Guys like fat asses but why dont they like fat girls?

[littlelady1234]

I always wondered why guys are in love with fat asses that have cellulite, stretch marks, and other stuff on them however when it comes to fat girls they say "Hell Nah" or "Im not dating that bitch". Like I don't know why you were just in love with a girl that had stretch marks and all this other stuff but you dont want to date a fat girl. Why?

[Chill_Meta]

The two honest truths are biology and society trends.

Biologically most men like a women with an hourglass figure be it thin, average, or a little extra. Also a factor of this is, what science coins the phrase "child bearing hips". Wide hips give the perception that a woman's birth canal is unencumbered and would easily pass a child's body into this world. So it appeals to that genetic survival drive that all creatures that this world have.

Societally, having a round ass/being thick has become a very popular trend in the past 5 years. Which isn't such a bad thing because it also has adversely made working out just as popular. Those not genetically dispositioned to be built like this can with the proper exercise can gain the size and physique to a point.

There are those who do find heavier women attractive but there are certain biological factors that makes it seem unappealing. Once that specific factor is distorted past what your lizard brain deems acceptable the off switch is flipped and you can't turn on.

[littlelady1234]

But what makes a fat ass appealing? Like what triggers you men on so much by a fat ass? Im a straight girl so these large frames you guys find attractive look gross to me. I don't know I would just really like to learn about the male psychology.

[Chill_Meta]

My small first and third paragraphs cover your questions. What aspect are you trying to understand?

[littlelady1234]

You never answered my question. You referred to "wide hips" not only that you sound very childish I wonder if you even have a girlfriend

[Chill_Meta]

That's because "your question" was already answered in my reply to the "poster's question". To try and bash with the label of "childish" for explaining with science and reasoning is sad at the least. Let alone the "never had a girlfriend comment" lol.

However, if you go back and read properly you would have gotten your answer. If you're not spoonfed on command does not mean insulting will get you anywhere if you're too lazy to do the work.

Now, if you have a different question or would like to reword your question differently to receive a more elaborate answer or better outlook. I'd be more than happy to oblige you.

[Citizenkirk]

I think you are focusing on the wrong criteria on what make guys enjoy the company of Phat girls who knows where it's at, in getting a guy's attention and winning his 💜❤️.
A girl needs to be able to hold a conversation, hold her own in a debate, and hold onto her man ♂️👞 in thick and thin, win the day, and know how too play.
A phat girl knows where it's at, and doesn't ask a man "hey you like this booty, you like how this looks on me?" -- you know she tells him "you like this, don't you? You know you want this, yeah, come on, let's get this party 🥳🎉 started ♂️♀️❤️💜🎉🥳🍸🍹👍👍⚕️⛎👩‍💻👨‍💻😴😴.
PHAT!!! THAT'S WHERE IT'S AT!!!🍺 🍺=🍻💞

[ShortCircuit]

Because it's not actually about size, it's about proportion. When we say we like "big" asses, we mean big *compared to her waist*. The issue with overweight women is that they typically have fat bellies and wide torsos, which makes her ass seem smaller *on her frame*, and defeats the purpose of having a big ass.

If Girl A is 6'2 and 300 lbs with a 50 inch butt, and Girl B is 4'10 and 100 lbs with a 32 inch butt, then yes, Girl A's butt is much bigger than Girl B's, but Girl B's butt is going to appear larger *on her frame*, and is therefore more attractive.

[BarryLiverstone]

I also wanna know this answer so I followed your question. Because I like smaller asses myself. I don’t get the obsession with fat asses.

[littlelady1234]

Thank you I dont get the obsession. I've always though fat asses were gross. I mean a decent butt is nice. Nothing big nothing small just in between but I don't know why guys like fat asses.

[BarryLiverstone]

I just like healthy. So we agree. Also fat asses tend to lead to fat thighs and basically you are ‘thic’ which isn’t sexy. Nope, give me a normal butt and a good body and I’m chill.

