Why did my friend tell me I should stop "hoeing around" at work?

[Anonymous]

I work with this doode and he's cute :). We flirt around with him buttt notihin crazy because i have a boyfriend.
He sometimes comes to my desk and sits right next to me and draws tattoos on my hand. Another time i smacked him with a rope and he took it away from me and tied my hands together and i couldnt get out lolll.
My friend says that i am acting tooo submissive for him and its wrong? wtf?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Maybe because you're flirting on the job which you shouldn't be doing.
Maybe because you're flirting with someone other than your boyfriend, 🤔
If you think it's harmless, does that mean you're okay with your boyfriend behaving that way with a female coworker at his place if employment?

[Truthatanycost]

People like to call flirting harmless fun, but it's not. It;s the first step to seduction and very powerful. But this is pretty typical behavior because few have self control or boundaries.

[Luckycharms12]

You have boyfriend that's why friend said it

[Asker]

yeah but we are not doing anything wrong?
and why did she say i am submissive, what does that mean?

[Luckycharms12]

Cos you are flirting