Worried ill never marry or have children ?

[Anonymous]

Im 24 nearly 25 and I've wasted the last few years of my life being in love with someone who won't commit.

I'm so damaged by this situation I can't be attracted to anyone else. I'm severely depressed and hate myself.

I acknowledge I'm not in the right mental state to date at the moment, I think I need a lot of therapy. But I'm well aware the 'clock is ticking' as my colleague rudely reminded me the other day. I may well have to face life alone and that makes me so depressed.

[horsenrhinounicorn]

I would write down you thoughts that have brought you to your situation. Separate those thoughts out from the ones you can change to the ones you can't change. With what you can change set reasonable goals. I have met many women who have found great stress relievers going to the gym and going for walks and runs. These two activities release good hormones, triggers dopamine and serotonin which continues to improve mood when done in a routine and consistent basis. Having good friends to encourage you in your journey will be great to have as well.

[boxxie2002]

It will feel like you have wasted the years, but really it adds to you life experience, knowledge and resolve.

He just wasn't right for you and down the track you will be happy that you did not have children with him.

I met my partner when I was 31 and we had a child when I was 36 and she was a day off 35.

You need to take some time for you and get to know yourself again - there is no rush and plenty of time to meet someone and have children.
These things always happen when you least expect it too.

By saying you need to talk to someone and need help post relationship, you clearly have your head screwed on right and your priorities in order (you first then a relationship)

[dreammy]

I'm so sorry but it doesn't matters, you're not alone. I have a sister she's 25 and single and happy alone by herself. Please don't hate yourself for being not so much attractive, when you love yourself you can become attractive, you don't need to be worrying about being married soon, the time will comes when some one that loves you for who you are will marry you, you don't need to rush that at all ☺️

[Asker]

When did I say I wasn't attractive?

[dreammy]

Oh sorry I read attractive I apologize, take time to heal 🤞

[SnakeBoop]

25 years old is fuck all life span wise for one.
And the clock isn't ticking. So relax, and work on yourself.

[Anonymous]

Stop thinking time is ticking away, thousands of people haven’t found the right person until they were in their 30’s. I will give you this advice get yourself into therapy right now if you don’t you will screw things up when the right person comes into your life

[DaveJord]

25 years old. Don't stress until you're creeping on 40 and still single. But if you can not get past this guy and figure it out... you might be screwed.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I'm sorry you are up against this and I feel bad for you I know I've wasted many years not finding a new girl to date, my last girlfriend, was when I was aged 35-36 yes quite of many years

[Cubus]

Don't worry, you still have a lot of time to have children. Just be positive and you'll find a man eventually.

[Yourfriend2021]

You're not the only one that feels that way but you're still young enough to make it through what you are feeling right now.

[zagor]

You have plenty of time. If you're still in that state at 38 then write again.

[Anonymous]

Don't give up you still have plenty of time to heal and then get back out there to find someone who wants you.

[SamFromFL]

What’s your question?

[dreammy]

Her question is on the top.

[SamFromFL]

Yes she sounds worried. But that’s obvious isn’t it?

[dreammy]

I'm not sure

[In_Trance]

So... what's you question?

[Anonymous]

Freeze your eggs.