I spent $89 on Lululemon leggings and my boyfriend thinks they don't look good?

[Anonymous]

He thinks that they are not worth the money and they are too high waisted. I told him that's whats comfortable to me and I think Lulu is great quality. He does this whenever I buy clothes. I frickin hate how he judges everything I buy, while he always wears dirty sweatpants all day while I clean up after him.

[FictionalCharacter]

I’m all about comfort and design. Now back in my teens and twenties I thought the higher I paid for a item. It must be good quality! Right? Wrong.

I’ve spent clothing and shoes as high as $70-200 only to be disappointed by the fabric and material.

Now looking at your $89 leggings. They’re not that great. Bland color and high waisted. Not my style. The only good thing about it are the pockets. I mean if you think you got your money worth. Then okay, good for you.

I’ve seen better for a $8-12 at department stores.

[Prettygurl12]

Are they my taste? Not particularly, and yes, I think $89 is way too much to spend on leggings, but also there are frivolous things I spend money on so I won't judge you if leggings are your thing.

Your post makes it sound like there's a deeper level of problems in your relationship though that's just manifesting itself in the leggings dispute. You should examine those.

If it's purely just the leggings and they don't break the bank then I'd just ignore him, but like I said, it sounds like you have bigger problems.

[ChrisMaster69]

They look great to me and he obviously has limited taste.

you look really great.

as for price, it’s really subjective, I spent well over £1k yesterday taking my daughter clothes shopping but it’s well in budget and she’s worth it.

some times I spend a couple quid on a t shirt, sometimes £40 on a similar one. Mountain biking ones been a good example lol.

Seriously though you look lovely and if he can’t handle letting you dress how you want, then look at moving on.

[The_Maphio]

89$ for a pair of leggings is plain theft. If anything, I'd have scolded you for having fallen for the "brand" trap and having wasted your money.
About the hating the fact that he judges what you buy, I hope you've also told him already. Telling this to people who don't know you nor do really care about your relationship woes and not to the directly interested dude would be a bit counterproductive and also a bit silly, if you ask me.

[jennifer_bloom]

I think regardless of how he feels about the pants, he should respect the fact you bought them and spent your money on it and not complain about how it looks. You don’t exist for him, you exist for yourself and God and family and your job and your goals in life.

[OlderAndWiser]

If you don't like the way he responds to you, then why do you stay with him?

[Heiniken]

Girls love being sh*t on.

[Anonymous]

I think they look great on you! The remind me of a girl I used to go out with. She was wearing yoga pants and we were in her room fooling around a bit but still dressed. Then her roommate came home so we figured we shouldn't get naked and have full on sex. But she was on top of me wearing yoga pants and dry humping my hard on (I was in shorts). I guess the combo of the barely-there material plus the danger of the roommate hearing turned her on a LOT because she came from just the friction of the dry humping on her clit through the yoga pants.

I referred to them as her "yogasm" pants after that! lol!

[ohshee]

Well first of all he should take another look or maybe he need glasses I would tell him he doesn't need to like them he's not wearing them and this is what I don't get if he knows it makes you happy why hasn't he taken the information off of them and went out and bought another pair for you

[DarkCarousel]

They look like normal leggings to me... almost like you could get them somewhere else for a lot less. But I've had some Lululemon leggings and they were awesome.

Anyway, if that's what you like, so be it. I can understand his side a little more if he's paying for them.

[HawkPerception]

Not the best looking leggings honestly. For $89 I think it's a waste. This is why brand means absolutely nothing to me. I don't get why people are so prideful about brand when they could get the same thing for much less from a no-name brand. I also don't like brand logos. If you're not paying me to advertise your shit, why would I do it for free?

[WindAtMyBack]

He's right. Total waste of money and they don't look good. As far as I'm concerned, there is no piece of clothing in existence that is worth $89.

It sounds like you guys are completely different wavelengths on this sort of thing.

[whatsthereinname]

From what I can see, I would be with your boyfriend on this, they are little too high waist.. And yes... Not sure if they justify their price tag

That said, that's if you wanted an opinion

If you find them really comfortable and worth it, that's indeed your money and your choice!

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Looks ok however looks overpriced as well. The label marked $118.00 if you notice there is a double label there & if you still have the tag I double dare you to remove the first label to see what the price was under the $118.00 label.

[stevie123]

Mr negative doesn't seem to appreciate you.
He doesn't care how he looks to you and has no intention to improve.
You rock those lulu's!
It is time to find a guy that values you and actually cares about you.

[Alpha09]

The waist is a bit high, but that is simply a personal preference. They are quality and he's just being a dick. Honestly he sounds like a bore, I'd move on. Sounds like a stagnant relationship.

[Alpha09]

Depends on what that particular pair is made from though, if they start pilling send those back. Amazon has good leggings for way cheaper.

[ariadneR]

I think you look fantastic darling!
Don't study him, he doesn't know what's good for him
My brother works at the lulu warehouse so twice a month when he's allowed to buy for women I give him a list. I love the hoodie.

[ilikefrogsalot]

Why in god's name would someone spend eighty nine bucks on leggings? EIGHTY NINE BUCKS? ON LEGGINGS? Have you lost your mind, woman?

[Anonymous]

first it's not his money it's yours and you can do whatever you want with your money even if you choose to throw it down the drain on leggings that look hideous on you. But hey do what you want you earned that money spend it on whatever ugly leggings you want

[bowenw]

It's your body and your money so you can do whatever you want. If he has nothing good to say about anything and is a slob, you may want to send him packing. It will only get worse over time.

[Breanna_nonbinary]

They do look fab. But in all honesty if I was your boyfriend and I had a choice I’d say you like better without them on.

[Zelda_5]

They look great! I personally wouldn't pay that much, but I'm super cheap.

[Leavesbound]

They do look good but that is WAY too much money to spend on something like that.

[spartan55]

90 bucks for mom like yoga pants... I'm with sweatpants boy on this one

[TommyMountainFigure]

Oh you definitely need to change your boyfriend. They look amazing. Money very well spent.