What makes a woman desperate for love?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

My answer is human nature, patriarchy, monogamy, and to some extent, the biological clock.

Men are also desperate for love, not just women. In fact, some research shows that men actually benefit more emotionally/psychologically from marriage than women, who are actually found to suffer from marriage emotionally/psychologically. Men's emotions in our society are stifled, so they often get to access parts of themselves with women and in love than they do among other male peers. (Not everyone, of course, but this is a general truth.)

The biological clock is only one factor - and by the way, science has shown that male sperm deteriorates as well, leaving the quality of male sperm to be extremely problematic when it comes to birth defects. And considering that men still attempt to have children way beyond the time the ability ends for women, they could be doing far more harm as 50+ yo fathers than 40 year old mothers giving birth. But they often crave family (love) as well.

Humans are social animals and seek companionship. In our specific social script, monogamy is the norm that we have been conditioned into. On top of that, patriarchy in many societies has deprived women of equal access to resources, employment opportunities, and leaves no sufficient state-funded childcare (like day care especially, diapers, etc.) options, so being a single mother is risky unless a woman has higher income. Easy way to fall into poverty. Women have sought marriage for survival for centuries because men didn't/don't want to give women the means to be independent or equal. So sometimes, it's about resources, building family, and survival. In fact, marriage was mostly about that for a very long time. The idea of marriages primarily being about "being in love" as a norm is relatively new for humans.

There's some argument that women actually at one point could thrive better under polygamy, but men suffer from it. Most people think the opposite, but when you think about it, it's clear that men would struggle even more with competition in finding partners if polygamy was accepted. Meanwhile, more women could have access to more wealthy men at a time, opposed to being a side piece. Some of our evolutionary cousins are pack animals, with one male for a group of women. Women actually do quite well in finding love and affection among other women, opposed to men. In a polygamist society where quality men can go further, women might be less desperate because competition is reduced for women, but increased for men.

So again - human nature, patriarchy, monogamy, and to some extent, the biological clock.

[Opinion Owner]

Also psychological as well - relationship histories, self esteem issues, etc.

[sunshinet123]

You make bad choices when your desperate for anything. A woman is desperate for love if she goes against her own needs and desires to get the warmth and validation of another person. Desperation comes from painful past experiences, unresolved trauma , and low self esteem. Self awareness, healing and self love is important

[Asker]

Men really dont have respect for women who use dating apps. Dating coaches tell you what you can do to find better men like going to the gym more often or going out to get coffee. Find healthy places to go to find people of the opposite of sex. I find out that you need to work on yourself and better yourself to be able to attract better quality people. If you dont take that advice you'll keep getting the same results. I be scared for any girl who marries a person they met on a dating app.

[DC_Underground]

That’s not true, if I cross paths with a girl on a dating app if I find her pretty/cute and we have had good dialogue through messages then that’s fine with me. I don’t like dating coaches because those nimrods are just guys or men who want males to look to fuck as many girls as possible... Not my cup of tea. I know people who got married and have kids now who met off a dating app. We live in a very technological age, especially with Covid and there are lockdowns in most parts of the world how can we meet each other? I have no issue with dating apps. Maybe you’ve had bad experiences but other people could have different experiences and that’s why people can either be negative or positive about them.

[Asker]

@DC_Underground well good that it works out for you but for me it doesn't work out. It really means that a woman is desperate and insecure if she uses dating apps because she can't find love in the real world. I'm just speaking from my experiences. I just look like a lion's lunch meat on a dating app.

[sunshinet123]

Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn’t. But The dating apps that are not free is the best choice. Men look for ego boosts and sex on dating apps and scrolling through women. Woman do look kinda desperate on dating apps or got out of a bad relationship and looking for a rebound. It can be toxic if your meeting crappy people and it’s energy draining

[Citizenkirk]

Breaks my heart to hear anyone feeling desperate for love because I believe everyone is Worthy of love and friendship, of any type of context on any level.
I don't know if this is a rhetorical question by the asker, or if this is a specific reference to the asker, or someone she or he knows, nor do I know the age of the individual, if that is in fact the case.
Therefore, I'm going to throw out the love I know to be appropriate and universally appreciated by just about anyone, anywhere, this time of year, which is 'Merry Christmas, Happy New Year, and love and best wishes, to you and your's, this holiday season.
Whatever other concerns factor into your current social and family situation, you at least have one friend here, and probably many more you know about, and don't know about, who wish you the same, so happy holidays, and we're all here for you and yours, to chat, and wish Christmas cheer, to you my dear, and all of yours.🦌⛄🤶🎅🎄🌲😹🥶😱🍭😊!!!

