Do some women have less awareness of leagues in dating?

[Anonymous]

It seems some women (not all) only date people meet 100% of their criteria even if they’re not perfect themselves. Those men are in high demand and so the woman might get sex but no commitment. This then keeps repeating itself for her and she becomes bitter about men saying they just want sex and don’t want to commit. So why doesn’t she try someone in her league or who doesn’t meet 100% of her requirements but maybe 80% before dismissing all men as commitment phobes and being bitter about them?

Yes they don’t accept leagues

No they’re very aware of leagues

[Anonymous]

I find most of the time these women don’t really want a committment.
they just are using men as the excuse instead of admitting she’s got deep seeded issues and doesn’t actually want the committment and intimacy. So she keeps going for men she knows aren’t really attainable.
Women act dumb a lot to hide shame and accountability for why they do what they do.
women often know exactly what they are doing.
men don’t get this a lot and think women be stupid or acting victim or falling for players.

[Flower7]

I feel like guys are more into the league system than women are.

[Asker]

Do you believe in it?

[Flower7]

No, I don't.

[Flower7]

I feel like people from any "league" can be attracted to each other.

[Asker]

Then why are most couples of similar attractiveness?

[Flower7]

They aren't, from what I've seen.

[boggboss]

I'm sure some women are like that but far from most I guess its the same way some guys get used by a women for a ego boost then become hateful towards all women

[Asker]

True.

[Asker]

Do you think it’s true that men get rejected more than women? If so, why?

[boggboss]

Because men ask women out more as is social norms in many places

[boggboss]

Plus men tend to have lower standards then women with many asking girls out as a way to get sex not because they like them

[Asker]

And why does asking friends out never work?

[boggboss]

Because she already sees the person as a friend and dont want that relationship to change

[Asker]

What do you mean by that? That’s what I don’t get. In my mind, you become friends with someone, get to know them better and build trust and then it’s easier to say yes to a date. I don’t get why it’s easier to date a stranger who you know nothing about

[boggboss]

Because thats what dating is the vetting process off seeing if they would make a good partner once someone is a friend many people class that as the last point off that relationship friendship being the end game and It not being able to be more I have a few female friends that even off I was single wouldn't want more then friendship with them

[Asker]

But that’s what I don’t get though. Why does it have to be 2 clearly different trajectories

[boggboss]

Because it is lol some people you like enough for friendship others u would prefer as partners

[Asker]

But what if you develop feelings for someone only after being friends with them?

[boggboss]

Then if she develops feelings also maybe u can take the next step

[Asker]

How do you know if she develops feelings also?

[Asker]

Whenever this happens and I ask, it’s always a no.

[boggboss]

By her treating you more then friendly clearly the friends u asked have only seen u as a friend

[Asker]

That’s all of them. But why?

[boggboss]

Why what they must have simply not see in you what they want in a partner or romanticly attracted too you

[Asker]

But then no one does. Why?

[boggboss]

How would i be able to tell u why a women don't find u attractive do u ask them why not

[Asker]

Am I allowed to ask them why not? Is it ok to?

[boggboss]

What are u talking about are u allowed to ask is your brain working mate ofc u can ask dont go begging just ask why

[genericname85]

i would say women are more likely to prefer fluffy bullshit over harsh reality xD so yes.