What's wrong with my love life that I'm single?

[Spiderarecool]

After having more bad relationship than good. taking a break from dating and relationships. when i am single, I still get the temptation to get a boyfriend. yet i do not want to be in another toxic relationship. I've met a few guys but I'm not attracted to them. i was attracted to one guy but soon heard he had a girlfriend, so my interest went away. I was not attracted to the guy who had a girlfriend. The type of guy I like will have learning disabilities. I don't like cheaters or players. Guys that are after one thing about taking advantage of me. That's why my mum won't let me date mainstream. Do not listen to anything users post on Girl Ask Guys about a toxic learning disabilities.

[SueShe]

There is absolutely nothing wrong with yourself.

You were just out of luck to find those guys that are just after the one thing that interests them. A great number of guys, mainly in the age group 16-30 are only after one thing and that is why it is better to keep your distance if you can.

That does not mean that those men older than 30 are not after sex only but thank goodness, after a while, they realize that there are other assets in a woman besides her genitals.

Also, a person with a learning disability does not mean that he cannot cheat on you.

I am single and enjoying every second of it because in my eyes, being single has only advantages starting with the fact that you are the master of yourself and not the puppet of some guy.

[Spiderarecool]

i tried dating older guys but they still had the same immature traits. i had to date guys with learning disabilities since my mom made a rule about it. i haven't been attracted to any guys so far.

[SueShe]

That is a real problem with men. From the second they hit puberty till the second of their last breath, sex is what rules them. There are a few exceptions of course but in general, that is unfortunately the way it is.

The porn industry makes a fine job at creating sex monsters out of men and a few women too.

[Spiderarecool]

Nevertheless, I had to date guys with learning disabilities, and some were bad. Since I am more intelligent than those with learning disabilities, I dislike my learning disabilities. My mother made the rules. I have always desired to have a boyfriend and always had the desire to find a new boyfriend.

[VDrago14]

There is nothing wrong with you or your love life. From what it sounds like you have your standards and types that you find attractive, which is fine. Everyones tastes are different and that's what makes us unique.

The only thing I can say is to keep trying and stay patient. Unfortunately when it comes to finding the right person it's as much a matter of chance as it is patience.

[pickedcrisps]

What has your experience been like trying dating apps? 🙂

[Spiderarecool]

I have tried mainstream dating apps as well as disability dating apps. So far, I've had no luck and am now off of dating sites and apps.

[pickedcrisps]

All the best for the future

[MCheetah]

Your standards are super high and you're too stubborn to change them or go after men that aren't in the top 1% of high quality males out there.

[Spiderarecool]

why do you think my standards are super high and why do you think i am too stubborn?

[BattleToadBC]

XD how can u say that about someone u don't know

[Spiderarecool]

@BattleToadBC He is a low life

[BattleToadBC]

@Spiderarecool clearly lol

[Spiderarecool]

@BattleToadBC the uk spider are ok but if you go to australia be wary of spider and makes sure you do reseach about vemous spiders. yes i was talking to crew member when i went on a boat in australia.

[BattleToadBC]

@Spiderarecool I do wanna go to Australia so thanks and yeah the spiders here r fine

[MCheetah]

@Spiderarecool
Because women ask this same f*cking question on here every single goddamn week. "Why can't I find a man? I'm so lonely!" We eventually ask them questions and they almost always say "I know what I deserve!" and some BS along wanting a tall, handsome man and how some ugly women end up dating 9s and 10s too, so why can't the asker of said question.

Seriously, you have no idea how common this question is on here. Women whining about "Why can't I find a literally perfect man," while saying NOTHING of what they can offer to said man, while also saying obnoxious sh*t like "I've met a few guys but I'm not attracted to them." Do you understand how annoying that comes off and how hypocritical that makes you sound? And how OFTEN women do that on this site?

Also, these women who ask this question are the ones who choose these bad "toxic" men. You have the choice to go with good men, but you choose the bad ones (99% of the time, due to his looks or ego), and then want sympathy because the bad guy YOU chose, ended up (surprise!) being BAD! And yet, none of these women, including you, take responsibility for your role in choosing bad men over the good ones you likely deemed as less attractive (by your own words).

"I have men lining up around the block for me, but none of them were over six feet, with a successful career I found desirable, who also fulfilled all my emotional wants and needs, despite me being boring and offering nothing to the table other than my sex (gender, not intercourse). I can get plenty of men, but only choose Chads, but that's not my fault I only go after Bad Boys. WHY CAN'T I FIND A GOOD MAN?"

But you did say you had mental difficulties, so I won't give you as much grief as the 10,000,000 other women on here who ask the same question.

As for the fedora-tipping White Knight, I don't really don't need to address anything he has to say.

[Spiderarecool]

this wrong. i am attracted to shorter guys. so i am not like other toxic women.

[MCheetah]

Out of everything I said, you cherrypicked one thing, and said nothing else about it. I suspect I wasn't wrong, then...

[Spiderarecool]

I can used a Saw and fight and play vidoe games. know how to used techelechy. ride on Qud bike and ride down stip wire and play golf. know about online safey and yep i even know about every single STD.

[Avicenna]

There could be a number of reasons. meeting the right person is anyhow often random.

[Spiderarecool]

Describe what reason is. So far, I have not found any guys attracted to me. Because I am more attracted to shorter men than to older women, I find taller men to be more inciting. Younger women are not trustworthy. Some of them were trying to seduce guys and to cheat them. College is the only time this happens.

[Nik1hil]

If a girl's username is "Spiders-are-cool" I already know enough to say.. I don't want to date her..

[Spiderarecool]

so what. i don't want't date you anywayince you not my type or got any learning disabities.

[Spiderarecool]

your not my type or hasn't got a learning disabities.

[Nik1hil]

🤣😂 You did a typo!..

I apologize..
You maybe my type.. And quite interesting..
I will definitely give a girl like you a chance..

But please no spiders..
They scare me..
Okay!..

[BattleToadBC]

just gotta find a ma who's invested who likes u as much as u like them

[Spiderarecool]

I can't find anyone like that so far

[BattleToadBC]

Just gotta be patient then until u do find him

[Texaskid1]

Make sandwiches and they will come.

[Spiderarecool]

I did this and nothing happen. i had good cooking skills

[Texaskid1]

Improve your sandwhich making skills.

[Spiderarecool]

did this too nothing ever change , just got bad shit crazy guys that i don't want.