[Jinnytty18]

"Breaks my heart to hear anyone feeling desperate for love"

Bullshit!

You only say that if it's a female. If it's an incel with legit issues you would twist everything he says and blame him for feeling desperate.

[Citizenkirk]

Whoa, where the hell did that come from? I tell you that you have me figured completely wrong but it's obvious that whatever your issue is it has nothing to do with me I sure hope you don't spread any of that kind of Christmas cheer around any other people, because that's a real Downer. I know I don't deserve that and I'm pretty sure most other people don't either, so why don't you redirect your hostility towards something inanimate, and leave us innocent, living beings out of it.
PS, when you're done being pissed off at the world, Happy Holiday's

[Anonymous]

A lack of experience? The fact she really wants a man in her life. Maybe she’s looking at other relationships around her and thinking I really want that. Maybe because she seeks validation from being valued by a man. Who knows? Either way, you have to suppress that urge. Because you don’t find people this way.

[ManOnFire]

Women experience limerence and infatuation more than men, which is why women's "feelings" change about a person more than men. It's a chemical and hormonal thing, and to be honest I often wonder if women actually understand what real love is.

[jennifer_bloom]

I think trusting in vanities like beauty and pleasure leaves people with gaping holes in their soul

[razelove]

Loneliness and math, if she wants kids and doesn't have someone by 30... things aren't looking good. Women have more difficulty conceiving and carrying as they age, as well as more health issues the child can have because of age. Men on the other hand have the chance of producing less sperm at... 60 I think.

Besides biology, peer pressure plays a huge role, I noticed with friends of mine, and my family one woman gets married, then 2, then a whole platoon, then it's pretty much a sweep-up with the last ones standing eternal bachelors

[Asker]

People think that you are a psycho if you have being in a relationship on your mind all day long though.

[razelove]

"people" are completely irrelevant, happiness is important. If you have goals and ambitions that you know will help you achieve that happiness, who cares if "people" think you're a psycho or even a demon. Get what you want, rather than be so concerned about the imagined perception of imaginary people.

[Asker]

Dating apps really made it hard for men to want to settle down because they are expose to a lot of women. Why settle for one person when you can find someone who is better?

[razelove]

I hear that, and it cuts both ways, why would a woman want to settle down either? My advice would be get away from the apps and go old school hook up through friends, facebook, church-groups, hobbies, bars. Just keep it offline, whatever route you pursue. In my case that doesn't work so well as I'm married and my wife and I aren't looking for a third that hard, but I've never found any meaningful relationships online... tons of friends with benefits and NSA though.

[RingOfFire]

Evolution and genes. Unlike men, women over 35 are less able to safely conceive children, so their biological clock runs much faster than a mans. Romantic love (which is the kind I assume you are talking about) is one of the ways nature makes men and women want to pair up and have children. It's about survival of the species. So women in their most fertile years are more pressured by natural forces (like the feeling of love) than men. And womens' sexual drive increases as they move from the early fertile years until it peaks out in their early 30s further inducing them to reproduce before it's too late. By natural design, women are in more of a rush to reproduce than men, and love is one of the natural elements that induces sex and reproduction.

[ShootShootBangBang]

Actually men who impregnate women after 40 are much more likely to have children with developmental disabilities. Then they also have unattractive goons like you devaluing them. I think it’s really sad to see an elderly man putting down people for going through the natural aging process. That leads to elder abuse and high elder suicide rates. Stupid old man.

[RingOfFire]

The intellectual quality of your case is underwhelming.

[ShootShootBangBang]

It’s been know and proven time and time after time. It doesn’t pay to be like you.

[nella965]

@RingOfFire you’re actually wrong, a woman’s sex drive peaks in her 40s. So if she married a man 10+ years older, he wouldn’t be able to sexually fulfill her. There’s a great likelihood she will end up divorcing him.

[nella965]

@ShootShootBangBang you’re the type of guy that women actually would take seriously for marriage

[RingOfFire]

@nella965 Hahahahahaha! Absurd and not worthy of comment.

