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Is Asking a Guy To Get Coffee The Same as Asking Him Out On a Date? (Page 2)
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No if anything it’s wishful thinking on the guy’s part. Sounds like these types of guys have probably never been asked out
I don't know his past, except where he used to live.
So what’s your goal here? Would you ever marry a Muslim? Would you be willing to converr? To have your children raised Muslim? Now is the time to think about that. Of course it’s possible he’s not a practicing Muslim or no longer believes.
It's one of those either or things, just clarify it with him. Or if you don't want to directly bring it up, and your intention of this is a date, then during it, ask him out on another. If he's not sure, that will clear it up.
I'm not a muslim so I can't say whether or not he views it as a date. Me personally though, I'd ask whilst enjoying a nice cup of coffee what the significance of us sitting their meant.
We actually won't be sitting. I told him I wanted to walk and talk with him around our campus. I was thinking that that would be a better idea, seem to like sort of take the pressure off of the both of us.
Well yes it does take the pressure off, but I don't see how it helps you get it through to him it is a date without you telling him the significance of the coffee
We wouldn't be talking about coffee, unless were asking each other why I drink a latte and why he drinks his black.
But other than that, we would talk about ourselves and ask each other questions. I would also try to spice things up, someway. Somehow... I'd just have to come up with something. Besides, I wouldn't even know how to ask him how he feels about us, together. I would think that would be a bit awkward, especially for him.
Nope. I started to difference this. Like in the past most guys would ask me out on a coffee and call it a date but you know what, it's not a date until you got asked out properly!
They are normal meetings to me now
It is a date. But, dating is something friends can do without it really being anything more than Just being friends.
However, If you're going out of your way to be with someone more might be implied by that action.
Yes but it’s subtle. You don’t have to call it a “date” but it just shows some interest. Either way there is nothing wrong with it.
I think a date is a higher level of commitment and interest. Getting a coffee king of causal, not really a date to me.
No sometimes asking for a cup of coffee is just asking for a cup of coffee. Some people need their caffeine fix especially in the morning.
So although this guy knows I like him and is interested, and I asked him to grab some coffee with me, then go talk and walk around campus afterwards, it doesn't sound at all like something casual or getting to know someone?
What do you think, because that is what is really important here so what kind of vibe are you getting off of them when he gets you a cup of coffee when he ask you for a cup of coffee?
No, you are still working on that first date. These things take time.
I selected no, but it really doesn't matter what you call it. The thing is that you are getting together and going to get to know each other.
I'd say for the majority of guys this would be considered a date. On the other hand, women are more complicated and would say it is a date only if they find the guy attractive.
As a woman, I can be complicated, but as far as a coffee date, I don't mind. All women areike that you know 😒
Coffee is so obsessed over that I would not think it's a date
It could be friendly but it could be seen as a date also.
You didn't ask for a date, did you? Maybe just see how it goes and stop analysing what it is.
No in my experience it's a form of probing but not necessarily for dating, it can easily just be looking for favors or way to exploit my skill set.
Yeah, it seems like a date to me. Especially since you’d be buying his coffee.
For your situation it a yes but for mine it would be just as friends
@MelaninQueen21
thanks
coffee is a friendzone get together in my opinion going out for a drink is a real date
Asking someone to meet you for coffee is a date.
I see your age and I don't mean to call you out or be disrespectful, but back in your day, was asking someone out for coffee the same as asking them out on a date?