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Who should pay on the first date and why? (Page 2)

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    Why ask when REALLY what you seek is a war between men against women. Idiot.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
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    +1 y

    The man should pay for the date, but the woman should pay him back with sex.

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  • Iron_Man u
    Iron_Man Follow
    Mentor Age: 46
    +1 y
    19.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    The man for a good sign of faith

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  • Inexpensivefurniture
    Inexpensivefurniture Follow
    Yoda Age: 28
    +1 y

    Whoever asked the other out should pay.

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  • Darine123
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    Xper 6 Age: 23
    +1 y

    Who ask to go on a date that one should pay

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  • kidvid80
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    Xper 6 Age: 38 , mho 52%
    +1 y

    I always pay half if I do go on a date

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    • gymjerk
      gymjerk
      +1 y

      Wow, a woman willing to put some skin in the game! πŸ₯°

      Reply
    • kidvid80
      kidvid80
      +1 y

      @gymjerk -i always pay for my own stuff on a date

      Reply
  • nolabels
    nolabels Follow
    Guru Age: 68 , mho 45%
    +1 y
    366 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    The person who offers the invitation should pay.

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  • jshm2
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    +1 y
    2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Depends who initiated the date.

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  • KatherineJ
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    +1 y

    The person who asks. Usually that’s the male.

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  • TacosRAwesome
    TacosRAwesome Follow
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    +1 y
    5.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Whoever asks pays or split.

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  • K-I-S-S
    K-I-S-S Follow
    Xper 7 Age: 36
    +1 y

    Whoever asked should offer to pay.

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  • loveslongnails
    loveslongnails Follow
    Master Age: 40
    +1 y
    4K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Ugh, here we go again. LOL

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  • Andres77
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    +1 y
    1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Split it.
    Women want equality, right?

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  • padreflint
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    Xper 6 Age: 53
    +1 y

    The one who asked for the date.

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  • Ankitaa334
    Ankitaa334 Follow
    Xper 5 Age: 35
    +1 y

    It should be random and the waiter should decide

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    • Aethereal
      Aethereal
      +1 y

      You mean like the waiter flips a coin for both you to determine who pays? What a novel idea. I like that haha

      Reply
  • Malono
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    Xper 6 Age: 40
    +1 y

    I would add 50/50 because equality

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    Both, each their own. Especially first date.

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  • In_Trance
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    +1 y
    15.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Whoever arranged the date

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  • OddBeMe
    OddBeMe Follow
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    +1 y
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    Whomever asked the other out.

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  • Tadpole_berry
    Tadpole_berry Follow
    Xper 3 Age: 25
    +1 y

    Whoever the f*ck is less broke.

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  • Sabretooth
    Sabretooth Follow
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    +1 y
    1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    both. it shows both are willing to do their part.

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  • Dinosaursandanime65
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    The variable who invited the other

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  • AYOMAnSUSS
    AYOMAnSUSS Follow
    Xper 3 Age: 23
    +1 y

    I don't know man im broke so ye

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  • 19magic
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    381 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    50/50

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  • Kusof17
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    Xper 3 Age: 25
    +1 y

    Date for free in nature is better :)

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    Probably the guy if he asked her

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (45 Plus)
    +1 y

    They want equal rights... then they can pay too.

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  • LukeLandy24
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    Xper 2 Age: 29
    +1 y

    male should

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (18-24)
    +1 y

    Both

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  • AdithyaR
    AdithyaR Follow
    Yoda Age: 25
    +1 y
    850 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Whoever asks pays.

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  • Rok4bakAR
    Rok4bakAR Follow
    Xper 5 Age: 45
    +1 y

    50/50!

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  • Uptowngirl88
    Uptowngirl88 Follow
    Explorer Age: 32
    +1 y

    A man.

    1
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    • MysteriousDarkness
      MysteriousDarkness
      +1 y

      @uptowngirl88
      I knew you would say that since you expect the guy to do the asking out.

      Reply
    • Uptowngirl88
      Uptowngirl88
      +1 y

      @MysteriousDarkness ok?

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    • MysteriousDarkness
      MysteriousDarkness
      +1 y

      @uptowngirl88
      In other words you are saying your time is worth more so he has to pay for it

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    • Uptowngirl88
      Uptowngirl88
      +1 y

      @MysteriousDarkness who raised y'all? πŸ€¦πŸ½β€β™€οΈ and I mean seriously who raised y'all

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    • MysteriousDarkness
      MysteriousDarkness
      +1 y

      @uptowngirl88
      Why do you expect the guy to pay then?

      Reply
    • Uptowngirl88
      Uptowngirl88
      +1 y

      @MysteriousDarkness were you raised by your father?

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    • MysteriousDarkness
      MysteriousDarkness
      +1 y

      @uptowngirl88
      I was raised by my mom and dad. Why do you ask?

      Reply
    • Uptowngirl88
      Uptowngirl88
      +1 y

      @MysteriousDarkness then you shouldn't even be asking me this question. Aren't parents supposed to lead as an example?

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    • MysteriousDarkness
      MysteriousDarkness
      +1 y

      @uptowngirl88
      You have the mindset of a gold digger who thinks they are entitled.

