If your partner sleeps around with somebody and then excuses 'I thought we were on a break!', would you accept it?

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thats bs

CallmeTheKnight · Accepted Answer

People who go on break basically broke up. It's nothing but manipulation. Why take a break from something you've wanted or agree to get into from the beginning? You know what you were getting into whether it was rushed or slowly took it's time.

As far as them being drunk and not remembering a thing what happened, that's grounds for break up as well. People tend to lean towards that when they done something bad and they knew they had no business doing it. Although you do have people who do blackout and you do have people who remember exactly everything they did when they were drunk.

You should make room for someone who's going to be full of excuses because you're better than that.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

I don't do "breaks". If I ger together with a girl, I make it clear from the beginning that she can walk away at any time, but if she does, there's no coming back. I expect her to act like an adult and take the relationship seriously, just as I do. And I expect to be held to the same standard.

IveGotNoName · Accepted Answer

No. If his first reaction after we take a break is to sleep with someone else, then he wasn't who I thought he was.

Gwenhwyfar · Accepted Answer

I would not unless we really were on one. And even then I’d be pissed and jealous af.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I would tell them, "Yes, we are on a break, and you may continue doing what you have been doing because this break won't ending anytime soon!"

TheorionMage · Answer

Does what 'we' had, (note the PAST tense) mean SO LITTLE to you that you COULDN'T BE BOTHERED to ASK? ... To clarify?
Am I your 'good enough for now, til the NEXT one' !!!

The Goddess granted You a 'franchise', NOT a 'monopoly' BYE!!!

brezzybaby · Answer

Fuck no , my ex used this on me and I was really trying to make it work and he kept leaving me for two and three days going to stay with another woman and I was so hurt when I found out and then he was like I didn't know you were going to be as serious as you are... well TF you think I am? If I am in a relationship then obviously I want to be in it.

CaptainRonnie · Answer

No and I'd be equally as insulted that they put such a small amount of effort in coming up with that excuse

Interstate · Answer

I would have asked her what in the hell gave her that impression. Plus, A question like that only says that he doesn't give a tinker's damn about you. He is a lying, cheating player and you need to dump him faster than CBS dumped "Jimmy the Greek"!

Prettygurl12 · Answer

We're married so I would LOVE to hear him try and tell me exactly what type of "break" he thought was happening. 😂

kCasey · Answer

A break is not a break up so it is cheating based on how it's viewed

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Nah either we are together or we are not. Breaks are confusing and one side will always interpret them differently.

Kaneki05 · Answer

If were not on break i don't see how it would come across as we were so no.

madgoat · Answer

What does a break mean to you? If it means pausing an ongoing relationship for reflection before likely continuing then they should have known better. It's poor strategy and not a valid excuse.

SupremeWarlord · Answer

It would depend on circumstances, a priori, I'll answer that it's pretty clear when your partner is being honest with this excuse or not, depending on that I can accept it. Or not since I'm a pretty jealous guy :D

Mangospacho · Answer

Wait. It’s cheating even if you’re on a break? But don’t the rules of being on a break say that you can act like you’re single? Isn’t that what the break is from?

Not_Average · Answer

Not at all. There’s no conviction in that. Just excuses and rationalization. I’d stray away from someone that immature.

ohshee · Answer

I would say yeah. you're right a permanent break... later

bamesjond0069 · Answer

No. If im with a girl its because of her sexual purity. Id dump her ass in a second because without that im not interested.

NightHawk99 · Answer

She should just be real and say she found a bigger dick to suck. In the end, she reveals she's a disloyal hoe, so the sting wouldn't be THAT bad. At least not for me.

Romeocuck · Answer

Being intoxicated is not an excuse. If she wants something she needs to come forward and tell me first then we'll deal with it together. But if she took the initiative and done something behind my back then we will be on a break for good

DJB72 · Answer

It depends which season of "Friends" we're up to...

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

Definitely not. I cannot comprehend how or why anyone would say yes, unless they’re the ones that did it?

the_sinner · Answer

Your update makes sense. You don’t wanna make a cocktail of all the emotions when you’re in a vulnerable state. It’d just get worse.

Pterodon · Answer

A break is a breakup and I never go back. I’m not stupid

admles · Answer

There is no such thing as being "on a break". You're either together or not.

malwins · Answer

No a break means a break a pause a separation it’s ok to fuck other people

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Heck no! Cheat on me once, I'll never see you again

collie22 · Answer

i don't get doing a break thing so no excuses

Nazorella · Answer

Yup is doesn’t even an option babe.

Baylist1000 · Answer

That's still cheating

DaisyM23 · Answer

Very ross/rachel

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Lmao, NO!

TheEbonyEnchantress · Answer

What the fucking fuck! Of course not

HelenJacob · Answer

I allow without a break

Still-alive · Answer

Well i mean were we on break or not? Lol

incognitoinga · Answer

I'd fk her sister or best friend

jjj101010 · Answer

It worked in friends lol

Mia-Wallace · Answer

Nah.

lycanthrope3 · Answer

She can sleep with who she wants

ItsMeItsMe1989 · Answer

ok, ross

elizamichale1 · Answer

Well we dont mind it

AngelLily · Answer

Na we done.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Hell to the No.

Tstrbrainer · Answer

Not at all

rebeliouse · Answer

but your on a break

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