27 and never had a real girlfriend... is it justifiable to feel defective, subhuman, lonely, and left out?

[Inthecraphole]

Literally just about everyone I know is now married or having kids, some of them multiple kids. I cannot help but to think, why the fuck am I in this situation? Why me? I didn't think I was that repulsive and undesirable!

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I am so bitter anymore, but cannot help but to be.

[OlderAndWiser]

If that's how you want to feel, go for it. . . but that is what you do to yourself. Don't play the victim card!

[jahaims]

You are always crying about this. Make yourself desirable or stfu. The victim mentality won't get you far.

[Aphrodite801]

We can sense when a man is bitter, probably scaring women away without even talking

[Inthecraphole]

It's hard not to be seeing I have pretty much been single my entire life.

[JoyGirl]

Like I have told you before, you can’t rush love. Your time will come.

[Inthecraphole]

But why me? Why do I have to be the one so late to the party? I am not just a little behind, I am massively behind by like 10 years or more on the girlfriend issue.

[JoyGirl]

You are too invested in finding one.
Just work on yourself, and someone will come along.

[Inthecraphole]

I just hope it is an averagly attractive girl without a romantic past. That is yet another challenge.

[JoyGirl]

Well, that is not very likely at your age, but you never know. Love is mysterious.

[Flower7]

I think it’s because you’re too picky.

[Inthecraphole]

I cannot score a date, period.

[Flower7]

Don’t you only date girls who’ve never dated or been in love before?

[Inthecraphole]

Yes, I will only pursue something with a woman who has never had her first love or a boyfriend, but I have to at least be able to score a date first.

[Sarahr123]

It’s easy peasy man.