Is dating a guy with 2 kids really worth it?

[mimi051998]

This guy matched with me on tinder and he was the first to message me. I like the fact that he was honest with me from the beginning. He's a year younger than me with two kids from two different relationships. He wanted to tell me from the beginning because he was afraid to waste my time. I'm not going to lie he was very sweet, but I don't think I could deal with the baby momma drama. I don't have any kids of my own yet because I'm focusing on my career first. He asked if it was a deal-breaker and I said yes. Would it be a bad move to ask him if we could just be friends and see how it goes? Or should I just leave him alone? by the way, we haven't unmatched each other yet🤷🏾‍♀️.

[TommyMountainFigure]

That is a really tough call, but ultimately not something anyone can help you make. The only question (s) I have for you are:-

What if you and this guy are made for each other? If you don't have much success further down the line, is this something you might regret? If so, it's sometimes better to make a mistake than to live with regret

[TheFlak38]

As usual it's only a problem when the man is a single father. When the woman is a single mother whoring around pumping out kids with different dads then it's fair play and she's entitled to man's attention, time and wealth. #FemaleDoubleStandards

[kyleelyn199723]

Seems like you need to leave him alone. He is looking for a partner, I highly doubt he is looking for a friend. And dating a guy with two kids is not worth it if you aren’t ready to play a role in the kids life, and want to deal with possible drama between the baby mother. That is something you can’t predict

[Dazed0N0Confused]

That is a personal decision that only you can decide on. Personally, i don't date guys with kids. I know some shitty dads & i know some crazy ass baby mommas, i do not want to be in the middle of ANY of that.

[Nahid1707]

Honesty is good, i mean do you see yourself dating him?😊

[Luckycharms12]

Ya not worth it