Do you think honest in dating apps profile descriptions is detremental?

[noamazia]

i have been using dating apps for years, mostly to find dates and not DTF stuff. for the past 4 months i have been too busy to try and date, and not only time-wise, but also i don't have the energy and the mental capacity to get to know someone new, again and again. but i do feel the need to be with someone, since its been a long time for me.
so i thought about changing my profiles to be more sex oriented, or open new accounts for that purpose. but in my mind, it seems that just writing "i don't have time to get to know new people, im here just to have fun" would just be like shooting myself in the foot. and i don't what else to write since i oppose lying to get laid, or anything really.

so what to do not to repell every potential partner?

[cookiecrusher]

Well it's your competition you need to worry about.

They spew all the nonsense and women eat it up, leaving you looking like a bad deal.

Not fair, not right and many women get used over and over again like that without learning their lesson.

As a man your word should mean something. Don't lie, just because it will get you something.

Avoid dating apps.
Talk to women in social/hobbie gyms etc.

[noamazia]

yeah, i don't care about other men. i just want a way to make my intentions clear without looking like a goddamn creep or a horndog.
unfortunately, my life are pretty secluded. my work is from home and i don't like going out if its not with friends, and when im with friends i prefer just being with them and not minding my surroundings. my hobbies also have a men rich environment.
i know that if i want something to change i need to do it, but this is just for now.