Tips for casually dating to gain experience?

[Anonymous]

Okay so let me just say that when I first started dating, I was strictly looking for something serious. However, after many years of failed dates and it never going anywhere, I got sick of it. Mostly because I felt insecure about my lack of experience and honestly, I don't know how to approach serious dating. Also, I just don't like how I become when I'm seriously dating someone -- so dependant and insecure because I have this expectation of marriage and finding true love. When I really think about it, it's so intimidating, and I just wanna relax with someone, have fun, and not have disappointing expectations.

That's why, I think I should just casually date many different guys and really figure out what I want before deciding I want to be serious with someone. However, I'm a little concerned about my sexual experience. I'm not a virgin, but I'm still only slightly experienced. I've done hand jobs, blow jobs, but only done penetrative sex twice and both times I bled. I know I want to have sex, but I also don't wanna scare him off! 😅

[ZackBan]

A simple classy tinder profile will get you a large selection to chose from. You just find a like-minded guy who doesn't want a future wife but only a good time with no strings attached. You meet him somewhere get to know him, take him home/go to his place, hook up, decide if it's good or not to do it again or call it right there.
For girls it's easy trust me

[coachTanthony]

You shouldn't try and define it.

You should go out there looking to connect with people on a genuine level. Leave the expectations at the door. Sometimes when you meet someone they might not be your person but they might know someone who is... Dating should be fun... go have fun.

[ohshee]

Yeah I think for anybody that wants to experience anything with the internet you have it all right there in front of you and you don't even have to leave your house. I've always said if you want to understand something you have to experience it. And with the internet you can experience anything you want any scenario people like me to get into just about everything but you can do all kinds of role plays just to experience whatever it is that you want to experience the more experience you get the better off you are do you understand things so when the situation comes up you know which direction to go you are a real play casual dating hit me up I'll take you to the Moon LOL no seriously anything you want to do you can do on the internet first and then go for it

[hellacray]

It sounds like you have plenty of experience to me.

But you're giving guys a pretty good reason not to date. Well at least not you.

Why would a guy date a girl that doesn't know what she wants. At that point you're just wasting my time while you try to "find yourself."

[In_Trance]

so what are you asking here?