If your partner smokes, drinks or does tobacco should you try to stop them? (Page 2)

[Adam1978]

No you shouldn't date them if you have an issue with any of that. Reject their lifestyle and keep it away from you.

[Leavesbound]

I wouldn't be having a partner who does that in the first place and taking up smoking is grounds for immediately breaking up without warning.

[TonyMetal___86]

Chose c but i won't stay with a person who smokes and drinks alcohol, well if she drinks a little bit of alcohol in a way of not hurting her health and not getting drunk than it's okay but smoking is too hard to accept

[exitseven]

It is their life. But you have the right to not date somebody that indulges in that stuff.

[Grubhub]

I wouldn’t date anybody who smokes cigarettes in the first place. Those kinds of people are disgusting. Nothing wrong with drinking as long as you don’t do it behind the wheel or it’s obsessive even at home

[Agape93]

Chose C. You can ask, but you can’t force them to do it.

[Apple1996]

Nah I make it known that it bothers me but it's up to him if he wants to stop his bad habits

[EmmaMary]

I wouldn't be with that sort of guy in the first place.

[ToastyOats]

Sweet, sweet, Poo tang should be enough for any man. He should only need his fix on the days you can't or won't provide a good snugglin'. Final word capeesh!

[MysteriousDarkness]

I don't get with those who use cigarettes, pipes, cigars, devices to vape with, bongs, hookahs, chewing tobacco etc.
They can drink once in a while as long as it's not to get drunk.

[Wise4myage]

C. Don't be controlling, if his habits bother you that much, than maybe its time to move on.

[worldscolide]

Nope you should just leave.. I have zero tolerance for tobacco, drug, and alcohol abuse in my relationships.

[Anonymous]

If I don't smoke then what would I do after sex? 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

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[Opinion Owner]

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[Ironic_Method]

I wouldn't be with someone that did any of these things.

[jamesgoldman]

As a cigar smoker and drinker, I wouldn't make an issue for fear of being deemed hypocritical

[clampfan101]

All you can do is try to encourage them to stop. (And say you’ll leave them if they don’t try hard enough.)

[fred_durst]

i won't , they are adult , i am her boyfriend , not her dad

[msc545]

Encourage them but remember - their addictions are more important to them than you are.

[Maspolomas]

It takes a lot to quit smoking I had a heart attack that’s how I stopped if I didn’t I’d probably still be smoking

[Nahid1707]

You should encourage them to stop, but you can't make them do anything
I find that a turn off
Wbu?