Would you tell a 5'3" 155 lbs girl that she should lose some weight?

[Anonymous]

I'm dating this girl and I think she's the one for me. But I live on the 6th floor walk up. After walking up the stairs she's panting like crazy. I think it has something to do with her extra weight. She eats fast food a lot and doesn't exercise at all.

Would it be rude if I sudgested her to eat more healthy and do some exercises, possibly with me?

[Apope16]

6 floors is actually hard. 5ft 3inches and 155 pounds isn't fat but it is chubby. Is it a sexxy chubby? Like does she have nice boobs? If not you might want to express weight concern.

Im dating a girl that was depressed a few weeks and gained weight. Id say she is the same weight and size. Chubby but still pretty. Not thought of as fat yet. She is sad and won't wear lingerie anymore because she doesn't feel sexy. here's what i did... i said,

"It seems like you are really self conscious about your weight. I think you are sexy but I want you to feel sexy. I think it might be healthy to start working out so you feel sexy and beautiful." (She started doing yoga toda)

Tell your girl, " Do you work out? I notice that its hard for you to get up the stairs. I think it might be a fun date night to use the stair master at the gym together. It will help me too."

[Waldoe]

I would NEVER... do you think she is also STUPID, I can tell you think she is already STUPID. Yeah , say that shit.. she will kick you will kick you to the "Curb" she KNOWS how much she weighs... so yeah... go ahead, tell you think she is fat... let me know how that works out for you.

[Little_Bumblebee]

Never ever tell a girl/woman she needs to lose weight.
She's either happy with her body or she already knows it.

What you CAN do is to invite her out to do active things with you and make sure you eat healthy together.

If she ever brings it up herself, that she wants to lose weight, just tell her that you want to help her with it.

[Inexpensivefurniture]

Exactly this ^

[Hazelstar99]

Honestly it reminds me of myself when I was 110 lbs and my room was at 5th floor I was panting and my then ex asked me to breathe while he was on call. It seemed nice though.

You can ask her to join you in exercise.

[lanadelrey25]

It's good that you said to work out with you, that might make her feel better.

[Avicenna]

No, I wouldn't. That's a lot of stairs, though- I think most people would be panting after walking up that many flights.

[Wise4myage]

No, don't ever say that unless she asks for your opinion. But do ask her if she's like to work out together.

[iFarted]

I wouldn't be blunt with it unless she's the one who brings it up. If we started getting bigger then I'd suggest doing more outdoor activities like hiking, going on walks, and jogs.

[Anonymous]

She could have a leaky heart valve or something similar

[jahaims]

Yeah

[SHREYASH007]

no it is not rude.