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On a date would you rather your date ask you if they can kiss you or read the cues from you and go for it? (Page 2)
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Too many guys misinterprete "clues" - it's always safer to ask.
Oh DEFINITELY read the cues! If he has to ask, we are most likely not a good match. I like a man who is intuitive, passionate and proactive.
You're the kind of woman creating problems for society. What's next? You like a man who sexualy assaults you? Haha at least give the man a clear sign that you're interested, super stupid to expect men to read the tiniest of cues because sometiems it's wrong. Sometimes the girl doesn't like you she's just trying to be nice, and going in for the kiss will be offensive. But I guess we should take the risk of assaulting a woman in order to show women like you that we are confident, intuitive, passionate, and proactive?
@devilman666 None of the men I've ever dated or been in a relationship think that. They love that they can be passionate and proactive with me. Then again, I date real men, not insecure boys.
Yeah and I only date mature women who can freely share their feelings with their partner, rather than insecure little girls. Lol
I don’t like when men ask stuff. They should just do it. If they ask I will get pissed off and say no.
You’re the root of all problems here 😂
A man just doing it to a girl sounds worse. Way worse
And then if he misreads cues and tries to kiss you, and Yoh lise your mind. I bet.
I agree with @Paul09 and @Skfick
@fr44c3iqqs Kfick Paul09 I don't think any Girl is going to give you a reply.
@Shy_Steve , this weird Arctic/polar (powlar) human agrees with you too.
@Shy_Steve Only the females that think like her. Entitled.
Last time I forgot to ask permission, I went to prison for sexual assault... don't be stupid boys, don't listen to girls like this, always ask permission first. (I'm kidding, but also you could actually go to prison)
LOL @ the results.
Optimistically, you have a 50% chance of getting it right.
Pessimistically, you have a 50% chance of screwing it up.
It's usually unspoken for me.
We just lean in, get in eachother's spaces and eventually there's like a second of silence that cues the kiss.
After I divorced and started dating I never asked for a kiss or anything more. Women always let me know when they were ready.
I think it's sweet when your date, especially if he's a male, asks you if he can kiss you. It's like him being considerate yet adorable.
I think when the moment is right but it is always a plus when they ask
I'd most like that they ask with their body.. getting physically closer, touch me and so.. then I can drag out if I am not into it, or hopefully they can also read me and stop themself.
I've actually never had a problem with a girl diving in on my lips first lol. I guess I was lucky in that way.
Grils may say, ask, until it is in real life, then they feel weird being asked and prefer cues. One of the skilled all girls appreciate in a man is the ability to read cues.
I don't usually kiss on the first date, although there have been exceptions.
I Like to take a day or two to think it over with clarity, if that woman is someone i should invest in.
And then i would just go for it at the right time. Would be strange to ask.
Although, guys do need to abort mission if any discomfort from her part is visible.
I see no harm in asking, better be safe than sorry especially these days.
What would you say to the women who are opposed to men asking?
I've never asked anyone that , in all the years , actions far better..
I have tried it both ways. I would rather just go for it. Better to ask for forgiveness than permission.
Would definitely rather he ask. How would asking ruin the mood?
I would rather he just goes ahead and kisses me. And the kiss can tell you if he wants you or not.
Ladies, y'all are fully functional adults, please stop using "cues" since this is not middle school. Use your words, cause most of the time the cues you give out only make sense to you in your head.
My generation used a kiss as a traditional goodbye after a first date. The intensity of the kiss determined the level of interest you had in each other.
I don't give a shit what she wants; I'm going to ask anyway. This is for my personal comfort. I don't feel comfortable touching anyone unless I hear them say that it's okay.