What else do you have to offer besides sex?

[Justneedtokno]

Nowadays I think women are starting to take a chance and be more upfront instead of just sex what else can you offer.

[NyceGuyFinishingLast]

I can offer friendship, loyalty, support, love, compassion, understanding, non-judgement, ambitions, protection, a safe place, but these are just words. The woman would need to take a chance and if she really wants to know if the man has more to offer than just sex then don't have sex right away. Hold out until you know for sure. I once was seeing several women for pleasure only, some friends and some not. But, then I met this really awesome girl through some friends. After talking to her for a while I started to feel like I should really give her a chance so I cut off all the other females. I waited a month after we started dating to have sex because I wanted to know if it was real and not about sex. We were together for 7 years and it ended because of my stupidity.

Easiest way to know is to date and not have sex right away.

[Lionman95]

I can cook and listen for a long time also I can keep secrets. There are only a topics I´m so less interested that I´d tell you. I´m adventorous and easy to be motivated. There are certain things I´ll never do but they are quite few.
Also I can give and like to massages more than receiving.
I´m also a rather patient guy.
I´m well organized and spend a least one hour cleaning and tying my room and other stuff I used.

[Justneedtokno]

Well said about yourself. You can keep secrets is pretty good

[keyair]

For my boyfriend, I offer to be a mother and a wife. I spend my days cooking and cleaning, watching his two sons he has prior to me. I know personal experience can give you a harsh view of the opposite sex; however there are many women who offer more than sex, more than money. And honestly in my opinion love isn't about any of that. It's not about wanting a person to be who you want but loving a person as they are and enjoying who they are. Don't focus so much on what you can get from a partner and I think life will find a way to become enjoyable.

[AmandaYVR]

"I think women are starting to take a chance and be more upfront"
What do you mean by that?

As a friend, etc. I guess: Curiosity, conversation, attention and sometimes focus.
In a relationship, the same, but add to that the physical comforts like affection, cooking, making a really comfortable, relaxing, aesthetically beautiful environment to hang out in. Stuff like that.

[jennifer_bloom]

I’m kind and sweet and hard working and honest.

[blank_expression]

I have all capabilities and attributes that normal women seek but I offer nothing up but sex. “Nowadays I think women are starting to take a chance and be more upfront instead of just sex what else can you offer.” What does that even mean? Women always sought male resources and only today, supposedly, did they become independent and don’t need a man anymore, except they might want one. Oh aren’t we so fortunate.

[MzAsh]

That means she’s there with you because she wants to be, not needs to be. You don’t want a woman who doesn’t give a shit about you except for your resources.

[blank_expression]

@MzAsh I summoned the Devil.

[MzAsh]

What lol

[ChrisMaster69]

A large property portfolio

that and I can cook, put toilet seat down and do great snuggles

[Justneedtokno]

Good job you put the toilet seat down

[ChrisMaster69]

@Justneedtokno yep I’ve been trained

[Anonymous]

Sex is always the last thing I can offer, I don't even sleep around.

I am resourceful and have helped people get better jobs/discounts on things, I cook/bake many guys have paid me for my food, I've experienced many cultures i'm open minded honest and have loyal to name a few

[Ez-Bri-Z]

A bag of peanut butter m&ms, $2.47 in loose change, bad puns, an old blockbuster video membership card, my Spice World collectors edition set, and a side hug.

You know the kind of hug where it is awkward and mostly with your hip and your arm is sort of bridged out like if you made contact you'd be stuck like glue? Yeah that kind.

[Anonymous]

Oh fantastic, if a woman wants more than sex then I might have a chance! Any ladies out their looking for a guy that has a beat up car, huge sound proof trunk, and a killer personality?



Legal Disclaimer:
My trunk is not huge or sound proof and please don't search my backyard...

[Justneedtokno]

Whoa umm

[Opinion Owner]

Ya, stupid joke. My bad

[Leavesbound]

Love and companionship are the two most important ingredients. Having common interests is helpful. Having a skill or talent is also useful.

[Xitomyth]

Actual problem solving skills do to my engineering background, understanding due to my experiences, and wisdom.

[TheFlak38]

Ask women. They are the ones who have a vagina and expect everything in the world.

[Justneedtokno]

It’s a universal question lol

[Kaneki05]

Nothing much. I ain't trying to offer myself to someone, i am just me. Now hopefully someone will fall in love with me for me been me. But yet that remains to be seen.
Hell i don't know if i can even offer sex with been a awkward virgin.

[Anonymous]

I tell good anecdotes , stories ( ghosts , history , science)
I am a scientist 👨‍🔬
I speak several languages and play violin
I am active and loves hiking and dangerous stuff 😜
I am an excellent gardener and can make beads , flower tiaras , garlands...
I can cook different food items from all over the world
I write poetry and short stories for magazines...
And so on...

[IAMNathanael]

Well, I'm not offering sex... The best I got is probably music to share. Either from myself or people I like. Thank for the invite

[Chris2769]

I like the approach of modern woman! I offer a good career, healthy habits, and a partner in crime attitude. What about you?

[krin_m]

Compassion, respect, understanding! Same as what I expect from a woman. Of course sex is very important. Without that, it is friendship not an intimate relationship.

[COMMODOREII]

Companionship, my winning personality and life long fun..

[Still-alive]

Just sex only!

jk i got a sense if humor and empathy to offer

[msc545]

Travel, intelligent conversation, medical knowledge, all sorts of stuff if you're interested in it

[ChefPapiChulo]

its not about what a person can offer. that's superficial

[Gosceewual]

actually it is, because even if its jus love or your personality that u give (the standard thing recognized as not superficial) even that is giving them something.. ur company... so to offer a person nothing in a relationship,., that means u have to avoid them and never see them or talk to them... basically not even date them, cos even if u jus talk to them u offer them something... company

[Gosceewual]

lets face it, relationships offer 3 things: affection, sex, or ur company (personality)

if we had none of those then might aswell not even be dating them

[ChefPapiChulo]

@Gosceewual actually its not.

[Wiredone]

Nothing since I'm married

[AmandaYVR]

Your account says "it's complicated."

[Wiredone]

@AmandaYVR that's right. I'm married When I signed up we were arguing and I thought we were going to get a divorce.

[AmandaYVR]

Ah, sorry.
Relationships are tough. 'They ain't for sissies' as they say. 🤗

[Wiredone]

@AmandaYVR that's for sure. We've straighten it out and we're staying together

[AmandaYVR]

Good for you. 🧲 (I looked for a horseshoe but found this. Sort of... interesting.)

[Wiredone]

@AmandaYVR are you saying I have a magnetic personality. Hahaha 🤣😂

[Paul09]

Loyalty and respect! Humour, fun, comfort.