[RingOfFire]

Jennifer Landa, MD, ob-gyn, chief medical officer at BodyLogicMD in Orlando, Florida

"If your craving for physical intimacy dips during your 30s, don’t be surprised. Testosterone is on the decline during this life stage, for starters. “This dip can cause a natural decrease in sex drive,” says Dr. Landa."

www.health.com/.../female-sex-drive-changes-20s-30s-40s

[nella965]

@RingOfFire. University of Texas psychologist David Buss wrote the article, which appears in the July issue of Personality and Individual Differences, with the help of three graduate students, Judith Easton (who is listed as lead author), Jaime Confer and Cari Goetz. Buss, Easton and their colleagues found that women in their 30s and early 40s are significantly more sexual than younger women.

Women ages 27 through 45 report not only having more sexual fantasies (and more intense sexual fantasies) than women ages 18 through 26 but also having more sex, period. And they are more willing than younger women to have casual sex, even one-night stands

content.time.com/.../0,9171,2007422,00.html

[nella965]

@RingOfFire. Impact of differences in men and women’s sex drives.

A five-year age gap statistically means you’re 18% more likely to divorce (versus just 3% with a 1-year age difference), and that rate rises to 39% for a 10-year age difference and 95% for a 20-year age gap. Partners from different generations may have different cultural reference points and values, and polar opposite tastes in music and film, and even friends, and also have different approaches to their sex life, says Fran Walfish, Beverly Hills psychotherapist and panelist on “Sex Box,” a forthcoming We TV relationship therapy show. “

Sex drive goes up for women in middle age, but sexual function decreases for men.”

www.google.com/.../the-bigger-the-age-gap-the-shorter-the-marriage-2014-11-11

[supercutebutt]

It's a biological trick to get us pregnant. Cum needs to shoot inside our snizzes so that babies happen. So our brains trick us into believing in love. But we can fight back by only taking cum in our mouths and assholes.

[Bananasyellow]

Ooo ooo my god
100% yack

[LastQueenOfScotland]

I never thought something by the name "supercutebutt" would haunt my nightmares

[Bananasyellow]

@LastQueenOfScotland She likes what she sees in the mirror ass

[supercutebutt]

@LastQueenOfScotland The Universe is strange place.

[HostileTakeover]

@supercutebutt I think I love you.

[HostileTakeover]

@supercutebutt the thing is you are not wrong either. It is your body's way of tricking you so the world keeps popping out kids.

[MannMitAntworten]

@supercutsbutt That was effing hilarious to read :p Regardless, I think you are onto something.

[MannMitAntworten]

@supercutebutt damn typo...

[_Troian_]

Or make ur guy wear those stupid condoms.. fuck that thing tho, u gonna take it raw and accept your fate one day lol

[supercutebutt]

@_Troian_ I'll accept my raw fate up my tight asshole, Trojan Man. Sell your condoms somewhere else! :)

[_Troian_]

Ahh.. its Troian not Trojan, have u ever heard about iliad dynasy written by Homeros around 9 BCE? ; )

[supercutebutt]

@_Troian_ lol. I am pretty young and wasn't around back then. but yeah, I sorta know it.

[_Troian_]

I wasn't too but ye I know it, soo I am not a condom brand lmao

[Newhead]

When she lacks self respect, boundaries and self love. This can make her overly and dangerously competitive with other women, also known as a pick-me girl. She wants to always be picked, but she is no pick of the litter.

[Elsa143]

Yes one girl did that. I was just minding my own business but she assumed that I will snatch her crush. I wasn't even interested in that potato boy. So she became more desperate and tried to neglect me and exclude me. But it backfired her. Her crush used to abuse her in front of me. I was like sweet karma.

[Newhead]

@Elsa143 Yup, never stoop to low vibrational people's level, God and the universe is watching and never forsakes a good person, no matter how long it takes, bad people always get it their karma. Women nowadays who attack other women in attempt to reduce you to your lower self are doing an evil act, good that she got what was coming to her. And if she ended up with him, her whole life would turn out miserable, poor kid from the relationship would probably end up cursed. Don't be a pick me weirdo, they are devil children.

[Elsa143]

I'm so glad to see such a smart girl like me who understands that it is an evil act to destroy other women. That's why so many women are homewreckers and purposely lick the feets of committed men. I hate them and for me they're not less than a devil or some criminal.

