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Like, why would someone, keep coming to someone's house- like all the times. What is there goal or intentions, and again you guys aren't together but I guess you can consider it a quaintance or like she or he are a casual person?
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I would tell them the rent is due the first of every month.
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Well he is an friends with benefits of mines. And it seem like, after an hour or two of some good loving. He has to go either to his son or either to avoid getting caught by my m o m. And I mentioned to him a few times how I wish he can stay with me forever and how I didn't want him to leave. And he will say hell yea babes, I wish so too. Then I said to him I said I wish I had my own place therefore it would be a lot easier. And, he said hell yea, I would be over there like every single day. But also does that mean that each and every time he comes over he would also f u c k. Actually spend time with me then do that or do that then spend time with me. Because my come over means you can come over for a little bit but then you got to take your ass back home lol. This is not a hotel motel Holiday Inn lol.
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Well if thats the case you two need to either redefine the relationship. friends with benefits doesn't mean coming over has to lead to sex. Thats why Friends is the 1st word in friends with benefits. But that also means there are no obligations from either to stay or leave. But being in a successful friends with benefits relationship means their has to be an open line of communication. Ps now u got me up on my feet
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Lol. Like him And I would hangout and have sum pillow talk afterwards. And I agree with you. but knowing him, he'll probably get to comfortable and try to stay all day. Just like last year I believe, 2019 or 2020. But, I was mentioning to him, about some apartments and showing him, the ones that I have been looking at. Then he randomly out the blue ask me how many rooms do I have. I said I believed to then I asked him why and he falls for a minute then say Oh okay I'm just asking. I hope he wouldn't try to break in... but the day that I do get my own place I don't think that he's going to be invited over. And plus our current relationship situationship is back at just being friends I cut sex out. You don't know how to control his freaking hormones, and always expect sex. So.. I deserve better and looking elsewhere I can't keep what's old, around forever.
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Anyone who doesn't evolve as a person will never be worthy or deserving of your time. Sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders and have a plan in mind for your future. His future is day to day and when he gonna get some from you. Just remember it all starts with an extra toothbrush in your bathroom. Next thing u know he got draws in your dresser. He will only slow you down so if you need a new dance partner let me know i will start pleating my pants right away. Lol sorry being silly
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Ahhh yoooooooo you made my night so much better OMG or better than ever you are freaking hilarious!! 😋😋😂😂😂😂😂😂. LMAO.. then you're right everything changes when you're out on your own I'm 30 and he's 31. At that time we were still in our early twenties. And you're right his stories doesn't add up 1 minute he says he's living with his brother the next minute he says he's living with his sister then the next he says that he's living with family but claims and says he got his own place. And he is usually good at with calling me... Before.. He shows up. But there has been times.. He would rush the shit out of me, then heading there to get attitude and tell me oh you need to hurry up or else I'm leaving. That should have been my Q to say Bye Felicia!!! 👋✌... and just in case you're not welcome back. Or other times! He would call me and ask if it was safe for him to come up. And just like yu said. Next thing I know I'm putting my shoes and clothes on five minutes later I hear a knock at the door. Like damn.. and I mean when he not he will continuous to knock until I open the door what are we freaking little kids. I'm like don't bring that stuff around here I live in a white Community with respectful people of all Races don't be ghetto. Keep reading...
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The best thing that he could have did was call or text me and said hey I'm standing outside instead of banging on the door. Like WTF!! Who do that.. And I like your rules. And just like my friend said oh he's definitely going to test you. He's going to try to see what he can get away with, she said, he's probably going to go into your your refrigerator without asking. So she said, put a lock on the door... Or else said his food and drinks aside and take it out for him. So he can Grab & Go 😂😂😂😂😂.. she said.. Also... don't allow him to take more then 2 hours.. she said maybe more like 15 lol.. Damn. But she did tell me be very smart with your decision when this does come into existence. She said he respected your place because you're under your parents house rules. Bit him dealing with you and your own on your own. He may decide to do a 360 so she said please have your shotgun handy or sword or Blazer 😄 😄. And also... Your right m like I told him one of us got to change and that's going to be me. I'm trying to get two more and do better and be better as a person and as a woman and as an individual and African American woman. And I shall not and will not allow or let anyone get in my way. No No sir No ma'am!!!
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Oh and wait til the first time he forgets to put the toilet seat down and you get a wet ass at 2 am. Now thats shotgun worthy.
Good for you hun. Keep your eyes looking forward and if he gets in ur way run his ass over. Not gonna lie ain’t nothing more sexy than a strong independent and confident black woman. But at the same time it can be a little intimidating. Almost as scary as getting a black womans hair wet after she just got it done. Lmao - +1 y
AHHHH FOR SURE.. AND THANK YOU!! ☺☺☺✊💪😎. WELL I'm that nice black woman who doesn't discriminate. I love all people ❤❤❤. And fuck him.. he can kiss A Cow's Ass and dry hump an alligator 😂😂😂. But on the plus side she's right and so are you.. moving forward is the best thing to do. And if he does come over there will be rules. But between you her and I probably won't even tell him!! I can literally see. But he will be asking me every single day about LOL coming over. And no one to type of person he is! Yeah.. I don't think I'll risk that. But knowing the type of person that I am. Hahaha hehe 😈😈😈. Say I'll have him come over get him in the mood, then tease him. Then tell him, let me change clothes. The end up pretending like I'm sleep and then have him watch a pron movie before he comes and get me lol. Haha. Then he's going to come upstairs or in the Next Room and stays oh your sleep and I'm going to look at him and say oh you're still here. Hehehe. Ahhh gosh!! That would be funny 😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😂😂😂😂😅. But anyways- he needs to grow some bigger balls. Because let's be real regardless of my feelings the ones that he has are pretty damn small.. Oops! 😂😂😂👀. But anywho. Thanks again, for your help! And no need to be intimidated! I'm just bless and grateful and I thank God, that he has changed me to be and become a better woman and a better me than I was yesterday. ❤❤. And for you sir! I wish you nothing but love and blessing joy and peace and harmony. Thank You!! 🙏🙏🙏
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