He overreacted.
But good riddance. Now you're not wasting your time with someone who's overly sensitive and reactive.
Of course true serial killers won't admit to you they are one. But by you asking him/bringing it up, you are letting him know that you are aware of the risks of entrusting anyone online (or in person), and it is females who have the most to lose physically - their bodies, and lives, are at risk.
You're also indirectly letting him know that you don't want to be lied to. The more direct you are with what you say, and what your expectations are, the less ambiguity there is if he betrays you or your trust, in any way. And never apologize for this. You are well within your right to expect and ask for this.
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So you actually thinkg an actuall serial killer is just going to confess to you that he is a serial killer?
I mean, seriously?
Seriously?
Ask this question again and think about it.
Plus, i think it's very immature to ask this question, if you had a bad experience i understand, but you can't just ask directly, if tou're scared don't even date people online.
It's offensive what you're doing just saying.
I’ve been asked that before. Although it was annoying it is also typical feminine exaggeration and paranoia.
Just let me give you a hint: real serial killers are very smart/smooth to the point were you probably wouldn’t even think of asking them that. Ted Bundy was extremely talented at looking innocuous to women. He was also considered good looking for his time so that helped him manipúlate and set up women even more.
But seriously think of a better question than that to ask the next guy. It’s cliche and annoying. Even if guys don’t get angry it’s a bit insulting.
Just remember if you meet in public on a first dated changed are extraordinarily low he will ever pose any real danger to you.
Yes it´s not the best idea to ask it that directly. Because for every guy that sounds like an insult. If you have to check if a guy could be dangerous give him an imaginery scenario where you describe a situation to see how angry he could get and what effects his anger could have.
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u If he is a serial killer, do you REALLY expect him to confess that to you, TROLL?
Fair enough question, but you're not likely to get an honest answer from a serial killer.
Of course, if I were a serial killer I would answer "Yes", but in a way that made you think I was joking.
Not sure why you would actually ask that, but it seems to be what women are worried about. I've heard it asked in a joking manner more than once.
Honestly, if a guy is that offended by that then it's good you got away now.
Well most guys would giggle, maybe ask why you might think something like that. Anger of any kind in the first few months is kind of a calling card, but if he was a little creepy, maybe it’s ok to tell him that too. People need to know what they are doing wrong when dating.
Why would a serial killer say "Yes. Yes I am." ?
Let's say if I was a serial killer (maybe I am.) Why would I say yes? Why would I risk jailtime and undo all the work I've put in. Saying yes would make it riskier to continue my work.
Is it wrong to ask? A little, it's like that's how you view him, what you thought he could be upon first glance, it isn't flattering.
The question implies that you feel the guy IS a serial killer and that you're looking down on him based on what you do know about him. It's like asking, "how long have you been retarded?" or "was yesterday the first time you raped a woman?"
Shrugs i wouldn't be bothered by the question. But more if i was a killer couldn't i just lie?
Or maybe i just say yep i am but i wouldn't kill you tho lol
Before the end of the second date I always confess all my sins and let the cards fall where they may. If I meet her on line I do so before the first date.
Picked up a hitchhiker, he said "Most people wouldn't stop, afraid I was a serial killer or something."
I just laughed, what are the chances of having TWO serial killers in the same car?
If he was do you think he would tell you? I can see why you asking would be a turn off. Or possibly you want to date a serial killer.
If he says: yes... he could be joking
If he says: no... he could be lying
Mission failed, I'd say :)
I am interested in knowing why you asked him in the first place.
it comes off as very rude since you akready liked him on the app because it shows a complete contradiction to your liking him.
Would you be offended if a guy asked you if you're a sex worker?
I'd find that very offensive. I'd be thinking what did I do to piss her off?
No but it’s stupid. Hell either deny it or kill you lol
Asking him is unlikely to reveal a true serial killer. But him getting angry about it is kinda strange. Who knows maybe he is one?
It's alright, but a serial killer won't probably state it in his resume. He's more likely to prove it than bragging
It’s a bit weird to ask somebody that and if he really was do you really think that he would answer that truthfully
Do you think he would tell the truth if he was?
I would take that as a joke.
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