How can I message my insta famous crush?

[giasadie]

I do not have an instagram profile, will it be strange if I DM him asking him a question or something. is he likely to respond if I do not have a profile, picture or anything. I really like him and do not want to make an Instagram account and add my pictures so what choice do I have. I just feel like holding back will keep making me think "what if?" Do you think this is weird because essentially I will have no profile. I have been thinking about him all the time, I just think I should try. what is there to loose?

[Anonymous]

I’ll be honest, he will not respond. If he’s insta-famous, you can already imagine how many messages he gets, and 9/10 if he even opens a message he will only respond if the woman is good looking and also has somewhat of a following. You completely piss on your chances when you’re essentially messaging him from a burner account. No identity, pictures, followers, zilch, nada, you’d be like a ghost contacting him and you have to acknowledge that that’s weird. Better to let a crush be a crush and go after someone you aren’t afraid to be yourself from the start with.

[giasadie]

he might be intrigued and respond? he has 400k followers so he is not that famous

[Opinion Owner]

Well just think about the situation in general, even if he were someone who isn’t famous. How comfortable would he be responding to a profile that has absolutely no identity? Would you feel safe diving into a conversation like this? Personally I wouldn’t. Now factor in the thousands of messages he receives daily, from fans, sponsors, other insta famous people, etc etc, what is going to make that anonymous profile worth being the one to respond to? I just don’t feel like the odds are in your favor when you approach it how you want to.

[giasadie]

how should I approach it then?

[Opinion Owner]

At least if you reached out from a valid account, which means stepping out of your comfort zone and adding pics and stuff. I get that you don’t want to but if you message him from a burner account you will completely destroy your chances because I can’t think of anyone who would engage with and anonymous page and no photos..

[giasadie]

what if I was extremely beautiful? it sad to think I don't stand a chance, because I don't have a stupid profile. if only he could see it what if I just send him a pic of mine privately?

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t even know if it’s about being extremely beautiful, you just need to have an identity. You could make the pic you want to show him your profile pic, but if you’re thinking of starting a convo then showing the pic, I don’t have confidence that would happen, because again that would involve him engaging with you to get to the point you show a pic..

[DaviRon]

Forget the insta crush- social media fake life and get into real one. You're just wasting your time on someone who don't even know you.

[giasadie]

I like the guy