[HiveBee]

It's the shapes of the ashes.

Obese women's ashes are disgusting and shaped gross.

A thick girl with nice curves and a fat ass has a nice sexy ass with a good shape.

Big difference!

[HiveBee]

Not ashes! ASSES! Mfer!

[littlelady1234]

But what makes a fat ass sexy?

[chihuahua011]

I'm not obsessed with fat asses. It's nice if she has some and I love if there's something to grab on her besides her bones. Skinny is not the way for me.

[littlelady1234]

I think skinny is cute just not overexxagerated skinny. Like you can be a healthy version of it. You get me?

[chihuahua011]

Of course! The opinion above is my personal preference. I've dated girls with different body types so I'm not like only seeing the body. From mildly obese to being fit skinny who spent a lot of time in a gym.
So yeah I don't get the obsession either. 🤷‍♂️

[littlelady1234]

Like to be honest is it more to do with a sexual preference? Like when you're intimate with a person does it have more to do with getting it from behind or is it just attractive even without the sex. I don't know if this is all subconcious but i would like to know

[chihuahua011]

I think it's generally just attraction. I can't really describe it, it is just nice to look at. I mean the "healthy thick" not the overly fat type. And maybe because there's something to grab, we like to grab things on a women which I can't describe either as to why we like it lol

[chihuahua011]

Again this is my opinion and the guys I'm friends with. Everyone is different and there are just as many guys who doesn't prefer fat asses compared to us

[BarryLiverstone]

See for me these butts are too big. But when you say you want something to grab are these examples?

www.12thblog.com/top-15-celebrities-with-big-butt/

[chihuahua011]

Some of them like Beyoncé. JLo is too big, it just looks like someone's hand slipped in photoshop lol

[chihuahua011]

But I'm not sticking to it like "I'll only that girls with that exact butt" or something

[chihuahua011]

I'll only date*

[BarryLiverstone]

Thanks bro. Def to each their own and we tend to date all kinds. My concern is girls who are already healthy stress and add lbs just to have a big booty as they think it’s what a guy wants.

[chihuahua011]

Yeah that's a bad trend because all they see on IG and tic toc and etc are fat ass girls who have millions of followers and the comments are drooling all over them. So it must be what all guys want smh

[syskey69]

Not all men and i could reverse it on women too. You don't see many barbie dolls dating john goodman types. People like what they like, I've dated heavy women and little women

[littlelady1234]

Yeah but guys like FAT asses thats why i asked why dont they like fat girls. Rarely do you hear a girl say she likes fat asses on a guy that why its different

[Mr_longLegz]

Guys who don't like big girls have simply never been with one. Best nights I've had are with big women.

[RenegadeSailor]

We don't like fat asses, we like strong muscular asses that are formed by hours and hours and thousands of squats at the gym.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

All my ex-girlfriends were overweight and I loved them at one time when we was dating

[Tomtom9090]

Guys dont like fat asses, thats the current culture of black america.

[AlperEngin93]

Fat is not hot. I like skinny fat ass women. They are so sexy

[littlelady1234]

OK but why do guys like fat asses? Like dont they resemble the butt of a fat girl? I don't know why im just trying to figure it out

[AlperEngin93]

fat asses look better on skinny women

[dpy87]

Because a fat ass doesn't mean she's out of shape. A fat woman is.

[Anonymous]

Because fat girls don’t have fat asses. They have pancake asses

[magiusX26]

i for one do NOT like fat asses either

[Glasgow55]

I don't like fat asses.

[dudeinohio]

I do and am now. Love bigger girls.

[InferiorElegy]

Why don't females like fat guys?

[GAGSucksBalls1]

Different guys, like different things, hun

[scoogy]

The tummy isn't necessarily supposed to be as fat.

[santfriend]

I love fat women

[FACEtrefivsev357]

I enjoy both