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I think it is. I would view it as an act of unfaithfulness. If I were a girl whose fiance did this, the wedding---and the relationship---would be off for good.
It's just a lap dance at a bachelor party, let's not blow it out of proportion.
What do you expect to happen in bachelor party? all the friends of guys will have fun with girls and the groom will sit and watch? I think everyone knows what happen in bachelor party... if a girl doesn't like that then party should be call off...
Yes Iâd be pissed off and call the whole thing off tf? Iâd be fine with him going to a strip club but to have an exotic dancer give you a lap dance, thatâs a big a** no from me.
Bachelorette parties are way worse just balls and dicks everywhere
lol!!! Yukie!!! xx
Not full on Cheating but It shows intention of cheating and how much he respects his girl
Exactly. xx
No. As long as he doesn't try to touch and\or kiss her
I think it Happens. xx
Yes In a way I would consider it a form of cheating. As itâs a form of a sexual act from someone whoâs not the partner
Itâs cheating. Youâre telling me itâs completely acceptable for a woman to do a sexual dance while grinding on you and barely has clothes on? Even if some donât consider it cheating, itâs at minimum disrespect if the woman doesnât like it.
The woman does it for money in a career she chose.
Generally speaking, I'd say "no" though in fairness some lap dances can get pretty intimate!
Alone in the Back. xx
Hahaha! Yeah. Although sometimes even out on the floor interesting things can happen.
In my opinion, if you are going to strip clubs on your bachelor (ette) parties. Then you aren't serious on the relationship.
Whaaatt? A bachelor party is to have fun with friends. It's not like he's going to be screwing the stripper.
Then why not go to a regular pub? Why does it have to be half naked women and men? Its just disgusting and disrespectful in my opinion.
Some years back I had a friend who was getting married. A bunch of us were supposed to get a limo and go to a strip club. The bride's DAD was going. Then the bride got wind of it and shut it down. So we wound up having dinner in a regular pub. It sucked - not the same at all.
I don't blame her. It's so disrespectful lmao. I'm actually surprised people do shit like this đ¤Ł
No, it isnât. Itâs cheating only if he decides to engage with her
Behind closed doors... xx
Exactly
If the couple has open sex relationship and marriage to be, then yea, lap danc is like saying hello from a stranger.
big deal, a lap dance. if my partner wouldn't trust me to get a lap dance then she wouldn't be my partner.
To me, cheating is when you have intercourse with another female. Getting a lap dance is not cheating
What about giving a lap dance? Do you consider it cheating if your SO do it?
*does it
@serafin first, my wife wouldn't give anyone a lap dance, not even me. She wouldn't be having sex with them so no it's not cheating
Yeah I think so unless you had it okay to head of time
Great!!! xx
I think it's wrong to even enter a place like that
It IS!!! Or have it In the House even as a Surprise. If I was a man, I'd pawn That sleeze Off on the One who Ordered it. lol!!! xx
If a surprise stripper showed up at my party I would have immediately left
The only thing a man should see naked is his wife
I agree!!! xx
Other, cheating is the betrayal of expectations. Communicate with your partner about your relationship boundaries.
If the guy doesn't tell the chick
No harm, no foul
If my wife got a lap dance and there was no exchange of fluids, I wouldnât consider it cheating.
It's only cheating if he makes sexual advances on her
I donât think it is cheating until there is contact, or maybe ask your partner before hand 😂
No I think it's fine 🤷ââď¸
Level 5 Thanks. xx
That is expected during a bachelor party, and unless both people are nude and penetration is happening then no, it's not cheating.
as long as he doesn't like it he's fine
Faker. lol!!! xx
no! but there's only one way to know for sure and that's for her to grind on him harder until he gets hard. then she can definitely say that he wasn't liking it
I wouldnât say itâs cheating, but if he does it without your knowledge thatâs a reason for concern.
Its just a dance of subduction
And Hard Diction. lol!!! xx
It's a bachelor party, it is a rite of passage.
Not Right. lol!!! xx
It's tacky, but not cheating.
lol Okay then. xx
No, absolutely not.
Okay, @EmmaMary xx
No but Iâm sure the bride to be wonât like that
I would NOT if it Was Me, Tiger!!! xx
Right
Depends on how his girl feels about it.
Uggggxx
Itâs not cheating but itâs probably frowned upon
Looking and Hooking. xx
No hooking just looking đ
No, only if he bangs her.
He may as Well DO SO. lol!!! xx
lol. Well, you do make a valid point Paris. đ¤Ł
Thanks, dear. xx
BUT, fiance's should give guys a little lee way.
How could I Trust Him Though Lather on? xx
Because he doesn't do this sort of thing frequently?
Or at all.
I wouldn't consider it cheating at all...
I won't feel nice if I get to know it.
I Would Want to Know. xx
Lap dance? Nah, sex? yes
Sexual. xx
I voted B. Not cheating, just enjoying life.
.. And his Future Wife? lol!!! xx
As long as he doesn't cum
It's good people still talk about this and that might be cheating
No kissing or intimate contact.
No ass on his Lap. xx
That would defeat a lap dance, but him sitting on his beds also. No breasts in face either.
Not really because he isnât married yet.
What about After the Honeymoon? xx
A Batchelor party should have a little leniency
Cheating ones. lol Ohh Welcome to Gag Town. xx
I don't really understand your reply
YES, it IS!!
You bet!!! xx
Not to me
LOve the Pix. xx
Thank you
I think so.
Absolutely. xx
Not in my opinion Paris xx
Depends on the rules of the relationship.
no, at that or any other time
depends on the bride.
Nope
Okay! xx
No, not cheating
Skeevy. lol!!! xx
No its not cheating i guess
Nope not at all
Okay then. xx
Not at all.
Okay then. xx
Nope
Thanks, Peter!!! xx
Your welcome Paris đ
Hardly.
Lust is Part of the Deadly Sins... xx
Only if you accept the Kool-Aid of religious dogma. Which I don't. :)
Yeah...
Yep. xx
@Paris13 what's your opinion on this question yy
No Strippers!!! lol!!! xx
I was preparing my dance moves for you shoot xxđ party popper
No it's not
Yes it is.
Its before marriage
No! Not at all.