[Newhead]

@Elsa143 Good girl, they are secretly miserable even if they have a family and a mansion, while they take it out on other women who are sometimes single, but the more they act that way the more karma they will collect. In the long run, you will see how much happier your life will turn out. Men who associate with those type of women reap bad karma too, so it's no loss when they go with them.

[Elsa143]

You're correct she's not happy despite having so many friends. I don't know how she attracted those good people but behind their backs she is annoyed by them. I think these kinda women are not loyal because they're competing only to get sex and for her ego assurance.

[Newhead]

@Elsa143 Yup, she is a lost soul.

[RawIronhide]

I think girls are desperate for love mostly because of social pressure and they are majority consumers of romantic media culture. I think everyone wants to be loved but women feel an existential need to be loved. It's a fluffy ficad for consumerism. I do believe love exists but it can't be given to you, you can only share yours with someone els.

[Asker]

You are likely not to get a relationship from dating apps nowadays. Most guys only want sex and find you to be desperate if they find you on dating apps.

[RawIronhide]

I'm aware of that last part. I can't help what most other guys think but I don't think that it makes you desperate. Even if you are desperate that alone doesn't make you undateable in my opinion. I will seek a relationship to the exclusion of casual sex but many guys are just looking to hook up. I'm sorry that's the way it is, but there are acceptions.

[Asker]

I am the rule

[RawIronhide]

You are whatever you would like to be. You will find someone who thinks you are the exception if that's what you choose to look for, it may take longer but... How much do you really want it?

[Asker]

Going by looks isn't going to help me usually the dudes who like me I dont find them physically attractive. Maybe it is a choice that I make because I'm so quick to judge by looks and not character. But no online dating is just a waste of time for anybody no matter who you are. I think dating apps are the reason that marriage rates are decreasing.

[RawIronhide]

No I agree, you should be attracted to the person but it really shouldn't be your only judge of a person also you'll find that people grow on you, you might not think they're attractive at first but give them a chance to prove you wrong. Maybe they look better with their shirt off etc. I don't like online dating because I don't think they're a healthy way of developing a robust dating life. It can work out, my perents met online, they're going on 8 years, yeah they argue sometimes and get frustrated but they're a great match and they're happily married. Don't narrow your options, be open minded.

[Anonymous]

Women are NEVER desperate for love.
They can claim to be lonely when they reject 95% of the hordes of men that approach them.
It's a great scam. It must be nice to both be shallow and be able to cry about being lonely... much like a person supposedly dying of starvation while being surrounded by a buffet.
If you are "lonely" because you are so shallow, then you 100% deserve whatever happens to you when you choose a crappy abusive guy because he is hot.
And if I get the call about domestic violence at your home, I'll be sure to circle the block a few times first.

[hellacray]

Haha I don't know it seems like if women want love they can get that fulfilled by getting a cat or a dog.

Women seem to only want men for everything else but love lol.

So I don't know maybe she needs someone to help her pay off her student debt? And that makes her desperate for "love?"

[Pejtu]

She always says "im a strong single mother im sucessfull and stable" and then she adds i dont need a man during ANY conversation
After i hear those words i just turn back and leave because im not gonna waste time for this kind of woman
I did this twice in the past
Once during a date i just left her 20$ to pay for my coffe and im like peace im out
Second time on Tinder match

[princessde]

"attention"

Give her special attention ( indirectly make her feel that) I think that is it.
Make time for her when you and she is comfortable to meet.
Fuck her beautifully and if she asks for more don't stop.
Treat her the same as you do and don't change.
Don't hurt her because she is sensitive and she observes so take care of her feelings

[Unit1]

Usually it's as soon as they turn 30 years old or at latest 40 years and their younger competitors in their 20s snatch away the men (usually these men have at least some money and are not younger than ~25 years old).

Hey, I didn't ask for it but it is what it is.

[Jenom]

I reckon there are two factors that can make a woman desperate for love. One, suffering from extreme lonileness. And two, if all her peers are partnered up and dating it might trigger her into desperately seeking love.

[Skankhunt]

If you don't have patience, and are willing to take any guy, even if you don't feel a connection with him. If you don't have patience to find out if he is someone that will fit with you, instead your go into a relationship with him right of the bat without knowing him.

