The question of this topic just reinforces the fact that people rely on looks rather than using the person INSIDE to define their stance on a person. It shouldn't matter what she looks like. My late fiance (R. I. P Lisa) was FAR from attractive. But I loved WHO she was, and not her exterior. If today's society would learn to extend the same courtesy to the overweight girl as I'm sure she is waiting to give you when you finally meet her, we could do away with judgemental-based mentalities.
Ha ha ha ha. I'm sorry, this is just ridiculous. Unless you were maimed in an accident or injected kidnapped and injected with fat cells: how you look IS a reflection of who you are on the inside. It's a character issue if you lack the self-control to moderate your desire to eat like a pig. It's a character issue if you're too lazy to ever exercise. It's also a character issue if you play victim and try to manipulate suckers into overlooking these things.
@hahahmm What about those who are overweight from Heredity and can't do anything about it. I've known people in my day who had obesity problems in their genes, and no matter what they tried to do about it, nothing helped.
@Interstate you're being a sucker to believe these people saying they can't do anything about it. There's a reason why in the past it was VERY rare for a woman to look like a blimp. People used to pay good money to go to the circus and see a fat woman because it was that rare. You think a fat gene just appeared in the last 20-25 years and magically spread to a huge portion of the population in a few years? In some countries being a fatty is still rare to this day. Oh, and try watching a tv show about weight loss where you'll see how huge people can slim down when they TRY.
@hahahmm My Mom's cousin for over 20 years worked relentlessly dieting and exercising trying to get her weight under control; Her Dad was overweight as well. Up to her dying day, she was able to lose about 15 lbs, but couldn't get anything more off than that!
Two possibilities, she was one of the very rare ones who had a legit fat gene. Or she ate like a total pig and you were never around to witness it. Knew a woman who would eat omelettes big enough to feed 5 grown men while claiming she was trying to lose weight.
If THAT'S what you call overweight, yeah!! All three of my ex's were much heavier than that!! I'd call her slightly chubby. I don't even think I'd go that far!! I'd call her normal, plus. Fuck her a couple dozen times in a few days and make her get on top and that fat'll melt right away!!
you shouldn't be encouraging overweight people to feel they are adequate to date because being overweight is unnatural for them and will come with many underlying issues that would have an impact on the person involved. Tho if someone is naturally that weight and their personality is really nice then they will get dates as they feel happy about themselves and that energy attracts.
well, I don't think so weight is a correct way to measure if the next person should be dated to not and as u gave an example also I don't think so she is overweight, she is normal and beautiful. i repeat weight isn't the correct way to measure if the next person should be dated or not but yea loyalty and love is
I did once. We broke up after 3 months. She was a just a lazy, good for nothing brat who didn't wanna work or pay for anything, just smoke pot and watch Netflix all day. Part of the reason I haven't been on the dating market in years is because of her.
Thats like one case. It has nothing to do with her body and more with her character . I have a friend who is skinny but dropped out of highschool, has no education, can't hold a job for a month and does nothing to premote herself.
NO, give her another 10 years and she will pack on another 150 pounds. I might give her one night if she was the last person at the bar and I had consumed to much to drink.
I should be so lucky as to have a relationship with a girl who looked that gorgeous.
3
0 Reply
Anonymous
(45 Plus)
+1 y
My last 1 was a big belly like me so 2 bellies hooking up, U need a stack double bed to hold on to the top while you nailing her. The only thing attractive about her she was on birth control so you don't have to worry about pulling out.
I don't really see anything wrong with that girl that all she's really kind of beautiful that's what her eyes tell me very beautiful on the inside she's happy caring confident so yes I would date her.. the outside is just a bonus
To the 14 women that answered this: you’re not men and your feelings don’t matter.
To the 116 men that said yes. Stop making men lower value by dating fat women. Start considering them men, because they aren’t feminine and should not be regarded as women.
Fat is subjective and as one man to another, you don’t have the right to tell other men what is or ain’t attractive to them or whom they can choose to date.
