Girls, do you consider yourself to be a "nerdy, introverted, socially awkward, eccentric weirdo" who doesn't into the mainstream dating scene? (Page 2)

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My friend @Physics-Man is a good man and I would like to offer him some hope and encouragement with this post. He recently posted a question  How are nerdy, introverted, socially awkward, eccentric weirdos supposed to get a girlfriend or even a date in a scene not meant for us? asking what a nerdy, introverted, socially awkward, eccentric weirdo is supposed to do about dating because he doesn't fit into the dating scene and he feels that there are no girls out there who would be interested in someone like him.  First, I don't necessarily agree with his assessment of himself but I've learned not to argue with people about such things. I think he is the kind of guy who is the salt of the earth, who will one day be an excellent husband and father, the kind of guy that a girl will be married to for 58 years until the day he or she dies, and they will make beautiful nerd babies together. But he obviously feels like a square peg in a round hole world and that is a heavy burden! Anyway. . . do you consider yourself to be one of those nerdy, introverted, socially awkward, eccentric weirdo girls who would be interested in a guy who thinks the same of himself, or do you know of someone else who would date a guy who fits the nerd profile? Even if you are not the quintessential nerd girl, would you date such a guy? Where should my friend look for girls who potentially would be receptive to his romantic interest?

19magic · Answer

I guess it matters that when covid isn't a physical limitation to go to what their interests are, I've heard from so many people how they met at comicom. I also believe that nerd/dork/geek relationships seem so much more genuine, they tend to work so well as both like staying indoors (typically), and such actually spend more time together creating a more stable relationship unlike others who always doing stuff or do the next thing to make their social media perfect couple image.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

I am kind of nerdy but not super introverted and defo not socially awkward. Tell him I wish him the best of luck.

Ally247 · Answer

I'm loud and extroverted, I wouldn't consider myself socially awkward or anything like that but I'm more drawn to people who are the opposite of me

pink_and_inlove · Answer

I’m socially awkward but I don’t think that I’m a nerd. I’m with a nerd right now though 😄 he is the awesomest person ever though and wayyy better socially than me

pleasestopthis · Answer

I'm a bit of a nerd, very introverted, socially awkward and would date a nerd, if I were interested in dating.

Daniela1982 · Answer

I eat Nerds but am not one although I think there are a bunch on here.   As to the rest - all of the above.

douride2 · Answer

I don't think I'm a nerd. Doesn't mean I would never date one though.

FictionalCharacter · Answer

Well, you witnessed me and you know I’m a weirdo.

anon1903 · Answer

That's unfortunately me

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