[ShootShootBangBang]

All these dudes on here saying women are worthless after 30. My mom is in her 50s. She’s currently seeing someone and about 3 other guys want to date her. She’s very kind and decent though. If you’re a good person you won’t have trouble finding a partner.

[nella965]

That’s actually true. I’m not the best looking girl ever but I am a lovely wonderful kind lady. I never had a hard time getting men to fall all over me

[WesBrewer]

I've heard once you get close to your 30's you start wanting to have children, and a lasting relationship, thus craving love. but I'm not a girl so that may not be very helpful.

[Bananasyellow]

Usually starts dna female body crave attention, love from wrong places 13- forever or.13-25 prime age for catching a stupid mate ""

[WesBrewer]

@Bananasyellow haha, so it seems

[nella965]

It’s true. This happens to a lot of single men in their 30s too, not only women. I’ve been on dating apps for a long time and I have met my fair share of 34 yr old men depressed that they still are unmarried

[Paolaa988]

Exactly...😔

[MecheD]

In all of my studies it’s a collage of things.
1. her friends ( in relationships or in the courting stage)
2. arts like movies, tv, music... etc.
3. social media which is arguably the number one these days

[KingdomForAKiss]

Everyone wants love. I think desperation comes from being deeply hurt and feeling unlovable. That's when desperation comes in.

[Suzzz334]

Oftentimes the girl either did not receive validation and unconditional love from her Dad as child and teen or there was no male role model in her life when she was a kid and teen.

[chris_987]

It’s odd that our first instinct is to blame someone else, that like so toxic.

[Suzzz334]

Actually this is a proven thought process but yes we are humans do tend to seek to place the blame outside of our self. I had a very good relationship with my Dad so I do not have these hang ups. I just didn’t want to be bothered with trying to figure out some man’s damage

[chris_987]

But doesn’t that mean women are perfect by default, your basically saying the only reason a girl can be bad if some external factor made her that way. Naww all humans are flawed regardless if the have the perfect upbringing

[VanillaSalt]

Being 30 single no kids and having a bad attitude yet still wanting a man... although that describes the men their with more.

[Screenwriter]

Same as a man! Lonely. Wants companionship, sex, adventure. It's been TOOOO LOOOONG!!!

[aieeazumui]

Even for women sex is one of the main things they go for when seeking a relationship?

[Screenwriter]

@aieeazumui For some it's the main thing. For others, it's one of the things. It's according to the woman. Everyone's different.

[aieeazumui]

But even women need and crave sex in life?

[I-C3_ME]

@aieeazumui , why wouldn't they? They are humans after all, course they want someone to make them feel loved emotional and physical. Unless they're asexual ofcourse but that's another matter

[sacajawea]

Maybe Insecurity. This can often lead to a bad relationship. Just as much as it could with men.

[Asker]

I stop seeking approval from man because i get disappointed every time. I work on myself and become a better person for myself which will help me better attract my soulmate.

[sacajawea]

That is a very positive attitude. Good for you. Best wishes.

[Torari]

Hitting 30 and realizing they can't attract the men they used to be able to and need to find a husband quickly before their state deteriorates even further to the point where they have to sacrifice their standards even more.

[ShootShootBangBang]

Actually most over 30s are pickier. Probably because they don’t want to waste their time on men who devalue them. That would be men like you.

[Torari]

@shootshootbangbang
Now that's just blatant denial of reality.

Go date a few. Getting the attention of a 30y woman is like taking candy from a baby. I doubt even most men are that easy.

[SnowyOwl]

Anxiety
...
And being manipulated
Being desperate is not a good state of mind :(

[Ninjazzed]

Most women who are self-conscious can’t live without it.. they need a partner just to feel validated in life.

[GingerGuy]

I personally never think "desperate" so? I don't know why women fear this so much. It's usually other women that think this as well I notice.

[TonyMetal___86]

Her to have a man because a woman is made from a man and she always needs a man to feel happy, safe and comfortable, also a man needs a woman to feel complete, they both need each other!

[WhiteGlaze]

Well typically its to have a mate to have a baby with. But one the species of proves intolerable, it becomes more of connection and sexual fulfillment

[PrinceNeo]

What makes a woman desperate for love or what makes her look like she's desperate for love? This is a genuine question by the way I'm actually confused by what you're asking.

