2 times per week
    Vote C
  • 2 times per month
    Vote D
  • Once per month or less
    Vote E
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I meant for the second poll choice to be 4-6 times per week... sorry for the redundancy.


Most Helpful Girl

  • Look If a girl is into you she will

    Make time to see you as often as possible. She'd rather see you than her friends. U'll be her top priority. This the case ALL the time. No exceptions. This is the way women are wired. For that we get labeled as "clingy". Where as to us it is just being loving and caring. If this is not happening then I'm sorry to break it to u, but she simply isn't into u. So don't fool yourself or try to rationalize the situation. You have two choices here 1) adjust and lower your expectation of this relationship. 2) leave her ass. Make it good. :)


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What Girls Said 5

  • My boyfriend and I try out hardest to see each other every day and the longest we go without is like 3 days...and that is wayy to long for both of us..Right now its a little hard because I have 2 jobs and school and he has school but we put each other first b4 other friends, but we are also in a serious relationshp and have been together 3 years so I don't know about you, it really depends on how serious and how long you have been with her..but imo 1-2 times a month is nt neary enough, an hour is really not that far...

  • Me and my boyfriend see each other def twice per week and if he's not working weekends then we see each other over the weekend. Longest we've not seen each other is 4 days and that's if ne/him/both have plans.

  • id say 3 is perfect but there isn't a 3 option.

  • My boyfriend and I see each other at least twice a week and talk daily, and we're only 20 min away from each other.

    If she really wants to see you then she'll make the effort.

  • It depends on the couple, but for me 3-4 days a week is perfect.


What Guys Said 1

  • Depends on the people, but I'd say try and see each other as much as possible. At the very least communicate daily.