Who can show up at your door unannounced and still be welcome?

[roseline_]

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Thanks guys for your candid answers. From this I think those people who have in one way or the other contributed to your well being are the ones who can show up unannounced and still be welcome. I appreciate you all.

[TheorionMage]

Anyone I've EVER called a 'friend' and most acquaintances.

It takes DESPERATE times to rally "the old gang" ... BUT, "day or night... whether black or white (intentions... YOU call, WE haul, Y'all!" but NEVER forget that WHICH direction my 'use of force' is directed is based upon YOUR honesty! Gratuitously 'play' me... best sleep with one eye open. If you draw air, MY 'Craft WILL find you! >:(

[MTC29]

I'm fine with friends and family dropping by any time.

One of the benefits of living in a gated private community is that the only people dropping by are my neighbors, or those persons I've invited to come over and then authorized the gatehouse to be let through the gate.

[roseline_]

Living in a gated private community has all the benefits.

[dovendyret]

My mother and that's it. But that's because I know that it takes so much out of her to drag herself up here but luckily my mother respects me to call & most often I convince her to let me come to her.

Everyone else - fuck it, if you come unannounced, I'll pretend I'm not home, even if I know - that you know, that I'm home.

[Alwayreckles93]

Only the people I care about anyone else , I would get very annoyed. In fact I wouldn't even open the door just let them freeze their butts outside that will teach them a lesson to text or call first before coming over.

[Account]

Of course family. And 2 of my best friends.

[michael1469]

My x wife... i left the door unlocked for 2 years... just in case... but sadly, she didn't come back.

But she got some karma... she met a guy in church, was a recovering addict, they got married, she got knocked up, he relasped, cheated w another druggie, and stole 14K from a joint account...

The third year after she left i bought a self storage biz. This was what i was working for while married... what a great job to have to be a stay at home mom... guess what i wanted to give wasn't what she needed...

[roseline_]

I am so sorry you had to pass through that but the good thing is that you are stronger now than then.

[Mess96]

My guy friend, my bff/sister and her mom (who’s our mom basically), bff/sister’s kids, and my future adoptive daughter that I need to work for so she can officially/legally be mine. As of right now she’s hers but I just need to do what I gotta do and become 100% stable so I can have her ☺️🥰

[vapido]

Vanessa Hudgens
Brenda Song
Allison Krauss
Cathy Jordan (celtic singer)
Vina Sky

[roseline_]

Lol. What's so special about the selected few

[vapido]

Venessa Hudgens - I wanted one famous actress on my list. But, in my opinion, few Hollywood actresses are beautiful. To me, Venessa Hudgens is very attractive with a very natural beauty.

Brenda Song - played an air-head on a show my kids used to watch. I always found her extremely hot! The role she played was not who she is. She's got a psych degree from UC Berkeley. But brains never guarantees good taste... and her romantic choices baffle me: Trace Cyrus and Macauley Culkin (with whom she has a son). But I guess Macauley has cleaned up his act a bit, so I guess its all good.

Cathy Jordan - lead singer of the Celtic band Dervish. She has one of the most beautiful voices ever to grace this planet. She turns 50 this year, and she's as beautiful as ever! But it is her voice that puts her over the top for me! If you're curious about her music, search youtube for "Dervish - Ar Éirinn ní nesfainn cé hí".

Allison Krauss - She the physical outlier on my list (she doesn't have dark eyes/dark hair). But she definitely is attractive. However, what guaranteed her a spot on my list is the same reason as Cathy Jordan - a stunningly beautiful voice!!!

Vina Sky - I don't know if you've heard of her or what your feelings are about the people in her profession, and about the people who consume the product of that profession. I haven't seen much of the genre, but I have seen some. None of the actresses in the business attract me... they're mostly just over-the-top characterizations of some absurd stereotype. But Vina is totally cute and super petite, and always looks so damn pretty!!! I find a huge incongruity between her naturally pretty looks and what she does in front of the camera, it's just a crazy non sequitur to me. Yet it is what's she's chosen to do. I'm sure she's made a ton of money. If she came to my door unannounced I would absolutely let her in. But, of all the girls on my list, Vina Sky is the one who would intimidate me the most!!! LOL!

[vapido]

by the way - since your question is tagged 'dating', I didn't think 'friends or family' is the type of answer you're looking for. And, honestly, none of my exes would be welcome, and I currently don't have any crushes. So I decided to go full celebrity with my answer.

[roseline_]

Lol. Your answers are really nice and helpful from a very different angle.

Well noted

[SinceYouAsked]

Not much of anybody. I really don't like people just showing up. Even relatives.
I guess my sons or D-I-L could. But even my sons usually text before they just show up.
Of course, if it was someone with a really big check or suitcase full of cash for me...

[mobiusforniner]

Lol I asked a similar question. Honestly, no one. I hate unplanned events, makes me feel as if my time isn't important. That my life is meant to be waiting for them.

I love surprises, as long as theyre planned six months in advance...

[integrale77]

That would be just about anyone in my family, my girlfriend and my friends.
But it would also depend on what I'm doing. E. g. if I'm heading out or my girlfriend is over and we are let's say busy I might not be so welcoming.

[TrueConfection]

Anyone with good intentions is welcome to stop by for coffee and stay for dinner. It's nicer in the summer when we can sit outside and I don't have to scramble to put the dogs away.

[EmmaMary]

Both our family members and extremely close friends... However, as we have electronically operated gates to our property everyone has to announce themselves first.

[dustybiker]

I have a trick gate. Things get thrown if I forget to leave things a jar.

