GIGS or REBOUND?

panida12

Ex broke up with me in may 2020 cause he started seeing some girl behind my back for a few months before we broke up. Mind you, we were in a relationship for nearly 6 years and it was an extremely serious relationship where we've met each others parents, travelled and even lived together.

Anyways, ex breaks up and sees this girl but they aren't serious and they aren't dating as she is still talking to her ex and other guys. Ex comes back in August, but then leaves again to this girl because of some sick mind games played by the girl, even then in August she was still talking to her. Then ex comes back in October, begging for a chance saying that its forever and he realized my value and realized that this girl didn't care about him the way i did. She crashed his car and everything and didn't really care, while in the past 6 years I've been by my ex even at the lowest points of his life.

Just a quick note, from May till October, this girl has repeatedly told my ex and everyone that she doesn't want my ex, she will never date my ex and that she doesn't love my ex because she still talks to her ex who doesn't live in the same country by the way, and she's loved her ex for 8 years

Anyways, ex comes back and we make it work for about a month before this girl starts calling up my ex and saying things about me. I had about enough one day and swore at her at a party, and ex decided to go back to her and everything. But even then, at the party this girl has been telling everyone that she doesn't want my ex and the only reason she went back is cause i swore at her. And she had promised me as well she would never come in between. Now my ex has cut off all contact, and seems to be manipulated by her and says he doesn't want to hurt her when really she doesn't even love him. And she's manipulated my ex before by threatening to kill herself when he tried to come back to me.

I don't know what to do. I love my ex. I want him back. Is it GIGS or a rebound?
GIGS or REBOUND?
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