[Angelo75]

Trauma
Lonelyness
Growing without a father (so longing mens attention)

[bklynbadboy1]

when she's lonely and has low self-esteem and craves contact from men

[Asker]

That is because men just want sex and dont like to put in any effort.

[bklynbadboy1]

And then you have men like me that do put in the effort and are not appreciated. I thing every woman is a queen cause that's the way I was raised

[Asker]

Well people judge by looks not by character that is the problem.

[Bananasyellow]

This guy right 100%%%%%$%$!

[Niya2006]

@Bananasyellow He really is :o
I'm shocked b/c he usually isn't :o

[bklynbadboy1]

Well I don't judge by looks and I can prove it

[Asker]

I just thought of something I have better things I can put my focus on than idolizing a man.

[bklynbadboy1]

Well I'm idolizing woman like you

[SavageGirl101]

They’ve never experienced it before so a lot of women will do anything for it

[Lj121200]

It's not just women, im. Just looking for one girl who likes red hair. Still yet to find one

[allaboutyou2]

The same thing that makes men desperate for love.
Feeling insecure.

[WhiteGlaze]

Possibly. I think they'd still crave love and connection without being insecure. I think the feeling of not having someone causes that insecurity most times.

[allaboutyou2]

Craving love doesn't make one desperate.

[WhiteGlaze]

I didn't mean to say it does.

[allaboutyou2]

But the question was what makes women *desperate* for love!!

[WhiteGlaze]

Yes, I was just stating that inecurity itsself isn't the cause of the desperation all the time

[allaboutyou2]

But you just said that craving love didn't make one desperate. So what else is it? Very few things makes one desperate

[WhiteGlaze]

I think craving and desperate can lead into one another.

[EyesOfGod]

When they hit 35 and all of their friends are married and have kids while they are still single.

[kitty71]

You made a point but not all are like that but it can be a reason, just like myself

[ShootShootBangBang]

Same goes for men then too. I

[TruthBringer]

Yup, the loneliness and depression kicks in. There is something called 'the wall' and they've hit it. So next to their biological clock urging them to settle and have kids, don't forget that they have been pampered in their prime years so much that it all suddenly ended and they are starving for that attention and validation. Which often leads to them lowering their standards and start dating men they would never give a time of day if their prime years

[Thea99]

I think it’s society tells us what “we need to do”.

[Asker]

If women actually do the work on themselves and stop doing what they are familiar with maybe we will stop having problems.

[Thea99]

For me took me years to become comfortable with my sexuality myself before asking anyone else to do so.

[colin77]

Many different reasons... but lack of attention bring forth loneliness and women needs attention because how they were created...

[WhiteGlaze]

I was the only one looking for attention in my last relationship

[colin77]

Well u alone know yr past experiences... but besides that... he must want attention to...

[WhiteGlaze]

I'm just saying I've met a lot of types that were not ones to need attention at all. I really dont think its a gender specific thing all the time. I get maybe some women's chemistry in their biology might make them more emotional and it does tend to be for the purpose of being a mother to a child and being that sort of care giver though I've actually seen more men have some of the same characteristics as those women.

[colin77]

Women is emotional creatures... so they need attention more than men... but men also sensitive so attention is needed... upbringing has a lot to do with someone life

[WhiteGlaze]

So is it that women are emotional creatures or are humans just an emotional species? I think the idea that men are any less emotional is a social construct rather than part of the biology.

[colin77]

Women are more emotional creatures... but Yah created us differently... women as comforters are men protectors... so men cultivate and women tender...

[PersoncslledPierson]

Being female

Girls want love n don’t care about sex
Guys want sex n don’t care about love

That’s nature for you

[WhiteGlaze]

Not in my experience bub

[DaMack999]

Ageing, siblings or friends teasing while they got married.

[tallcuck]

Her nature. If she goes psycho, than she doesn't need love though...

[Anonymous]

Desperate for love? Always swiping right on just attractive men and getting used and thinking somehow she can have that man who every woman wants and then not having him and being desperate.

[JasonCruz]

My girlfriend is cheating on me. what should I do? Keep fucking until I find someone or break up?

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

Yes.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

Just kidding. Fuck her one last time and as soon as you are done dump her. Right on the spot.

[jimmy2]

Most men do jot know how to love leaving the women starving for love.

[MzAsh]

Operating within a scarcity mindset.

