Yes. But I don't believe they're as limited, linear &/or unwavering (etc) as many people describe them to be. They're adaptable & dynamic! They change relative to what is valued!
Leagues are just a way of describing something's placement within a spectrum. And the spectrum entails that distinctions are & can be made!
Most people use it in a way that's closer to hierarchies. And I agree that it's more helpful to be seen as a hierarchy than just a type distinction. Because things are clearly being valued more highly than other things.
The reason why I believe that there are conceptual hierarchies is that, as a social species, we need to know our placement in as many games as we can in order to survive & thrive. It helps us be better able to prevent future suffering so that we can reach a given valued goal. In other words, it specifies what is relevant to us so that we can either avoid, utilize &/or pursue it.
People don't realize it, but they constantly validate these things' existence. All it takes is them valuing a certain outcome. That alone confirms the distinctions. Which then confirms a conceptual hierarchical structure. And many of these structures can be studied to be proven by looking at enough physical data to find a rational conclusion.
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Yes of course. It's SMV - sexual market value. You can google the term and learn about it. And yes, a severe mis-match never quite works out, and where there is one there's generally some other influences or reasons.
This is just natural selection - it's not a 'league'. Some women are just prettier than others - and their peak SMV hits about 22-24.
A guy's SMV peaks around 34-35, and his success and affluence also comes into play.
So do the work, create the value, be a real man, and you'll have all the pussy you can stand. I guarantee it.
I think it depends, as we become more confident we could become more attractive to whomever. Also income/money management, intelligence, disposition, and many other factors can be a "trade off" of sorts. I think we sometimes, by nature, find someone of similar value to what we see in ourselves. There is (hopefully) a proud moment of saying who you are with, your eyes light up knowing the qualities that you appreciate in them. Also as you grow together you tend to pick up similar traits.
Yes there are leagues
usually people tend to date folks that are of similar attractiveness
usually rich people marry other rich people. The shit you see in Hollywood movies where a rich man marries a poor woman really doesn’t exist much in the real world.
educated people tend to marry other educated people. Doctors tend to marry other doctors.
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1st There are people who take care of themselves. Financially, their bodies, health, their skills and growth etc. All these things or one/few of these fields. For whatever reasons.
2nd There are people who don't. For whatever reasons.
These are the 2 leagues.
It's not only appearances that the 1st group go for, they also would like somebody with similar mindset and values in life.
The 2nd group members also like the 1st group more, than their own. For many different reasons.
That's how it usually goes.No.
Thinking like that seems like a great way to always feel inadequate to me. Or horrifically arrogant.
Or both, if you're at any spot other than the "top".
I'd rather spend time just knowing the people than defining "leagues". That kind of time and energy is better spent elsewhere.Eh... kind of. I believe that a league is whatever the hell your preferred sex thinks a league is. I think of myself as a plain Jane, but I've managed to land some hotties, so I guess women think I'm more desirable than I think I am.
I'll trust the ladies' thoughts on this subject.Of course, because we all want the best but we settle for the best we can get. Obviously, since both males and females want the best, the best are going to match up with the best leaving who is left for the rest of us. Naturally, the remaining best will match up and so on all the way to the bottom.
People generally seek their equals in intelligence, maturity, physical fitness and ambition. The fit muscular guy is looking for someone who will join him in physical activities.
What's not important? Wealth and facial beauty.No
No one person is better than another. Everyone has good qualities and bad qualities.No, I've never noticed that. You yourself even admit that you've seen a few exceptions to this rule, so why do you believe in it?
Not really no.
the closest you get is social levels and that’s mainly down to not going to same places to mixYes and no… like most people don’t have to worry but there are a few people that are like perfection and others that are mutantish but those r the like top and bottom 1-2% the other 96-98% are in a big pool
no, people have types but in the end you can't fight attraction
thats true or the handsome well built man likes a plain average looking girl
Of course but they run on different things such as looks, which is very conventional but other things like money and power
If leagues exist, then how sure are we that looks are really subjetive 😒
Just remember, no matter how insecure you are its still not legal to head to the "minor leagues".
No I believe there is attraction and just no
Yes but it’s also possible to date out of them
In some cases I believe so yes
Not really no.
nope
Obviously
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