How would I know I'm the girl my boyfriend wants to mary me because he loves me and not the one who was just there?

[Anonymous]

On twitter there was a saying that most men marry the girl who was around them not the girl he actually loved..

[btbc92]

Well depending on how long you've been together, he would have already married you. If you're having sex, shaking up, you can bet 9/10x he is not thinking about marriage. Men who want to marry you would always be talking about marrying you and marriage. Those who don't talk about marriage, 9/10x don't want marriage. That is why you don't get too attached or date a person who is a stranger and you are not compatible. It is not a secret.

[btbc92]

Notice how one male user is quick to downvote me. Simply put you need to talk to him about it. Serious couples get married. Otherwise, they're usually stringing you along. You never told us how long you've been dating, because most men would know the right away.

[Asker]

We started off as friends first. And he was applying pressure. How would I think about having his last name. Weve been only officially together 1 year and about 8 months...

[Asker]

I'm not so sure I really want to get married now anyway. Seems like a really big commitment. I'm just scared mostly

[btbc92]

If you scared why are you dating? I'm scared and I never dated. If you already had sex you are technically married to him anyway. How are you not scared of that? Marriage is sexual.

[Asker]

Well I'm dating because unfortunately I dont like to be alone, and I do like having companionship. I know I know... I need to work on myself. But I've fallen for him already and dont want to break either of our hearts. I've gotten too deep in this...😥

[btbc92]

Dating because your alone is not a good reason to be involved. You have to decide when you want to do the right thing because it already sounds like this isn't going last anyway.

[Wise4myage]

By being a man of his word and his actions.

[Anonymous]

U dont