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Would You Be Insecure Dating A Girl Way Out Of Your League? (Page 2)
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No, I'd only feel privilged, and treasure every moment of it. Besides, love, you may not recognize the depth of appeal you leverage over them. Very few of the most sexually desirable woman I had the pleasure of encountering in life have been conventionally beautiful. Almost all exuded it as an inherent of who they were snd how each existed, inspite of not having conventionally good looks or a perfect body.
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Yeah I would be secure dating a girl out of my league..
Looool
Out of the league is out of the league.
If these guys can't accept it then it's their problem. We always think "don't offend average/ugly men, but what about the beautiful woman? She's equally offended when an ugly guy even tries to persuade her.
Because I've noticed that these same guys will humiliate an average looking girl. I have zero sympathy for these men.
I dont think a girl that is out of my league really exists because i think there is more to a woman than looks. Just because she is say even a perfect 10 doesn't mean she's not a disaster when considering her personality. Now I've never met a super hot girl that also had a perfect 10 personality.
Define: out of my league... A girl deemed out of my league only illuminates a confidence flaw in myself. That’s unhealthy and needs to be addressed. Obviously you find them desirable and attractive. Why would you the. Purposely decide to pick a mate you didn’t have those feelings for? That’s unhealthy for both partners
"if he makes me feel secure in the relationship. Aka not entertaining other women". Super-attractive people have too many options and are often very hypergamous. Most average people want to have sex with a very hot person but not many one. The research actually bares this out.
It's all about clicking with person but as a guy I will very lucky if I find someone very gorgeous.
In term of looks I don't feel insecure but yeah financial status make me feel sometimes I should be able to provide more and at least equal to what she is accoustmed of
That's who I married.
I made some compromises at the beginning.
She's stayed with me.
I'm not letting her go.
And yes, I've always felt like she was in a much higher league than me.
I'm just happy to be here.
Why can't people just go for people who they are attracted to? If I'm feeling you I will make an opportunity.
People just let fear rule their lives.
I dated a girl outside of my league, and yes there were feelings and times of insecurity; never so much that I felt disturbed about it or let it change me or my behavior.
Interesting question / observation.
i would not feel insecure but i would be nervous as well, i think that this sort of thinking is in many ways in our heads, if we have high self-esteem we see anyone as good enough for us. as self-esteem is what anyone wants in a partner, that and the ability to be funny too.
I always date below my league to keep from being insecure
I did that too, and then the guy abused me because he felt very insecure.
There is no such thing. If a girl is seeing her as to good for me, she isn't good enough for me. So it's downhill on both sides. I don't worship or put a woman above me ever.
It could go either way for me. It will either make me insecure especially if people keep pointing out that I'm not good enough or it will boost my confidence cause I was capable of attracting someone out of my league
Never. In my opinion first of all, there is no such thing as out of someone's league.
You either put in effort or you dont.
Anyway, I would never feel like that. Not because of what I believe only, but also the fact that I'm dating a girl who is better looking or hotter than I am would be great. I'd be always focusing on her.
well sure but I guess it would motivate me to be better workout more etc😂
maybe insecure is the wrong word but I guess would just want to look beter for her since she is so exquisite so the very least I can do is stop being lazy and go to the gym
That’s a good way of looking at things
I wouldn't consider anyone in or out of my league, what matters is if we are interested in each other and fit together.
I'd definitely feel a little insecure at first, but like you if she tried to make me feel secure that'd fade. I'd honestly end up being more proud to have her than anything.
Nah, there isn't much of a league between people who take of themselves, in both genders. Just personal taste.
Would make me wonder why she is single though, if she is really good looking and appears to have a decent personality.
I'm not insecure with any women. I've grown up with one, been married to one, and have two headstrong, intelligent, and gorgeous daughters. All of the women that I would date are already married or gay.