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It's very nice of you to pay for her medical bills. But that's really not your job, bro. You do realize that, right?
I'm very sorry that the woman you love has cancer. However, I have to be honest with you and break the bad news: I don't think she's going to date you (whether she lives or not.) :/0
What Girls & Guys Said
You should have given up after the first month. She's not going to be with you no matter what you do. She's not going to leave her baby daddy for you. You're giving her things that she has done nothing to earn and rewarding her bad behaviour by continually doing them. Walk away.32
Cut her off. She's with her baby daddy. Jesus! I promise you it'll never work out. You can't buy or force love. Love yourself! Talk to more women I promise there will be someone who appreciates you even more. You deserve better my guy!10
This is a situation you want to avoid. Wish her a speedy recovery and move on.10
The lack of effort is not a good sign. If she isn't putting in effort, it's because she doesn't place enough value on the connection to do so.10
Yes, I think that it is time to move on20
Sounds like she is just using you10
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As soon as she doesn't need you anymore, she won't love you anymore.
You won't believe me, but just remember what I said and after you go through what you're about to go through, remember that I called it.
All of her love and gratitude will be transmuted instantly into resentment as soon as she's back on her feet and she has options. You won't believe the transformation, but it will happen right before your eyes.
The only thing you can do is learn your lesson the hard way and then try to be smarter next time.