Why do most guys prefer to use dating apps rather than meeting girls in person? (Page 2)

Question

I've noticed a theme among my social circle, and that is that most of the single guys use dating apps to meet women a lot, while the single girls either don't date or are more adamant about meeting someone in person (I'm one of the latter). I've been interested in a couple of the guys, but they always seem to prefer messaging girls they've never met over the possibility of interacting with girls they can actually see. I guess it's possible I'm irredeemably ugly (though I don't think so, as I've been called attractive fairly often), so I guess I'm just wondering why this is. Why do guys seem to prefer apps, and women don't as much?

dragoblack · Answer

Because it's easier than bothering women when they are out enjoying their night, plus it's easier to start a conversation with the information provided on the their profile.

UdontNeedtoknow · Answer

because women don't know how to take a compliment in public or speak to strangers anymore. add in the fact that there are so many gold digging liars out there know. why even make the effort like we did in the 1990's.

Chthou95 · Answer

In real life ain't much easier. a lot of women are oblivious to 80% of men and they're obviously not going to want to talk to these guys. And a lot of women are fucking rude when it comes to how they reject men and a lot of women act stuck up

molonski2 · Answer

App first , then meet second would seem pretty logical to me , apps are about screening.

snatchhound · Answer

Men that have that issue have self-confidence issues

Djmbbasgerd · Answer

Cos girls be bitches to guys that they talk to them in real life. Do you want guys to approach you in real life? If you do.. why insult them when they do?

Ray123456 · Answer

A lot of guys use dating apps for hookups/casual dating because it's easier than doing it in person and women are looking for a more serious relationship usually

_Just_A_girl_ · Answer

-shy -kidnappers -busy with proffession -fast, efficient

Dragonpurple · Answer

I like in person but I don't get out that much, at my age it is easier online.

bolverk · Answer

It appears that you social circle is the mirror image of mine with the guys dating 'old school' and the women on the Apps.

Twalli · Answer

You aren't friend zoned over apps. Also if you want a "crazy" girl (apparently the sex with them is really good) you can find them on apps more easily.

all2aufen · Answer

As a fairly attractive, intelligent, sensitive man, I am yet socially awkward. I don't bulls#$& well. I can talk numbers or physics all night, but don't water cooler talk. Hopefully the computer helps me lose my single status before death.

genericname85 · Answer

Go try picking up girls irl, then you'll learn why they prefer the online thing.

Paul09 · Answer

I hate dating apps. But I'm not really exposed to single women either. I have no clue how to meet single women these days.

Anonymous · Answer

Because people want to try unknown. I would probably date a guy whom I know in real person rather than a guy whom I completely met online

Ryfyle · Answer

Because we all want to die, and nothing helps you pull the trigger than online dating.

grega239 · Answer

Why go out to get rejected if you can get rejected on an app. It saves time

007kingifrit · Answer

its easier... and who goes outside anymore? like where would i meet girls in person?

Nevahard · Answer

They don't have to be themselves whether or not they can pretend there's somebody else

SAMI_DABBAB · Answer

Same as why you'd call someone instead of meeting them in person

Tiger288 · Answer

Cuz guys don't want to get rejected by woman in person it easy to get reject in computer u can't see his face when u reject him that my guess

msc545 · Answer

Meeting women in person and approaching them is even more anxiety-evoking than doing it online.

Manuel2 · Answer

That is where you find women who are single than guesting if they are. So save time and money

Anonymous · Answer

I would gladly do everything irl, but I'm too afraid and awkward to approach someone. But at the same time I hate texting and all that with dating apps.

Kiran_Yagami · Answer

We don't. Dating apps suck, especially for men. Next question.

fred_durst · Answer

they are just looking for nudes , dont even need to meet the girl in person

Juxtapose · Answer

I actually hate these applications and do not use them because they are a complete waste of time.

Mediterraneansoul · Answer

Those guys probably had no courage to do it pre-social media.

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

I've never heard this among men. I think it's the ones you're dealing with.

Anonymous · Answer

Because we'd rather get rejected in private, and without it being face to face, than publicly, in a bar, in front of other women we could approach.

KingofCups · Answer

I prefer to meet woman irl in my local community. Much more fun than wasting time on my phone.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Same reason why most girls prefer to use dating apps rather than meeting guys in person.

cookiecrusher · Answer

Easier to take rejection. A tinder woman doesn't laught at your face.

Jerre · Answer

I never use dating aps. I meet women in a local pub.

Joshua0213 · Answer

I don't know I've never used dating apps, they don't work. I'm much more successful in person

Waldoe · Answer

they can "Pretend" that they are dating Multiple women... hahaha

infp6w7male · Answer

I used dating apps before, and I hate it. That was how I met my girlfriend (now ex) who just wanted nothing but money and attention.

DevinAM · Answer

I would prefer to meet someone in person but I don't have the confidence to approach someone & that is why I use dating apps.

Anonymous · Answer

Because girls will falsely accuse men of sexual crimes simply for showing interest

Anonymous · Answer

Because we aren't all able to go out to the places where we want to meet them

Anonymous · Answer

Because women get hurt and delete the apps after they get pumped and dumped a few times

Citizenkirk · Answer

I wasn't aware that they were 🤔

ragooo8 · Answer

We don't. Most women prefer dating apps.

Anonymous · Answer

Because it is simple and easy.

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

Because they’re lazy pussies.

jasco · Answer

Because technology makes us soft

In_Trance · Answer

For the same reason girls do

Nahid1707 · Answer

Do you prefer in person in real life?

TallAnon · Answer

Covid, avoid seeing too many people in person.

driven159 · Answer

that makes it so impersonal

Tstrbrainer · Answer

We can filter what we are looking for.

will34 · Answer

It’s Because they are pussies

Papabubbles · Answer

I use dating apps because im over the bar scene

Abdulwahh · Answer

Im not that guy i am a approacher

Anonymous · Answer

because that way they can easily lie

sheikalana · Answer

Because it's easier.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Laziness.

jahaims · Answer

Easier to find hoes

dudeinohio · Answer

In my case, shyness.

LegendaryIcon · Answer

why do girls?

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