But maybe you can find the ā40 year old virginā or something. But I highly doubt you are going to find a guy who fits all āyour standardsā but you might find a few good liars out there. At least this guy is honest.
I mean, not really, because I have my dream man, whom Iām very lucky and blessed to have. I wouldnāt want a 40-year-old, virgin or not. Iām only 23 lol Good men are not actually that hard to find if you respect them, are good to them, show how much you appreciate them, and give them something to respect too.
And I donāt think my standards are unreasonable. Theyāre high, and it takes a really good man to meet them, and Iām proud of that because it keeps me away from the ones who would be bad for me, like the particular guy mentioned in the question, and it gives me the good man I love. Low standards and no goals leads to destruction and waste. So my standards are high, but theyāre reasonable as long as Iām not a hypocrite about it, and my man meets them and actually exceeds them and everything Iāve ever wanted.
If a guy is honest about a gray past thats a sign of some decency. There are lots of very good liars out there.
Iām no saint (my number is much higher than his) . But I have never in my life lied to get laid although Iāve seen tons of other guys do that. I have refused to answer unfair questions but thatās not the same as lying.
I just see you getting suckered for some scumbag in the near future. He will tell you everything you want to hear. But he will be a liar. By the time you find out it will be too late.
I disagree. Weāve loved each other for over a year, and heās never lied to me. Plus that I know his family and his sister has been my best friend for the last five years - all through undergrad. I think maybe you just canāt accept that Iāve actually found a man whoās good enough not to have to lie or avoid questions. And thatās another thing that helps me determine if the guy meets my standards. If you donāt answer the questions then itās safest for me to assume the worst, especially if your answer is what I want then youād just answer. So lying and not answering are really both dishonest. But yeah... letās just say Iām so lucky and blessed to have the perfect man I have.
Yes I did, and weāve had a crazy year, turned out engaged, and he makes me happy and is actually more than just my definition of perfect. My standards are high, and he is literally beyond perfect. Add to that the fact that we love each other. Again, Iām super lucky. Iāve got it made.
I have no reason to dwell on the situation; itās history and he still wants me but thatās his problem. Again, I used it as an example because I guess a lot of times I misword or am not clear with my questions on here. (English isnāt my first language, so maybe thatās my excuse. Lol) The update is another example. But thank you for sharing your view
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I wish i was more picky, but i don't hold someone's past against them.
Are you truly an angel?
LOL sarcasm š¤£ nothing close!
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What is their present?
I mostly could give a damn about someoneās past.
No. We all have a past...
i have never dated before so i'm not sure
How old is this guy?
Heās 28 now. Why?
You think heās a man whore just because heās only had 4 sexual partners in the past?
A whore enough that I donāt want him, thatās correct. I want a man with more respect.
Thatās not that many partners.
But maybe you can find the ā40 year old virginā or something. But I highly doubt you are going to find a guy who fits all āyour standardsā but you might find a few good liars out there. At least this guy is honest.
Do what you want. But your in for a rough road.
I mean, not really, because I have my dream man, whom Iām very lucky and blessed to have. I wouldnāt want a 40-year-old, virgin or not. Iām only 23 lol
Good men are not actually that hard to find if you respect them, are good to them, show how much you appreciate them, and give them something to respect too.
And I donāt think my standards are unreasonable. Theyāre high, and it takes a really good man to meet them, and Iām proud of that because it keeps me away from the ones who would be bad for me, like the particular guy mentioned in the question, and it gives me the good man I love. Low standards and no goals leads to destruction and waste.
So my standards are high, but theyāre reasonable as long as Iām not a hypocrite about it, and my man meets them and actually exceeds them and everything Iāve ever wanted.
If a guy is honest about a gray past thats a sign of some decency. There are lots of very good liars out there.
Iām no saint (my number is much higher than his) . But I have never in my life lied to get laid although Iāve seen tons of other guys do that. I have refused to answer unfair questions but thatās not the same as lying.
I just see you getting suckered for some scumbag in the near future. He will tell you everything you want to hear. But he will be a liar. By the time you find out it will be too late.
I disagree. Weāve loved each other for over a year, and heās never lied to me. Plus that I know his family and his sister has been my best friend for the last five years - all through undergrad.
I think maybe you just canāt accept that Iāve actually found a man whoās good enough not to have to lie or avoid questions.
And thatās another thing that helps me determine if the guy meets my standards. If you donāt answer the questions then itās safest for me to assume the worst, especially if your answer is what I want then youād just answer. So lying and not answering are really both dishonest.
But yeah... letās just say Iām so lucky and blessed to have the perfect man I have.
You loved him over a year but you didnāt date him?
Yes I did, and weāve had a crazy year, turned out engaged, and he makes me happy and is actually more than just my definition of perfect. My standards are high, and he is literally beyond perfect. Add to that the fact that we love each other.
Again, Iām super lucky. Iāve got it made.
Then why are putting a post about a past experience? Your weird.
My experience is an example; itās not the point of the actual question.
I also added an example in the update. A lot of times on here I post a question and I guess I donāt word it well because people are like whaaaat?
Iām proud to be weird lol
Yeah but itās dwelling on past problem that shouldnāt be an issue all considered.
I have no reason to dwell on the situation; itās history and he still wants me but thatās his problem.
Again, I used it as an example because I guess a lot of times I misword or am not clear with my questions on here. (English isnāt my first language, so maybe thatās my excuse. Lol) The update is another example.
But thank you for sharing your view
Depends on their past
I'm picky too there's nothing wrong with that
Extremely picky
Yes šI like what I like, and actually it saves me a lot of problems. Some things I just straight up do not accept.
I feel you 100%
I only fuck virgins who have never watched porn.
I am very picky about it.
I couldn't.
Very