Is it OK to find a guy when I'm 30 and just travel in my 20s?

[Anonymous]

[Preston_Tatum]

Honestly, like someone said it does look planned but who knows what will happen? By that I mean maybe you will find or meet someone that you really want to settle down with in 10 years. I am 30 years old and I can say that my 20s flew by so fast looking back at them. You may look the same at 30, But you may not. I have seen some 30-year-old women that look like they live a hard life. But I have seen some women into their 40s that are prettier than their daughters. As far as competing with younger girls goes, I do agree with that but as a guy I can say That guys always check girls out.

[Asker]

My friend who is 29 looks 22 decent body and she got a boyfriend no problem

[Preston_Tatum]

I am not asking you to send a photo, but if you are that pretty or you take care of yourself or maybe you have really good genetics then it may work out for you. But remember what I said earlier, guys are always, and I mean always checking girls out. We are always trying to make a move somehow. So it may work out for you! Good luck in your endeavors

[Asker]

I'm turning 25 soon and I always get told I look 20-22

[Preston_Tatum]

Maybe it will work out whatever you may choose to do, be safe on your travels!

[Asker]

I just hope I don't get some shallow guy tho

[Preston_Tatum]

Hopefully not, just know what your standards are. It’s not picky if it’s standards. If someone won’t help better you then they aren’t the best for you. On a guys point of view, it does sometimes seem like if you don’t look a certain Way or have your own house then some women will not even give them the time of day. So many times guys hear girls say that they just want a nice guy. I know a lot of nice guys but they’re all single. This is one of the many things that guys get confused about. Half the guys I know are in a relationship or married. The other half of guys either do not give up or have Given up on a relationship

[Asker]

I'm not bothered about the money thing as long as he is not a massive creep like some guy I had in the past. I wouldn't mind someone that goes to the gym so they can come with me

[Preston_Tatum]

I hear that! “About the creep thing.” I’d imagine it takes years to get rid of that title. I’m not suggesting myself, but I lift but I look more like a power lifter. “Fat with muscle”
But since guys are physical creatures maybe he will or should really take up gym time with someone who wants to go

[Asker]

When I say mad creep I mean creep. I had some guy texting asking me to find a girl on Tinder to fuck her and show him the video/pics

[Preston_Tatum]

……..
That’s really weird. Some people are really off.

[Asker]

Avoid the Chad looking guys. Average and normal relationship will be healthy. So many shallow creeps and a lot of people getting divorced better to date nerds for now on

[Preston_Tatum]

“Chad” looking guys 😂
Nerdy girls are cute but so is preppy/girly. But that’s just my preference. I work with a guy whose into goth girls

[Asker]

I wonder why guys do ask a lot of creepy things tho and wonder why no girl wants them

[Preston_Tatum]

Maybe they are in delusion? That’s definitely something to think on for days

[jasco]

If that's what you wanna do, go for it. However the older you get the more difficult it could be finding a man.

[Asker]

28 or 29 shoukd be OK tho

[jasco]

I don't know ask other women around that age

[devilish-cutie]

i would not count on making plans in life and 100% trusting them as it doesn't all depend on us and if you get certain chances in life you should take them cause you might not get them again

[Asker]

You mean with travelling?

[devilish-cutie]

no i mean generall plan to not date until you are 30 and than at 30 expect to find love

[Asker]

My friend who is working looks youthful and she got a boyfriend no problem

[Asker]

Who 29**

[devilish-cutie]

sure you can get a boyfriend, but looks only go as far, you need a real connection for it to last
i gave you my opinion

[Anonymous]

If you are prepared to face the consequences for your decisions, that's all that matters. If you want to travel in your 20's then enjoy it and embrace the possible outcome whatever that may be.

[Asker]

I don't think there will be any consequences

[Opinion Owner]

Consequences = potentially not finding a guy when you're 30. You will be competing with the younger ones.

[Asker]

Should be fine if I stay youthful looking

[SignedAutographs]

No because it looks planned. That's not how relationships work

[Wise4myage]

I see nothing wrong with that.