      Reply
    • Uptowngirl88
      Uptowngirl88
      +1 y

      @MysteriousDarkness nope you're just broke that's why you're lonely. Get a better paying job loser

      Reply
    • Uptowngirl88
      Uptowngirl88
      +1 y

      @WowwGirl look at this bum

      Reply
    • Uptowngirl88
      Uptowngirl88
      +1 y

      @WoweGirl calling women golddiggers just because he's broke 🀣

      Reply
    • MysteriousDarkness
      MysteriousDarkness
      +1 y

      I bought my house, I pay all my bills the day they come, I paid for my vehicles, I have a bunch of investments etc. If I was a broke bum I don't think I would have a girlfriend.

      Reply
    • WowwGirl
      WowwGirl
      +1 y

      @MysteriousDarkness she real? Or... Just cheap?

      Reply
    • WowwGirl
      WowwGirl
      +1 y

      Nothing worse then a emotional women except a bitter man

      Reply
    • WowwGirl
      WowwGirl
      +1 y

      @uptowngirl88 why dig for gold? Just marry the mind

      Reply
    • WowwGirl
      WowwGirl
      +1 y

      Mine

      Reply
    • MysteriousDarkness
      MysteriousDarkness
      +1 y

      @WowwGirl
      @WowwGirl
      Me bitter? πŸ€”πŸ’­πŸ’‘ Not at all. My life has been wonderful. Amazing family, friends, girlfriend, and pets. One year my girlfriend surprised me with a trip to Italy for my birthday and another year I surprised her with a trip to Ireland for her birthday.

      Reply
    • Uptowngirl88
      Uptowngirl88
      +1 y

      @MysteriousDarkness if your life was so great and you had a girlfriend you wouldn't be on here worrying about other woman's opinions. Nice try but no one's believing your made up girlfriend and life story.

      Reply
    • MysteriousDarkness
      MysteriousDarkness
      +1 y

      @uptowngirl88
      Nice try on trying to pull me down to your level but you failed. I never expected someone like you to believe me.

      Reply
    • WowwGirl
      WowwGirl
      +1 y

      @MysteriousDarkness Greatness doesn't usually come with bitterness but ooookay

      Reply
    • MysteriousDarkness
      MysteriousDarkness
      +1 y

      @WowwGirl
      You have every right to call me bitter you have every right to be wrong at the same time.

      Reply
    • WowwGirl
      WowwGirl
      +1 y

      @MysteriousDarkness absolutely

      Reply
    • WowwGirl
      WowwGirl
      +1 y

      I don't know you well enough to say, but when somebody buts in a conversation talking about how he can't or won't provide For a woman they it comes off very bitter

      Reply
    • MysteriousDarkness
      MysteriousDarkness
      +1 y

      @WowwGirl
      For a lot if guys if a woman doesn't want to pay for herself on the first date how would she be down the road. We both agreed to the date, both got ready for the date and both are here to get to know the other person so what makes her think her time is more valuable than mine?

      Reply
    • WowwGirl
      WowwGirl
      +1 y

      @MysteriousDarkness I just believe men should be leaders and providers and I'm not even jacking with one who starts that way each person's time is equally important too

      Reply
    • WowwGirl
      WowwGirl
      +1 y

      If you don't want to pay I'd suggest a sugar momma

      Reply
    • WowwGirl
      WowwGirl
      +1 y

      I will pay about every three times to show gratitude towards him though

      Reply
    • Uptowngirl88
      Uptowngirl88
      +1 y

      Again, why are you still here talking and worrying about our opinions? Shouldn't you be with your make believe girlfriend and fake happy life? No one's buying your story. @MysteriousDarkness you're bitter

      Reply
    • WowwGirl
      WowwGirl
      +1 y

      πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸŽ‰

      Reply
    • Uptowngirl88
      Uptowngirl88
      +1 y

      He's so fake 🀣. See how when you called him out he started making up all this stuff? Just crazy

      Reply
    • WowwGirl
      WowwGirl
      +1 y

      They always do 🌺
      You know what a backpack is in slang?

      Reply
    • MysteriousDarkness
      MysteriousDarkness
      +1 y

      @WowwGirl
      @uptowngirl88
      You two can think I am fake, lying about my life, my girlfriend is make believe etc all you like. It doesn't diminish what I said. Since you two expect a guy to pay on a first day to prove he will be a provider then what would you do to prove you would be a good partner and not just a girlfriend let alone a fiancee or even wife?

      Reply
    • WowwGirl
      WowwGirl
      +1 y

      @MysteriousDarkness cookk and clean worked for me

      Reply
    • MysteriousDarkness
      MysteriousDarkness
      +1 y

      @WowwGirl
      You expect the guy to pay on the first date to prove he will be a provider and you eoukd cook an ckean to prove you woild be a good partner? Typically the first few times you meet the guy won't get to see that side of you. I guess I was not specific enough. What would you do on the "first date" to prove to the guy you would be a good partner?

      Reply
    • Uptowngirl88
      Uptowngirl88
      +1 y

      @WowwGirl he will never understand.

      Reply
  • Dayman343
    Dayman343 Follow
    Explorer Age: 69
    +1 y

    50/50

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  • alance99
    alance99 Follow
    Guru Age: 26
    +1 y

    Male

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  • JesseJayNeak
    JesseJayNeak Follow
    Guru Age: 27
    +1 y
    1.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Bill splitting

    1
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  • Mithat
    Mithat Follow
    Xper 3 Age: 41
    +1 y

    Male
    Erkek yani

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (25-29)
    +1 y

    50-50

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