[EmmaMary]

@dustybiker

Our gates do have some sort of built in system that will allow emergency vehicles to enter without our authorisation/permission, but please don't ask me how the hell this works as I'm not that technically minded.

[dustybiker]

@EmmaMary lol So long as it works. 😎

[EmmaMary]

@dustybiker

I do believe it's actually due for its quarterly yearly test the end of this month... Must go and check the calendar.

[EmmaMary]

@dustybiker

Have just checked... It's due Mon. 4th April. 👍

[dustybiker]

Hey. That’s handy they check it and everything.

[EmmaMary]

@dustybiker

We still have to pay for it, but it's certainly peace of mind.

[dustybiker]

Ah, the catch. Yes, true.

[AviatorTom]

If the Publishers Clearing House person shows up at my door with a huge check for me, they would be most welcome. I'd smile for the cameras.

[roseline_]

Smiles. That's great?

[NatashaEbony]

A few close friends, and most family members. Anyone if they have nowhere else to go and explain the situation.

[MCheetah]

A sexy female willing to have sex with me, or my best friend in an emergency. That's it.

[roseline_]

Why always sex

[Aakash_Hangargi]

These guys

[Aakash_Hangargi]

I am crazy and know it 🤣

[ChrisMaster69]

Most anyone.

There are very few people who would not be welcome.

a stranger turns up I would still open the door to them and chat.

[exitseven]

Just about everyone I know could show up at my house and I would welcome them.

[melanieeeB]

The people that I have told so, some family members and some old friends (2 to be excat)

[Hermitess]

No humans. But if a stray dog or a hungry cat or any kind of animal shows up, They are welcome on my property

[Valiqueen]

Definitely my best friend. Well most times.
I kinda like him, like him😩

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Any single, sexy female blonde, brunettes or redheads.

[Dinklex3]

Mom, dad, sister, any one of my besties.
A friend in need.

[SweetNevi93]

My parents, grandfather, and younger brothers. I wouldn't even answer for anyone else lol

[Aerissa_Jade]

Someone with bags full of 100 dollar bills they wanted to give me.

[SaoirseS]

Anyone. I live in a funeral home with calling hours.

[KatieB713]

My boyfriend, thats about it.
Maybe my mum and sisters

[whirled_up_girl]

Well my family and friends but they'll have to wait for a while I throw some pants on, lol.

[GenaBaby1995]

Before my bfs all my guys friends, a course I never really had gfs

[Agape93]

My best friend and his wife, a few of my other friends. Thats it.

[Raphaëlle]

Only a few people like family, friends and boyfriend.

[CJT13]

A pizza guy who went to the wrong house on accident.

[slimshady59]

You my love any time you would like , it would be rewarding in a passionate way. one that would make you Anna stay.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Besides family and friends? Food delivery that got the wrong address!

[roseline_]

Hahahaa. What if you have to pay on delivery?

[CuriousMufuxka]

Cmon, non-contact delivery! Hopefully all that shit's over with. I'd rather have people interacting outside than free almost anything.

[sp33d]

Any friend, especially if they have some kind of prank in mind. It's happened and it's fucking hysterical.

[douride2]

Almost any of my family or friends can show up at my door and be welcome.

[annabananna]

Honestly anyone I know except for a few toxic people.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

My best friend, a cat, closest cousin, parents, all of my other friends, a message from God and/or Jesus, and a dinosaur

[DWornock]

Paige Madison Bueckers, Kamila Valieva, Selena Gomez, Elle Fanning, and others.

[Omar5881]

My cousins and my uncles “ basically my family “ but that’s about it

[SpaceGalaxy]

A beautiful, to die-for, gorgeous woman dressed in nothing but her panties, bra, and high heels

[Better_off_here]

anyone that i know well and trust like a friend or family member.

[JamesRandiDebates]

The publisher's clearing house sweepstakes team with one those giant million dollar checks.

[Jltakk]

Best friend, Grandma, parents, siblings, thats about it, I don't like guests

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Most people in my family

[Anonymous]

My dad and my exes, can't think of anyone else in that club

[Anonymous]

Maybe my ex with flower and apologize for what he did to me?

[Tornado92]

Jesus you're such a Karen!
Yet u woman wonder why we want younger woman.

[kinkynicci]

Most friends and some family

[lightbulb27]

fire department.

family.

[humanearth]

Family and friends

Government can stay away

[Genie23]

My Papa.

[Guslove]

Definitely and mom..😊😊😊

[laurieluvsit]

No one can get near our house uninvited.

[Siren777]

Besties & certain family. A significant other.

[Amy10223]

My children. My best friend. My crush.

[Sincerly_KittyCat]

God and my parents... also my pets.

[pixie215]

no one unless i hadda boyfriend then he could

[Lyndsielee666]

My best friend. That’s it

[Apulu_3]

People I like spending time with.

[IAMNathanael]

Pretty much only family

[alice55]

My family and the friends of my parents.

[Iron_Man]

My friends always used to do it

[Jadethedream]

Definitely not I have to tell my mum that

[Amy10223]

You don’t like your Mom coming unannounced? I guess that’s true with most young adults.

[Jadethedream]

@Amy10223 yes she texts last min hate it when she does it sometimes she worse with my brother and sister and can just turn up and they fine with it

[Amy10223]

I don’t like that either, and I don’t as a rule. Butileft something in her mailbox that I had forgotten to put in a birthday card for her. I saw her by the window in the couch and just knocked on the window. She is mad at me for getting her her transcript online from a previous college. idid it as she isn’t working now, so just to help her. But she was upset at me for using her personal info online. Soshe basically told me to go away via text. She suffers from anger issues. It’s upsetting to me.