I met this guy online over the last lockdown that lasted 6 months and we get along super well. We’ve hanged out 3 times ever since (made out once). I’ve told him way before I’m a virgin and he said we could still have fun without me worrying about it - which feels strange him saying that when he can just find loads of girls out there that’d give him what he wants without making him wait. When we were making out I said I like to take my time and he said “That’s very good, I respect that!”. But sometimes he tries to know what I’ve done with other guys if I’ve been naked before and I say “Does it matter?” and he says it doesn’t matter, he’s just making a conversation. But still I don’t know it kinda freaks me out a little. I’ve dealt with ****boys before, this guy doesn’t seem to be the type at all but still wouldn’t he eventually get bored or something why is he with me? I mean I know he likes me and he inclusively said he likes my personality more than my looks but I also know he just wants something casual and he probably understood by now that I’m gonna take my time getting there (don’t get me wrong I really want to, I just don’t wanna feel like he’s expecting something more every time we’re together) - what do you guys think? I’d like to hear some opinions on this :))
Why would a guy be casual with someone who’s a virgin not some more experienced girl?
