I accused him of ghosting me and he claims he just deleted his dating apps but now he isn't talking to me at all. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

Some backstory, I just got ghosted by a guy I was seeing for over a year and have generally had a lot of bad luck with dating for a while I decided to get back out there and date again and I just started dating someone new right before the holidays. Everything was going really well until a week before Christmas when he suddenly stopped talking to me (like maybe 1 to 2 messages a week). He knows about the last guy and how much being ghosted hurt me. On Christmas, he finally messaged me a little but I woke up the next day on left on read and noticed a few hours later he had unmatched me on Tinder. I send him a text message accusing him of ghosting me and after a while he responds claiming he deleted all of his dating apps for me. I apologized and explained why I thought he had ghosted and why it upset me but now he isn't responding again and has left me on read for days. His text also made it seem as if he was upset that I was still on Tinder but neither of us ever talked about exclusivity or anything yet (it has been less than a month!). I have my card stack off and haven't been swiping on people regardless but we definitely never talked about deleting anything! I like him a lot and wanted to try to make this work but I don't know how to fix the situation after accusing him. Should I just let it go?

[Leonharted]

If he's not willing to talk to you, then the relationship is dead whether you like it or not.

[Jamie05rhs]

This situation is too complex to be able to come up with any clear and simple answer.