Girls, Tomboy girlfriend, or just a girlfriend. How to get one when you suck at social situations and have an avoidant style of attachment?

[Anonymous]

So, I’m a little bit daft when it comes to social situations or situations that involve intimacy. I know that I want to be in some sort of romantic relationship but I suck at communicating with people. I tend to say really dumb shit when talking to girls and then I ruin everything. Any advice for how to deal with these social situations better?

[tatianamay]

take baby steps. You're willing to change, so that's good. Always try to remember that the other person also has feelings. Do not undervalue their feelings. Take responsibility for your actions. It's okay if you're daft at social situations. Maybe try a therapist if you want