Why do boys suck?

[Anonymous]

Okay so basically boys are the worst and there’s hardly any good nice guys out there that wouldn’t cheat on you or be in an actual relationship with you or only just want you for sex or being abusive. The male gender sucks. I’ve always been attracted to boys and girls but I’ve heard that a lot of girls are turning lesbian because of the way that boys treat them. I’m sorry but boys don’t deserve to be in an actual relationship with anybody if they’re going to treat women poorly. So I wanna know why men suck so much And why boys do what they do.

[CoolGuyJoe]

This question extends to both genders, and I'm not saying that trying to be defensive about your "all boys" statement. The lives people have lived can lead them to all sorts of positions when it comes to how they handle relationships. There are plenty of people out there who don't know how to best navigate things, and there are plenty who actually have a solid grip on it.

I feel like the younger you are, the less experience you have when it comes to making natural mistakes (from lack of experience) so you'll come across people who are having a lot of firsts, good and bad. Dating and relationships are the other half of personal development in my eyes. Not only are you sharing in someone else's life, they are sharing in yours. What you said about girls becoming lesbian to avoid bad guys sounds really sad if it's true, because relationships can be some of the best ways to learn about yourself as a person. Ignoring your attraction to the opposite sex because bad guys exist is only preventing you from learning how to navigate things in a healthy fashion going forward.

[RemoErdosain]

All I can tell you is all those things you described happen to some of us too (getting cheated on, being verbally abused and mistreated in general), and being with a woman won't help your cause just because it's a different gender, because they're capable of the exact same things. Other than that, like it was mentioned, you're under eighteen, and most people, guys and girls, won't treat their relationships seriously at that age

[Anonymous]

im going to try and keep an unbiased answer here, guys can be the worst and manipulative and can hurt you, but the RIGHT guy will make you feel loved and treat you with respect. you can't say all guys suck because it's not true. it's like trying to find the best coffee, if you only go to 3 out of 10 coffee shops and say that coffee sucks, well it's not really fair because you never went and tried those other 7 coffee shops. you basically just need to find a better guy. and when you do, you'll be much happier. does that take away from the fact that there will be a guy who breaks your heart and sucks, no- but that's also a part of life and you have to go through some bad ones to find the right one. also take note that you're under 18, guys under 18 right now think it's trendy to cheat, not all, but most. but in all fairness to guys, if you going to say boys suck and there the worst, the same could be applied to some women who have gone and done terrible things, but not all. I hope that helps!

[Anonymous]

Please read the book "Are Men the Weaker Sex?" It explains everything in great detail and it all makes sense, the way the author explains it. There's no simple answer as it has to do with history and how men have evolved over the centuries. But it's definitely interesting. If you google it, you can find websites who offer it for free. (The author doesn't charge for it because she wrote it to inform, not to make a profit.)

[Madhatter920]

Boys do, sure. They're young, figuring things out, and not thinking long term. There's no shortage of girls who do the exact same thing. Most people grow out of it. Men and women, usually, aren't like that. Some are, sure. Most aren't. Why do they do it? Poor impulse control and general immaturity.

[SunnySri]

I am sorry mam, if you feel that way.
Maybe you were treated badly in a relationship, but I assure you mam, not every boy in the world bad.
And if you are thinking I am saying this just because I am a boy, it's not.
I can agree there are a lot of bad guys but don't just give up on guys mam.
Someday you will find the right guy for you, if you want and if not then also you will be very happy in your life as long as you stay positive mam.☺️☺️☺️

[mich15smith]

I don't know, what i do know is that 1 in 3 women and 1 in 4 men have experienced some form of physical violence by an intimate partner. So domestic abuse occur at similar rates for men and women. Women are more likely to be severly injured by their partners though. 57% of men overall admit to committing infidelity at some point in their lives
54% of women overall admit to committing infidelity in one or more of their relationships. So men and women cheat at similar rates too.

[Marilynjuana]

The "physical violence" rate is actually mad. I really didn't think it was that common.

[mich15smith]

@Marilynjuana yea its really sad. :(

[_Whatever]

(yawns, loudly) ... Why do girls incessantly ask this insipid question every single day?

There is no such thing as "using someone for sex," sis. If you don't want to have sex with someone, then don't. If you do, then do. You're in charge of your own body. No boy that fucks you OWES you something as a result of you giving up the pussy, no different than you not owing any guy something for him just being nice to you. Get your head out of your ass.

[Younghungguy17]

I think it’s a maturity thing and depends on the guy. As men get older then generally mature and change. Some guys are just assholes. I know I try to be a nice guy and be respectful of women and hear how it’s nice to meet a guy whose not selfish or rude.

[Anonymous]

Stay in school and grow up little teenie bopper.

I do need to address one of the many bullshit comments you made because it's still such a strong gender stereotype, and it's false. You claim most guys cheat but of course that's not true. And in fact, at your age, and up to around age 27, women cheat more than men. Get your facts straight little girl.

[JosyJosy]

Ah I stay straight because of how girls treat others ;) if you're gonna say that guys in general suck, you haven't tried hard enough to find the right ones

[Ripper_E]

Go turn Lesbian. Guys no longer want you after this dumbass shit you said.

[Anonymous]

For the same reason women suck. See it sucks when you paint an entire gender as bad when you have experienced bad things from just a few.. Smh.. sexist much?

[Anonymous]

A lot of boys and men don't treat other boys and men very nicely either.

[KrakenAttackin]

Stop chasing Giga-Chads and you will have a better experience.

[Wewladdy]

Real interesting post. Ten outta ten. Would read again.

[iFarted]

Cause theyre boys and dont know how to be a man yet.

[Marilynjuana]

Oh dear. Stay in school, darling.

[ArcadianBanks]

Becouse we also swallow?