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I don't think that will happen any time soon because it's a Long distance relationship 😂 how ever despite me cheating on my parents I think they somewhat know because they have been giving me dating advices.
How can they be giving you dating advice if they don't know you are dating? Is any of this true or are you just trolling? Plus if you are in a LDR how can you even be dating?
There is a thing called LDR most of my relationship are like this and they have been suspecious of me, they don't know who it is yet but they know I have someone, they're just giving me a bit of dating advice because they want the person I like or my boyfriend to treat me good
OK, you ARE trolling then as how can a guy treat you any way if you don't actually physically date? I'm thinking that since you are an Xper1 you are a fake pink account as your answers to questions leaves a lot to be desired.
It doesn't have to be physically, he treats me good because he's loyal towards me, helps me with my stress and sends me loads of love even if it's just through the internet (calls and texts).
Hey, for all you know he is just messing with you and already has a girlfriend, or may even be married.
Nope- I've known him for 3 years not to mention I've talked with his mother on the phone
You ding bat, it wasn't his mother, it was his girlfriend posing as his mother.
No, like we have video chatted before, his mom adviced me to treat his son good so I did, but now I forgot his birthday and I'm currently asking my boyfriend what I can do for him😅
I won't be able to convince my mother who is a narcissist not to mention my father who has anger issues
How badly do you want to be able to date this guy and be able to do so with the blessing of your parents? My guess is, badly or you wouldn't be asking. Which one of them would be harder to convince would you say?
I'd die for this guy, he has been with me in my hardships and when I was so hurt emotionally and mentally he was always there for me even before me and him started dating and without him I would of already been dead by now as I'm suicidal.
Then you need to have a real heart to heart with your parents. Do they know any of this? About you having suicidal thoughts?
They don't, I tried to tell them but my mother is a narcissist knowing her she'd just tell me to brush it off and tell me I'm being dramatic, she's one of the reasons why I'm dealing with depression. I'm going to get help once I'm 18 so I'll be fine.
Ask them this in a soft spoken voice... How would you feel if you lost me? Don't elaborate, don't lose your temper and don't give away anything. Parents that behave like that who's kids commit suicide always say they had no idea. I would like to gauge for myself your next step by how they react.. could you do that for me and then let me know?
It's not gonna work, me and my boyfriend are in a LDR (Long distance relationship)
What do you mean? How is that any different. My LDR girlfriend invited me to her house I needed to use the bathroom. Her Mom was there I said hello and stuff. So you video cam right? Can't you even talk to your mom about the guy
My boyfriend knows, his parents are also strict but they approve me however my parents want me to date at the age of 18
Ok so looks like you're in your teens, so it's absolutely normal to have strict parents and to start dating at 18.They're just making sure you're safe, because you're vulnerable at your age.I think it's best if you keep it a secret until you're 18 if you really care about the relationship.As bad as it sounds, this way you can save your relationship and maybe once you're 18 you will understand better.
Alright thanks for the advice
He's my stress reliever he helps me with my stress, though my parents are the one making me stressed.
Because they will cut off everything, my wifi, my phone and my privacy..
Can you move out? With a friend maybe?
She's 14. She shouldn't run away and leave her family for some guy. I don't care how great he is.
I didn’t realize that when I wrote this
I think she should tell them the truth
Also asked are you Muslim? Because I know that muslims are very strict with the dating thing
He's 15 and I'm turning 15 this year, his family is very polite, respectful and nice but very strict aswell, only my siblings and cousins know about him and they really like him.
Great , good to hear about others impressions of you two together. Then comes those parental guidance and greviences of both you and him together. Turn your secret relationship into a known family relations involving both sides alltogether. Bring everyone together is what I mean. Make sure your schooling becomes exellent with future intentions and achievements in your own behalf in case something doesn't pull through as planned. Stand strong in your value with kindness as well as your intended direction for yourself as towards him also. Don't buckle under pressure and stand strong with kindness from your heart. These things mentioned will guide you and keep you out of reach from loosers.
I'll let my parents know about him once I'm 18, I'm scared they will separate us causing my mental state to become worse because I am battling with depression and anxiety.