Should I just start lying to guys to avoid being judged? (Page 2)

[Hangry06]

I lie about it most of the time. If the guy's worth it, just be honest after some time

[Anonymous]

I mean tell the truth and, would you really want to be with someone who can't accept that ever maybe?

[JamesRandiDebates]

Just remember, if you go out with a guy he is going to expect to get the pussy. If you're holding on to it for some reason, you're wasting both of your times.

[OddBeMe]

Yeah, I mean just say you have. If any of them ask too many questions dump em. They’re shit conversationalists.

[Shy_Steve]

No, Most of us Guys will find that really Attractive, We don't mean to come off as annoying about it.

[bamesjond0069]

Why aren't you married? And why dont you date men who would appreciate you're a virgin?

[Sarahdelacruz]

Do you seriously think it’s that easy to find a husband?

[bamesjond0069]

Yes. There's tons of men looking for marriage. Why dont you date one of them? You should be telling men you're a v and waiting before you ever go on a date... not afterwards.

[Sarahdelacruz]

I haven’t come across any man that wants marriage yet but I haven’t been on a date yet and I never knew if it’s important to let the guy know beforehand or after

[Cowboy6666]

Well some guys are judging quick
But glad I am not that guy

[Sarahdelacruz]

Thank you

[Cowboy6666]

welcome girl ;)

[Anonymous]

Men already know your lying about your partner count when you give a number below 5. Most men add 10 to whatever number you give and multiple that by 3 to get your actual count.

[anton_dee]

No need to lie. Tell them if they wanna believe cool otherwise fuck off and stop wasting my time

[Jay3344]

Nah, stick to the truth. The truth doesn’t need explained. Just tell them it was a personal choice

[MasonAlucardthethird]

Yeah just lie, say you have had a few people you’ve talk to but nothing serious

[marish01]

They would like you if you had sex with other men?
What is the appeal of it?

[DyingLately]

No need to lie about it. It doesn’t really matter all that much so you do you.

[Dchrls78104]

Go ahead and lie, if you want loutish, scum of the earth cads to enter your life and your vagina.

[Wise4myage]

No, lying will just lead to more lying and you will caught up in it.

[RandomGuy1030]

The only reason theyre blocking you is theyre looking for someone easy or they feel guilty pursuing you when they aren't looking for anything serious

[Ryfyle]

This is a weird question and is going to need some elaboration.

[anylolone]

should guys start lying to you in order to avoid judgment?

[Joshua0213]

Well if they find put you're lying then its probably over so no

[Billiumboomerboi]

you are filtering out fuckin weirdos don't lie about it.

[007kingifrit]

you don't need to lie, but you don't really need to call attention to it either

[Hulk30]

i'd say keep bein honest the men that's for ya are for ya and i respect ya

[Anonymous]

Bu kötü bir şey değil. neyse kız ve erkek çocuklar geçmiş ilişkilerinden oldukça etkilenirler ve gerçek duyguyu kaybederler. yalan söylemek doğru değildir.

[Opinion Owner]

This is not a bad thing. anyway, girls and boys are quite affected in their past relationships and they lose the real feeling. lying is not true.

[Anonymous]

Yeah because lying to a guy is always a good start. 🙄

[Anonymous]

People always judge other people, it's how the world is, so if you try to avoid being judged by lying that might seem a little cowardly.

[Pooppoobi]

Girls. Take everything the wrong wayCompliment = insult. Very fun gender. Very unserious

[serious]

No. Lying is a very bad habit.

[Sarahdelacruz]

I truly hate lying but I am so tired of having to explain myself I feel like it takes a lot of energy away from me

[serious]

I understand. In that case I would suggest you that you shouldn't explain or answer every question they ask you or the best thing you can do is just reply in brief to those questions that are extremely personal to you.

Lying is not necessary. In the long run it does more harm than good and plus it ruins your reputation and credibility permanently.

I am sure you know this and as a woman you also will not appreciate it if a man lies to you, even if he is an acquaintance.

[Sarahdelacruz]

Ok thank you.

So what’s an example perfect response I should give to avoid this conversation? Or cut it short?

[serious]

@Sarahdelacruz

For example if they ask you questions where they are trying to figure out if you are a virgin or not then just reply YES or NO related to that and cut it short by giving brief replies.

There is no need for you to explain in detail, even if they push it. If they are pushing too much, then just say you are not interested in explaining and walk out. If a man cannot respect that then you don't need to talk to him.

[serious]

@Sarahdelacruz

One more thing, don't let men's reaction bother you. Let them react in any way they want too. Let them be shocked.

That should not bother you. There is nothing wrong with you or weird about you. Just ignore those men who display such behavior.

Being a virgin and the fact you never kissed

[serious]

The fact you never kissed a man are not wrong at all.

[Sarahdelacruz]

Thank you so much

[serious]

You are welcome and I hope my opinions helped you clear your mind.

[Gwenhwyfar]

@poneglyphs what do you think?

[poneglyphs]

That she shouldn't lie because it would just make it worse for her. Besides the other person will know that you lied to them when you stumble on simple things like kissing them or showing affection to them. I have that same issue too it's not fun but i understand what she's going through.

[Gwenhwyfar]

@poneglyphs thank you 😊

[SignedAutographs]

No I do not think lying is OK

[Anonymous]

Tell them you have aids.

[Unintelligent_geek]

Nope. Never do it.

[Iron_Man]

No of course not

[jahaims]

Nope

[CuriousMufuxka]

Start?

[fireforeffect]

Never!!!

[Anonymous]

Nobody cares anyway!