Do you think it is wrong to reject somebody with a good personality as a date entirely because you don’t find them pretty or handsome enough? (Page 2)
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Aslong as there’s good chemistry and they have an attractive personality, they can look however they want. My only problem would be if they are obese, because I am very small and fragile.
No.
Looks matter.
I have plenty of people with good personalitoes around me. Theyre called friends.
I wouldn't want to be with someone who looks at me and thinks im just "okay" either.
Yes and no, everyone has the right to reject or accept whoever they want.
If your wanting to be shallow though just realize that looks will fade. Down the road that hot guy won't be so hot anymore. Personality stays.
No because if there is no physical attraction there is excuse for cheating right from the beginning. If you think the other is attractive to you chances are that you have less loyalty or respect for him/her.
I think it is wrong. Because you cannot tell me that you are to be with someone just because he or she looks pretty or handsome, but they do not happen to make you Happy and there is no real connection in anything.
That is wrong when people settle only for looks.
Thank you so much for asking this question I’ve been wanting to know what other people think about this as I’ve been dealing with this myself with a guy I’ve been dating recently, and questioning it in my own head for so long! So my take on it all is, if it doesn’t feel right, if you don’t have an attraction if there’s no chemistry, there’s no point forcing anything, even if that person is really sweet and kind, at the end of the day there needs to be a physical attraction. Hope this helps!
No it isn’t. You can’t force yourself to be attracted to a person just because they are kind or nice. Physical attraction is needed in a relationship too.
No. A good personality isn't automatically a good fit. If there is no attraction on one side that's gonna be a real awkward situation if you follow through with it.
That would truly be a fuck up on your part! That pretty or handsome is only skin deep where that personality will generally come from inside near the heart.
No, physical attraction is important too. It won't hold a relationship together. But it will create the initial sparks to get it going. And have sparks throughout.
Yeah, that's pretty shallow. We can't control our looks. At the very least, they might be worth keeping as a friend (if you don't directly Friendzone them).
If you could feasibly actually continue a relationship then it might be wrong because you are contributing to their loneliness (which really mostly applies to rejecting men), but personally, If I found someone unattractive I know that any relationship I started with them would simply be destined for collapse anyway, so there is less harm in just rejecting from the start.
If I'm 100% honest, I think it's wrong when it's done to ME, but when I do it, I feel I have a right to have preferences and standards. Yes, I'm a hypocrite, but at least I have no problem admitting it.
Though in recent years, I've become more understanding of people's standards/preferences, but that doesn't mean I feel any better about it
No, it’s fine. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions and feelings. As long as you’re not outright rude about it, then it’s okay. Everyone deserves someone who will love them inside out. It’s ok to give them the chance to find that person ♥️
No because you know you dont want to risk mixing your genetic material with that person. Instinct is telling you for what ever reason not to risk having offspring with them. Sexual selection is s really thing that it the driving force of evolution
Girls get rejected or dumped for not looking good enough. Guys get rejected for not having enough social status, selfesteen, confidence and so on.
Both men and women should date who they like.
Depends on your maturity, size, shape, mental health….
Women around 35 start to be less picky… or give up
Depends what you are looking to get out of it.
Sex/something temporary? - It's fine.
A relationship? - it's not wrong but it might be unwise.
Of course. If it's not there for you then you don't have to date them. It would be wrong to lead them on when you aren't feeling it.
No it's a totally valid reason, how are you expected to potentially spend your life with someone you genuinely don't find attractive. Subjective or objective