SHM at this ludicrous and ignorant nonsense from what appears to be a shallow fool.
I have to assume you’re saying fat isn’t subjective. That’s false, what you see as far and what the next person sees as fat isn’t the same. So it’s not objective, there is no scientific objective definition of fat.
It’s a word made up by people not the medical or scientific community and it’s not uniformly accepted.
Even within the medical community the currently accepted scale BMI is hot debated and deeply criticized for being unscientific and arbitrary.
That’s not only 100% wrong, but shows how much you must lose to yourself that you feel you need to dehumanize women you unilaterally deem “fat” without any rational evidence to feel better about yourself.
Granted, I guess that’s more of my “woman logic” aka not living my life like it’s a bad ripoff episode of King of the Hill.
It’s funny when it’s done as a joke in a show. Not when someone tries to pretend it’s a rational point of view to objective women to the point you deem them non human if they don’t meet your standards.
Absolutely! I confess that I myself am a fitness freak but unless she is morbidly obese where that affects her health and well being, I have no issues with a few extra pounds! I'm sure someday I'll put on weight and I would not want that to be held against me!
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
215Opinion
The question of this topic just reinforces the fact that people rely on looks rather than using the person INSIDE to define their stance on a person. It shouldn't matter what she looks like. My late fiance (R. I. P Lisa) was FAR from attractive. But I loved WHO she was, and not her exterior. If today's society would learn to extend the same courtesy to the overweight girl as I'm sure she is waiting to give you when you finally meet her, we could do away with judgemental-based mentalities.
Ha ha ha ha. I'm sorry, this is just ridiculous. Unless you were maimed in an accident or injected kidnapped and injected with fat cells: how you look IS a reflection of who you are on the inside. It's a character issue if you lack the self-control to moderate your desire to eat like a pig. It's a character issue if you're too lazy to ever exercise. It's also a character issue if you play victim and try to manipulate suckers into overlooking these things.
@hahahmm What about those who are overweight from Heredity and can't do anything about it. I've known people in my day who had obesity problems in their genes, and no matter what they tried to do about it, nothing helped.
@Interstate you're being a sucker to believe these people saying they can't do anything about it. There's a reason why in the past it was VERY rare for a woman to look like a blimp. People used to pay good money to go to the circus and see a fat woman because it was that rare. You think a fat gene just appeared in the last 20-25 years and magically spread to a huge portion of the population in a few years? In some countries being a fatty is still rare to this day. Oh, and try watching a tv show about weight loss where you'll see how huge people can slim down when they TRY.
@hahahmm My Mom's cousin for over 20 years worked relentlessly dieting and exercising trying to get her weight under control; Her Dad was overweight as well. Up to her dying day, she was able to lose about 15 lbs, but couldn't get anything more off than that!
Two possibilities, she was one of the very rare ones who had a legit fat gene. Or she ate like a total pig and you were never around to witness it. Knew a woman who would eat omelettes big enough to feed 5 grown men while claiming she was trying to lose weight.
The woman on the picture is actually a GODESS... it's sad when men prefer a toothpick
Yes, she is a goddess. But she's overweight.
Look at the legs.
Yes obviously oversize women looks so hot. If interested dm me😏
@Jamie05rhs Her legs are none of your concern Sir... get a life
@natured Do a person's legs not matter as a part of the total package? I think they do.
Plus, what if she can't walk?
@Jamie05rhs Why do you live with WHAT'IFS? It's none of your concern i think she looks sexy !!!
I think she looks sexy, too!! Damn. Chill out. 🤷
If THAT'S what you call overweight, yeah!! All three of my ex's were much heavier than that!! I'd call her slightly chubby. I don't even think I'd go that far!! I'd call her normal, plus. Fuck her a couple dozen times in a few days and make her get on top and that fat'll melt right away!!
you shouldn't be encouraging overweight people to feel they are adequate to date because being overweight is unnatural for them and will come with many underlying issues that would have an impact on the person involved. Tho if someone is naturally that weight and their personality is really nice then they will get dates as they feel happy about themselves and that energy attracts.