[Don-__-Don]

If she's with men who are obviously bad for her.

[HusamRocks]

Lack of love in her life

[CalmYourTits]

When she is clingy AF!

[TheorionMage]

A poor home dynamic in her formative years ---

[Sweetener_]

Insecurities and daddy issues.

[HostileTakeover]

Is that your experience personally?

[Sweetener_]

I experienced it, but not anymore.

[faithie_Artist]

When she’s never experienced it.

[DiegoO]

A low selfsteem, and deep insecuries.

[michael1469]

Lets pray for daddy issues.

[Asker]

Men really do be wanting sex over a relationship. Women just have to learn to start picking better men.

[michael1469]

I not saying her having daddy issues is bad. Its nice for men to be wanted too.

[CassieCape]

Love is strong and powerful. Everyone craves it.

[MannMitAntworten]

Excessive booze and it being closing time...

[Dchrls78104]

The chief reason could be loneliness.

[Browneye57]

Hormones. It's her cycle.

[Bananasyellow]

Ewwwwwwww

[faithie_Artist]

@Bananasyellow You’re immature.

[Bananasyellow]

@faithie_Artist is it your cycle?

[Browneye57]

The entire sexual response mechanism for women is tied to their menstrual cycle - the hormonal fluctuations that stem from it.
A smart guy charts his woman's cycle, and then knows when to ramp up alpha and pursue her, and when to ramp it down and comfort her.

[Bananasyellow]

My goodness sake
Sometime most x
Ducking hate !!! Reproduction and shit the stupid make knows when she on rag and pursue her. r u ducking jooking
I wish
Get a life !

[Bananasyellow]

He ain't "smart "
More dummmmb prick or pieces of shit!!!
Be w a person one w ovaries 5 years and than maybe
Just MAYBE Ejaculate
SMFH

[Browneye57]

@Bananasyellow - Gee, what planet are YOU from? I know, you flunked English class. LOL

[Bananasyellow]

Oh so now something wrong with me Cause speaking the truth

[Bananasyellow]

Ur a pos

[Bananasyellow]

You're not a man you're a little boy.
Call me a child, flunked school, what planted I'm from n LOL
I ducking ur gonna get it
Bullying also
U must never had kids

[Browneye57]

@Bananasyellow - You're dumb AF. Go away. Please.

[TruthBringer]

@Bananasyellow I have no idea what you're trying to say...

[ChiTown33]

@browneye since she's telling you whete she's at in her cycle shouldn't you being trying to comfort her. 🤣

[Browneye57]

@ChiTown33 - Oh really? I had zero clue. When they become belligerent and act all loony, I block them. She can pound sand. LOL

[jasco]

Loneliness, sexual desires, money

[zagor]

Desperation is never attractive.

[Inquisitive3]

insecurity

[Asker]

How come nobody calls out men?

[Inquisitive3]

I always call out men. :0)

[Asker]

Well men are never going to change. The problem fails on women for being promiscuous.

[Inquisitive3]

Nah women aren't to blame for men's issues. Sorry.

[Asker]

Well that is what men say that if women weren't so easy than they will have better respect for women. Just saying dont shot the messenger.

[Inquisitive3]

Men can and are sluts too... you don't see anyone being critical of them. Your misogyny is showing.

[Asker]

I'm just speaking it for what it is if you tell people about it they say well stop acting like a slut.

[Inquisitive3]

People should mind their own business. My general rule is if I am in other people's business, I have too much time on my hands.

[Asker]

People dont care just a bunch of bitter people wanting to make other people feel miserable.

[Inquisitive3]

That's okay, it's hits them in the end like a ton of bricks later. No escaping your actions in this life.

[Asker]

All I got to say when you know that someone is full of crap stay away from them. Because a leopard doesn't change its spots. It took me a while to figure out not to be hanging around people who are full of crap because they show you in the beginning they dont like you. Just saying

[Inquisitive3]

Yeah the problem is when people see some goodness in that person. I like to look at in percentages. If someone is an a$$hole 80 percent of the time, forget it... if 20 percent, then a chance is given.

[Asker]

Have to start looking at character and a person's morals and values you also have to become the person you want too. If you dont do it can't complain about getting the same results.

[Inquisitive3]

I'm the person I want to be. Wouldn't want to be anyone else.

[SpaceGalaxy]

When she lacks it even when with her man