If you feel that way and he actually loves you then it's because you need to work on yourself. Not on a way that should make you feel bad. You just need to find your purpose in life. You're probably at the perfect age to start this journey.
And when your younger this is going to be much more common. Especially since young men don't usually have as much experience managing their time as young women seem to.
But the fact that you won't see eachother for weeks at a time and he will cancel plans last minute shows that he probably isn't very attached to you. He might not even realize it.
If I were you I would tell him he's got one chance to change. I would ask him if he expects anything from you. If you ask him to change you need to be open to hearing something that might hurt you too.
And if it doesn't work out after a few weeks, it's probably time to move on.
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How old is he? Can he email you from work?
is he in a key position (new business, new client, up for promotion,…).
career-oriented men will always be busy. That said, I cannot believe he does not want his physical needs met. Can you meet him at his place? Move in?
I am often busy, but one must make time for sex
Erm girl.
The fact you think you're last screams volumes and that it's NOT YOU that's a problem.
Red flags.
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Breakup. Rather than suffering, end everything.
You can hold on because you will feel guilty but with time, you will start resenting either yourself or him. Some things should be ended asap so that you can have peace of your mindI think you have a case of lack of communication, tell your boyfriend how you feel, perhaps y'all can come up with solution, maybe a small video chat every now and then might make you feel a bit less lonely.
I don't see much that's horrible here; just someone wanting more time and attention than the other can afford to give.
Sounds like the relationship has run its course and you should consider moving on. He doesn't have enough time or doesn't want to adjust to make time for you.
Sounds like neither of you are ready for a relationship. You’re emotional and needy and you boyfriend can’t balance his schedule enough to spend time with you and instead throws money at you in an attempt to keep you happy.
Why are you horrible girlfriend?
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