@asker, Believe it or not most men like women better with 5 to 10 extra pounds. It’s a healthier look and accentuates the female form.
I'd date anyone but I'm generally not attracted to overweight girls.
I usually work out for a few hours a day and walk for an hour. So I don't think we'd be compatible.
well, I don't think so weight is a correct way to measure if the next person should be dated to not and as u gave an example also I don't think so she is overweight, she is normal and beautiful.
i repeat weight isn't the correct way to measure if the next person should be dated or not but yea loyalty and love is
I did once. We broke up after 3 months. She was a just a lazy, good for nothing brat who didn't wanna work or pay for anything, just smoke pot and watch Netflix all day. Part of the reason I haven't been on the dating market in years is because of her.
Thats like one case.
It has nothing to do with her body and more with her character
. I have a friend who is skinny but dropped out of highschool, has no education, can't hold a job for a month and does nothing to premote herself.
Absolutely. Weight isn't inherently bad and there are more important things than weight, at least in my opinion.
NO, give her another 10 years and she will pack on another 150 pounds. I might give her one night if she was the last person at the bar and I had consumed to much to drink.
That's not overweight .
That's still fit according to gym standards..
Absolutely NOT!!!
I care about a girl’s body a lot.
I struggled over 10 years to lose just my stomach,
I finally went on a whole Planet based diet.
My point is, if someone wants to be fit they’ll do anything.
If we control how and what’s everything else will
Follow.
If we can’t control what we eat? Other bad behaviors besides the appearance will be involved too.
I should be so lucky as to have a relationship with a girl who looked that gorgeous.
My last 1 was a big belly like me so 2 bellies hooking up, U need a stack double bed to hold on to the top while you nailing her. The only thing attractive about her she was on birth control so you don't have to worry about pulling out.
I don't really see anything wrong with that girl that all she's really kind of beautiful that's what her eyes tell me very beautiful on the inside she's happy caring confident so yes I would date her.. the outside is just a bonus
Sweetheart if you own a vag, someone will date you. Different folks like different strokes.
To the 14 women that answered this: you’re not men and your feelings don’t matter.
To the 116 men that said yes. Stop making men lower value by dating fat women. Start considering them men, because they aren’t feminine and should not be regarded as women.
Fat is subjective and as one man to another, you don’t have the right to tell other men what is or ain’t attractive to them or whom they can choose to date.
SHM at this ludicrous and ignorant nonsense from what appears to be a shallow fool.
@YOLOIFIC no it isn’t. Cut the bullshit woman logic.
I have to assume you’re saying fat isn’t subjective. That’s false, what you see as far and what the next person sees as fat isn’t the same. So it’s not objective, there is no scientific objective definition of fat.
It’s a word made up by people not the medical or scientific community and it’s not uniformly accepted.
Even within the medical community the currently accepted scale BMI is hot debated and deeply criticized for being unscientific and arbitrary.
@YOLOIFIC I’m not arguing. Fat women, aren’t women.
That’s not only 100% wrong, but shows how much you must lose to yourself that you feel you need to dehumanize women you unilaterally deem “fat” without any rational evidence to feel better about yourself.
Granted, I guess that’s more of my “woman logic” aka not living my life like it’s a bad ripoff episode of King of the Hill.
It’s funny when it’s done as a joke in a show. Not when someone tries to pretend it’s a rational point of view to objective women to the point you deem them non human if they don’t meet your standards.
I would, as long as she isn’t bigger than me! I’m a big guy so this is a relatively easy requirement to make in my opinion.
If a girl is overweight all I can say is that there is a lot more to love & big is beautiful.
Absolutely! I confess that I myself am a fitness freak but unless she is morbidly obese where that affects her health and well being, I have no issues with a few extra pounds!
I'm sure someday I'll put on weight and I would not want that to be held against me!
by the way, the woman in the picture looks gorgeous! I would date her in a heart-beat!