Hi so I’ve be falling in love with my friends with benefits :((. We’ve been having s** once a week for a couple months. But for a months and a half now I’ve been seeing him and sleeping at is house but no s** was involve. When I go we usually deink beer and play board games or watch netflix and we talk A LOT than when we go to bed we do it at least twice and we’d cuddle. Than he would go get me a coffee and he’d bring me to work. Now nothing has changed except for the cuddle and the s** :((. I can’t stop my self to think it’s because he is not interested anymore or he found a now girl and he replaced me. But I since I have strong feelings I can’t atop myself from thinking it might mean he actually wants more. Cause he invited me for my birthday and we watched my favorite kid movie. We also did a theme night and we watched what I told him a loved. And I think a usual friends with benefits wouldn’t be interested in knowing what I like and wouldn’t plan a night to be with me especially if he didn’t plan in doing it with me all this time. So here I am wondering if I have a chance in being with him or not at all. I plan on telling him I have feelings but I don’t want to do it if I have more chances of loosing what I have with him now or loosing him completely. thank you for giving me your thoughts of why he could act like that and if I should tell him or let it go!
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He probably dose like you. He must on some level he probably wouldn't have a friends with benefits relationship with you if he didn't like you at least a little.
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Be wary, my former friends with benefits kept me around as an option. I was convinced that he loved me, but he was just in it for the sex. Ask and hope that he will be honest with you.
You need to talk to him about this
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Probably just friends
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