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Not one girl trying to argue? Think this story proofed my point then
@friendzoned4life. The problem is that your approach lacks any "danger" or "intrigue" which women crave. Women call this "confidence" but it's more than that, it's about not giving a fuck what she thinks. In the immortal words of Jimi Hendrix in Red House, "If she won't love me no more, I know her sister will"!
So in other words I have to be an asshole. I Am not so will not
Not an asshole but don't center your self-confidence around her reaction.
@friendzoned4life. Remember, women don't know WTF they want so it's not worth your time to ask them. Women will talk all kinds of shit about wanting a "nice guy, blah, blah, blah" ... what they really want is a guy who is not afraid to WALK away from them when their bullshit gets too deep. They want what they can't have or what they might lose... if they know they have it for good, they lose interest.
Women are most concerned with a man's status and looks. These high-value men know they can have any woman they want so they treat them pretty roughly... and the women ear it up.
So you still agree women only want assholesI Am not changing for anyone I trained myself to not text anymore as soon as she doesn't respond the moment she reads it.But if I am not allowed to be a good guy and be myself she don't deserve me Not gonna put up an act to to get someone in bed I go for this approach I have cause first girlfriend failed miserably and I want a woman for the long term till death do us apart
And what I consider A high value men that is a men Who stands for what he believes.A men that treats thr woman he loves as a PrincessMakes sacrifisis to spent time with his children.A Man that is desired by a lot of woman doesn't make him high value. Cause most of that women only want his DickThe one guy that has the balls to put himself in the position as described above again and again until the right one comes along that is what I call a manCause a real man wants 1 woman for the rest of his life
The guy you are describing @krakenatticking is the kind Girls come to complain about Day in Day out to guys like me. We tried to cope with it for a long time
A high value man is one who works on HIMSELF to grow and develop. Focus on you and on your own success and the woman will follow.
Thats actually a myth. Which then perpetuates. Thus, the decent dudes remain alone and the ass holes get the girls.
@dudeinohio okay nice guy
He is right
@friendzoned4life your username tells me all I need to know pal
But I would not date the guys who I mentioned
Thank u. Will select you as best answer 😇
No problem! Glad I could help:)
Yeah, Ross is like the archetypal fake nice guy.
I like to add to this when that relation with the jerk goes to shit it is the genuine nice guy that is the one that is asked for emotional support 90% of the time.The process repeats multiple times and the nice guy comes to the conclusion you need to be a jerk to have a girlfriend
Girls don't find out a Guy is a jerk until it's too late that's the problem.
That is not true.
Or the jerk is better looking, comes across as more confident, and harder to get. On the outside, jerks can be more attractive.
@jerdanro Exactly. I just love how they try to shift blame and ignoring the fact that the 'nice guy' is simply not turning them on. Any guy with sufficient experience in dating knows this
The jerk is better at fucking her behind the bar dumpster after closing time.
Actually a lot of times women do go for jerks, and 9,999,999 times out of 10,000,000, it's because those women are also jerks, so they have a hard time spotting jerk behavior because they think it's normal.
It’s actually a good example because the nice guy comes with roses, it knowing what flower is actually the girls favourite, or if she likes flowers at all, the. He expects a blow job just because he bought flowers, then calls her a fucking bitch and a slut for not sucking his dick...
And then complains about it on social media to other “nice guys” and thus creating the cesspool that is the red pill mentality
Being a jerk is a talent or something that happens natural.
Bullshit. Jerks attract jerks anyway. Girls who date these guys ain't better and they crazy. So who cares. Have you ever seen a woman above 25 with a proper job who is settled with life? It is mostly some young immature crazy girls who date these guys. Find a mature woman
AND CHANGE THE WORD SWEET GIRLTO WHORE
I think this should be MHO, because it is most helpful. Although, allow me to rephrase the point for guys to understand. Nice guys tend to be less confident than jerks because nice guys are considerate of others. Girls are into assertive personalities even when they're jerks. That's how it is.And just for the record, I am nice and inconfident myself though still working on it.
Neediness and that's why they are pretending to be nice. They're here to exploit you especially if you're an empathetic woman. They usually have a lot of shady secrets.
Anon. You are "so tired of it" that you posted anonymously.
@KrakenAttackin where is the correlation between me posting anonymously and saying that I am "so tired of it"? please explain.
You know your overall position is bullshit so you post anon.
@KrakenAttackin LMAO oops you caught me!!
Wrong. I have seen high quality women marry jackasses plenty of times, than complain that he is a jackass.-He was a jackass when you met him.-He was a jackass when you started dating/fucking him.-He was a jackass when you agreed to marry him.-He was a jackass when you started having kids with him.Than one day she wakes up and says "my husband is a jackass"! No shit lady. #NoSpathy.
Lol. same for my comment (with the genders). Seems like a lot of men watch too many movies
Did you see the poll be gender lmao
Obviously I did dude...
Too many movies = thinks girls want "bad guys"
What if I see this in real life
Then your either American or you just know the worst girls... like ever
Why are you offended by this?
I'm not annoyed over a question on a website lol. It just gets asked all the time, and it's just one of those things that was brought to the world by film industry and that people actually believe
But do you think the real world brought real life into the film industry? Because where did it come from?
Where did wizards come from? Where did dragons and fairies come from? Because it isn't real life. Some things are just imagination. It's probably derived from the saying "opposites attract", and taken a lot overboard
Wizards, dragons and fairies came from someone’s imaginations. Also, they can be real. The universe is a vast place filled with amazing diversity.
@IveGotNoName. I agree that we have the worst girls on the planet in America and Canada.
@Asker, that was the whole point. People can make stuff up, sometimes stuff doesn't come from anywhere
No it ain't read my opinion that is how it goes
Is it really over simplification? In my youth, I was handsome and intelligent. Blessed with genetically good looks, I never found getting females to approach me. I just lack the predator mindset. I just want to. treat them like queens. This was a problem because most women are leary of chivalry. Was I nice because I was a doormat? No! Did I lack confidence? Yes and no! Was I needy? Heck nawl! I just grew up watching the dating life of someone I love. She experience heartbreak after heartbreak! I promised myself, I would never become that kind of man. I was not needy. Trim came to me! I was just sensitive to women needs. My brothers were the jerks. It was nothing to have 3 to 4 women fight over my siblings. Today, I am a bit reformed. I learned balance. I am still nice but with a twist of nastiness. As a old cusromer said, " yo ass sexy with your mean ass." I am not mean but assertive, loyal, strong and straightforward. You know you are loved but I take no mess. I want you but don't need. you...